I use your paypig orgasm against you

In this blog post, I discussed gas-lighting and Financial Domination and discussed the steps I use to sway you to pay Me more and more…..these techniques generally result in an orgasm after you have paid Me a sum of cash.

The gas-lighting doesn’t end at orgasm, and I am going to tell you a big fucking truth here.

It begins as gas-lighting, mixing truth and falsehood to manipulate you….and turns into complete truth

Because I only have to manipulate you a few times to orgasm from paying Me, and then eventually it becomes your truth!

(The best part, some weak pigs only need to be manipulated ONCE, before their psycho-sexual composition is completely reformed into mindless slavery for Me.)

This is why gas-lighting is so freaking dangerous and so effective. It works, and the remedies are difficult. (maybe even impossible)

Let’s look at examples

I manipulate you into a sexy paypig orgasm, by whispering things like, “paying Me makes your cock rock hard” or “Maxed out credit cards please Me”).  I combine this with whatever other little fetish I have discovered about you, and you can’t help it, you cum.

Then, I remind you what has transpired

“Wow, look at that, you came from talking about paying Me”

or

“paypig orgasms are the most POWERFUL orgasm”

and it’s hard to argue, because you are orgasmic, your brain isn’t working and your cock is still twitching in the throes of it’s afterglow and cum is everywhere.

But a trigger has been placed.

and I’m gonna keep playing that trigger until it’s more than a trigger

Until it’s your fucking paypig TRUTH.

Next week, I’m going to talk about who I target to train.

Now…before I talk about the spending report and the paypig truth for many of My junkies, I wanted to mention that I KNOW that My websites and blog were down a lot in the past couple of weeks. (This was part of the reason I didn’t blog last week)
The issue has been a server at the hosting site that I pay to host My websites. They have done a temporary fix, but they will be moving all My sites to a brand new server that has updated software and should run my sites much better.  It may even be done already, because they said I wouldn’t go down during the switch over. Trust Me, if you have been frustrated, imagine MY frustration. I have been with this hosting company for almost ten years now. They have always treated me well, been patient with my questions, and are working to resolve the issue.  This is the first major problem I have had.  (All of My computer knowledge is self taught, so I do ask them questions that are rather basic, and yes, I do all the computer stuff myself, with only occasional help with graphics)

Now, on to the spending report!

I decided to add a little about the manipulation techniques I use with each slave

Hypno wallet was back for another hypnotic cash rape session. (go deeper, it makes your cock hard and it feels good to send tributes as we talk). This one cost him $230 Mmmmm

My special good boy, and Mark Twain fan spent $204, mostly on delicious phone calls. Who knew the words “good boy” would be such a trigger?  (Taking advantage of weakness)

and just last night, My nylon slave showed up, drooling over the new pantyhose photos and spent $214. (Another case of Me using a fetish to train someone to pay)

My foot fool spent $138 on raise the rate calls. (This one got lured in reading My blog, and somehow the raise the rate calls caught his imagination. I talk a little about feet, his fetish, but really, I get him turned  on telling him to call back at a higher rate. Sometimes I am not sure *exactly* how someone got triggered, and this is the case, but I take advantage, and you can be sure I am attempted to weave the addiction more tightly)

Fuckover Alert! PIG dropped $600 in the last two weeks, and its become more intense lately. He responses to repetitive stroke and pay with edging and humiliation and abuse thrown in. He got addicted to the intense orgasms.

Another slave I used a fetish on and trained to pay was titfool. This guy goes nuts over My breasts, and I taught him to stroke and pay to get him. He had no chance.

My sweet paycub paid $202 on Niteflirt and another $25 in a gift card for My vacation! paycub is an example of someone who was had one fetish, but was interested in FinDomme. I married the two fetishes, and he is Mine. (And he always reads My blog, so I bet I hear about this in a day or two, probably with a gift attached! haha)

And princess gigi spent $311 over the last couple weeks, on the conservative side for her. You can read about her on the paypig Hall of Shame

My egghead was about for $135. This boy has a mind control fetish. A match made in heaven for what I do!

Huge Fuckover Alert!  Star junkie lost control in a fun session and spent $756. I’m not sure how he came to be My financial slave, for so long he silently clicked and paid, and without any help from Me, other than reading My writings and listening to My audios become addicted. There is no safety with Lauren

My click and pay Eunuch spent $242. This boy had  a few fetishes going on that I continue to leverage for My enrichment

Cumstain the wallet humper showed up to spend $175. He has specific fetishes, but the larger theme of them is “HUMILIATION” What can be more humiliating then Me ruining your life financially for the fun and profit of it?

I had another little fun session with MP, the leggings whore for $252.  I’m pretty sure this one had a FinDomme fetish when I acquired him. I made it stronger by multiplying it with other fetishes. You are not safe here.

and sissy j succumbed to My charms this week. This time spending $129, and finding herself doing assignments again. Sissy fetish taken advantage of. Those sissies are really vulnerable

Fuckover Alert!  New to My service and My blog is good boy jj, who learned how I leverage men into becoming paypigs. He is  a work in progress 🙂 He spent $340 and change in his very first session 🙂

Sissy lily was back!  Oh she was My Santa slave one Christmas and bought Me most of the fine jewelry I own, and it really damaged her credit. oh well 🙂 But she has been spending lately, and last week managed $107.

I had fun with cucky phil for $290 🙂   (leverage ass fetish and cuckold fetish, so fun!)

Fuckover Alert! My slave brian/paycunt is traveling again, and this time spent $436. Hey cunt, you need to get yourself a new credit card, or ask for a credit limit increase, or do a loan consolidation so there is MORE CASH available to satisfy My greed!

and Addicted pete was back, spending $141 trying to pretend he doesn’t have a panty-wearing fetish. Yea, ok pete.

and dr x spent $140.  I am looking for you x…I’m going on vacation VERY soon and I want a HUGE session before I go. I want a nice vacation.

pay-bot was back, spending $212 on pay to views. Still figuring him out too. but I will

Lauren’s Greedy VACATION coming!

In less than two weeks, I am going on a road trip vacation with My boyfriend that will include museums in DC, hiking in Virginia and relaxing on the coast of Maryland.  I want you to please Me this week and next by sessioning with Me so that I have LOTS of cash for vacation fun!

Note:  I’m taking a break from writing a blog entry the week of 6/5, the blog will return next week 6/12, with an extra long spending report!  Lauren

What is Financial Domination anyway?

Although I know many of you reading this are very well versed in what Financial Domination is, I think that there may be those that are completely unfamiliar with what Financial Domination is, so this is a basic primer explaining.

Financial Domination is a sexual fetish, that is usually (but not always) a part of a Dominant/submissive BDSM relationship.

In a BDSM Dominant/submissive relationship, the submissive partner surrenders his/her/its power to the Dominant partner. This might manifest as a bondage and/or S/m relationship (like tying someone up and spanking them), or it might be more service oriented where the submissive partner (or slave), serves and pleases the Dominant in a variety of ways, by deferring to them, agreeing to certain modes of dress, (think of slutty clothing, or men in female clothing for example). It might involve body worship. (Such as kissing feet). Sexual humiliations are not uncommon.   There are hundreds of variations, all referred to as power exchanges, where one partner surrenders varying amounts of control or power to their Dominant partner.

One variation is Financial Domination, in which the Dominant partner demands money of their submissive partner. Money is, of course, a very concrete form of power. The fantasies about how a Dominant wrests that power are quite varied, but often involve themes around the natural superiority of the Dominant partner and/or various mind control scenarios.  This is the type I specialize in.

Some aficionados of the fetish are more submissive than others. Some love the surrender to The Woman, and how to best please Her. Many of these types serve one Mistress at a time, sometimes only One in their life.   Others just get off on the humiliation of having a woman take their cash.  That type tends to be a little less loyal in their Mistress choice, often serving a different one every session. (Their money spends well though)

It’s worth mentioning that a variation of this is the Sugar Daddy, where a man throws cash at a beautiful woman, because he can and it pleases him. I think of it as a sub-type of what is called in phone sex circles,  GFE, or the “girl friend experience” (I actually have a couple of clients that are better described as this, and their money spends just as well)

There is a vocabulary around Financial Domination.

FinDomme:  A Woman who specializes in this fetish. (FinDom for men and some women who prefer the term)

Paypig:   The man (or sissy or occasional woman) who spends

Rinsing:  The act of taking the cash, (Not usually used with long term slaves, but occasionally). It’s usually a pretty intense session, and requires the active participation of the Dominant

Click and pay:  That, as far as I can tell, was a term that became prevalent on Niteflirt, due to the ability to serially sell pay to views that go on and on in a series of emails that escalate in price as one goes on.  They don’t even require the presence of the Dominant, they can be enjoyed by the fetishist on their own schedule, knowing their chosen FinDomme gets the cash.

Wallet Rape/Cash Fuckover:   Pretty self-explanatory, those are sessions that run on the….expensive side.

Tribute:  The act of sending money, with nothing expected in return. They are often random and FinDommes deserve them.

Raise the Rate call:  This is a game played on the phone line. The paypig calls the Domme at Her usual rate, and begs Her to Raise it! (Or the Domme just decides to), the Domme raises the price the pig pays, hangs up and he must call again at a higher rate. It’s really fun and easy to get a major rinsing this way!

Financial Domination Etiquette:

One does not contact a FinDomme empty-handed. It is always better to pay Her something before contacting Her. The only acceptable question to ask before payment has to do with what types of payments She can take. If you are contacting Her on  a site that takes payments, like Niteflirt, you don’t get to ask this question.   A FinDomme can and will block you for wasting much of Her time.  It’s worth noting, that paying in the past doesn’t guarentee you Her attention in the future.

Also, if you are doing an online session and have to go. TELL Her, so she is not wasting Her time waiting for you to pay again.

Every week I finish My post with a little spending report, which paypigs have spent more than $100 on Me this week!

Let’s begin this week with Foot Fool, who spent nearly $300 in a couple little raise the rate sessions. So fast the cash goes that way!

Huge Paypig Alert!  My Philly Ass slave went nuts this week and spent $810 on delicious ass photos and a phone call. Oh, and he hit the $10,000 level of spending, becoming My newest 5 digit spender!

My paycub was generous with giftcards, for My upcoming vacation, spending $150 on them and another $75 for an Amazon gift card. (And $20 on NF too!)

Paypig Alert! Princess gigi kept her secure position as My #1 spender, by pleasing Me this week for $535 🙂 Good little virgin!

Also caught up in a little raise the rate game this week was tit fool, who spent $220 this week. Mmmmm Good fool!

Paypig Alert!  Also very busy this week for Lauren was Dr X, spending $439. I want My soldier to report again this week!

My elegant foot lover spend $135 this week. Yum He does love My toes!

Paypig Alert! My addicted slave paycunt was about this week, spending $605 on Me! I love it when he is on business trips and oh soooo vulnerable in those lonely hotel rooms!

Helpless dave gets a mention, with $109 in spending this week. I know he’s gonna cave on a big sesssion SOON.

Who is gonna get a mention next week?
You?

Today I’m just in the mood for strong messages, so I made you three captioned photos

I also want YOUR caption suggestions!  You can comment on My blog, mail Me on Niteflirt, or message Me your idea on Twitter.  I might use it to make $$$ 🙂

Click on the photos for a larger, readable version!

Oh, and you can get MORE from this photo set in the PTV that also includes My latest slideshow, Ego Bomb, which sold very well this weekend!

And I cash fucked many of you with this photo set here. Only $2 lousy dollars will get you started.

And photos from this set, I call Female Supremacy, are coming out soon

Now that I have made your dicks collectively throb, it’s time for the spending report!

Pay pig alert! Miss marla was back, spending just short of $500 mostly on one really long delicious phone call. So nice to fuck her wallet again!

Titfool squeaked in for a mention with $102 worth of spending this week! Every slave should do at least that EVERY week, I think.

My elegant foot lover spent $135 on worship of My bare feet.

Huge Pay pig alert! and yes, princess gigi is still going strong, this week for $812, and she learned that her clitty was for paying, not for cumming this week!

Sweet helpless save spent $140, including a $50 tribute on pleasing Me. Spending on Me makes his helpless dave cock soooo hard!

egghead did sooo well this weak, being tranced, and lured into helpless obedience to the amount of $238

Pay pig alert! and PIG spent almost $400 this week stroking to photos I sent him. SO fucked!

MP, My leggings lover was back for a Friday night romp of exactly $300. YUM!

pignic was back, spending $121 on photos to drool for!

Pay pig alert!  Paycunt was on a road trip again, and sooo vulnerable when he is. I got him for $415 this time. Mmmm

Back again after a long time was Loser Louis, this time for $151 🙂 They just cannot stay away.

Pay pig alert!  Dr X was around again, spending $261 in a delicious session. I’ve got a feeling we’re due for a really BIG session, hopefully before My end of June vacation!

Look at all those big sessions this week! I’m looking to do more, so I can have a REALLY good time on My June vacation, so cough up that cash losers!

To the casual observer, this fetish makes no sense at all.

Why would any man (or sissy or woman) get so controlled by a woman like Me, who is obviously just out for greed and power?

Why would they turn over large amount of cash with nothing in return?

What is happening?

First of all, not all men become paypigs obviously. (*sigh) but certain man are more vulnerable.

Almost all, (but not all interestingly) men are submissive

Most have a hole in their lives, most have a need for a Woman who will Take. Control.

Some of you have a wife or girlfriend, but do not have that need filled.

Others of you are alone, and lonely, because you have not found the Woman you need.

Well I am here to take advantage of you in your hour of need. It will feel good! It will feel terrifying!

You may escape with only minimal damage to your finances, but more likely you will come back again and again and because the way I make you feel is amazing, the $$ wont matter

You will be part of something bigger. It will be raw and personal. It will hurt and it will feel amazing. It wont look the same for all of you. Some of you will get more sweetness, and others more abusive bile, but it will be perfect for YOU.

And the end result will be simliar. I’ll be enriched by being your muse, your abuser, your Goddess, your conspirator, your Secret Keeper.

You are here, because you have a need that I can help you with.

Just get out your wallet and call or write

Lauren

Now…on the lighter side, I want to share with you guys, My Amazing new ultra high pink stilettos

See?

You can see more in My newest series

Now,  after you drool over My heels and how they make Me look even MORE amazing, you can read this week’s amazing spending report!

Pay pig alert! First mention goes to My Foot Bitch, who spent over $500 in arousing raise the rate calls this week!  That was sooo much fun!

Dr X was about, spending $184. We kept missing each other this week, and I smell a big fuckover coming up.

HUGE pay pig alert! and Princess gigi lost her kitten mind this week, spending over $755 on calls and tributes for her Mistress. There is a reason she is #1 on My spending list.

Also about was paycunt, spending nearly $200 on Me 🙂

Pay pig alert! PIG managed to spent another $500 this week. This Not-a-man is completely out of control! And I’m playing him and his wallet like an instrument!

I also welcomed back cumstain, who spent $175 on My newest strap on photos. And YES there are more!

HUGE pay pig alert! My elegant foot lover also had another big week, spending $540 trading secrets with Me. YUM

My paycub was back again, spending $147 on Niteflirt (those ultra heels got him) and $75 in gift cards for My vacation!

New to My blog and My service was “eager piggy”  He spent a lot of cash on PTVs while I wasn’t even around. It was sweet to come back to it. His spending?  $310. Not bad for a newbie to Me!

Pay pig alert!  Loserbeast was back with a splash this week as he sampled widely from many of My PTV sessions. Bye bye $367. And what a good boy leaving so much feedback this week too

New to My blog is a guy I’m going to call. “Corset lover”   Corset lover drooled over photos of Me in My (what else?) Corset, and ended up being victimized for $126. Mmmmm

HUGE pay pig alert! Another victim of My Ultra heels was OinkLoser, who spent $657 on PTVs containing them this week. Hey Oink Loser, I have a few more!  He has now reached the 5K level of spending!  Onward and Upward to 10K!

I’m happy to note that egghead was quite busy this week, as I tranced him into adding hundreds to his account and getting him to spend $249 of it on Me. There is more for the taking!

and another HUGE pay pig alert!  was My shoesniffing Loser who spent $1,0344 dollars on photos of My shoes. Now THAT is pathetic. There are ALWAYS more for you sniffer!

That does the spending report. What I noticed is how many BIG sessions there were this week.  That was. Delicious.

More. please. now.

Load up your account and serve!

I am doing a post about planning My vacation, because well, I don’t feel like thinking about anything else.

I know you guys love to hear about the psychology aspect of Financial Domination.  That’s not always as easy as it seems because I am highly intuitive and just know how to hook you. I don’t have a methodology or cookie cutter to addict you. I just have techniques that I apply when given the opportunity!

I thought about doing a poll, but am lacking inspiration for a poll subject (taking suggestions for future entries)

So today, instead of coming up with a brilliant, dangerous blog entry.

I planned a vacation. I mean…I take all My vacations on the backs of the piggies. They always pay for My companion too, which in this case is My boyfriend. (yes, he’s a real man, with a big cock)

At the end of June, we’re driving down to Washington DC. I haven’t been there since I was a kid. We love museums, so there are many on the agenda, esp art museums and the Smithsonian. We will dine, and shop and perhaps club if we can find the energy!

After leaving DC, we’re going over to Shenandoah National Park, where we will leisurely drive through it, stopping for some hiking and enjoying nature.

After that we are driving to the Coast of Maryland (Via Virginia beach), to spend a few days on the coast of Maryland enjoying beaches and boardwalks and just relaxing. We may do some kind of a boat thing, like whale-watching or a scenic harbour ride.   At the end of the week,  we will drive home.

What I don’t do much of on vacations:  Lay on the beach.  I’m (not) sorry, first of all, I burn so easily with My skin and second of all. BORING. I mean, if I have a book…I can for a short while, but I like to walk, explore, swim, beach-comb. I like seeing things  I’ve never seen before.  My boyfriend is the same way. I’m sure we won’t even bring beach chairs with us.

I also don’t drink very much. (usually).  It is not that I am a cheap date, just that I won’t be spending much of your cash on booze. VERY occasionally, I will have enough to get giggly, but hangovers are a waste of time. I will likely enjoy a few mixed drinks during the week with dinner. (If something tempts Me into being tried). My drinks of choice when I do drink?  Margaritas  and Saki, but an intriguing cocktail I have never had might tempt Me too.

So that is how I spend My time today when I usually blog.  Planning a vacation!  And I didn’t have to spend one dime of My own money making hotel reservations. Between what pigs have given Me for hotels.com giftcards, (paycub and needful one get special recognition for this) and credit card points, I had enough for the whole week.   And they are nice places! I don’t stay in crappy hotels, and I insist on being at least as comfortable as home.

But you piggies can ALL be sure that I will be hitting you up for vacation cash. For gas, food and adventures!  Be afraid.

I’ve already put some gift cards on My wish list!  The gasoline one is only available in New England, but we will at least leave New England on a full tank!

Now it is time for the spending report!

Pay pig alert!   My foot fool was back with MORE fun raise the rate games on the phone, this time to the amount of $435 Mmmmm. Imagine how fucked over he will be if I get him buying foot photos?

New to Me and My blog is a slave I named, “silent wallet” since he didn’t email Me, but just kept buying Pay to views.  A low maintenance paypig!

My sissy slave and kitten, princess gigi kept pleasing Me this week with tributes, and it totaled $387!

HUGE Pay pig alert!   Sissy marla was back after a little break, (I knew she would be back), and she spent almost $1200 in a couple sessions. I have the feeling there is at least one more huge fuckover before she crawls back into her safe space to lick her wounds!

My elegant foot lover tributed Me $110 and drooled over photos of My perfect bare feet! Haha, you fools, when you tribute Me, I reward you with photos, and then before you know it, you keep sending Me more and more cash!

paycub kept pleasing Me, this time for $145. I bet he’s going to be visiting My wishlist this week, if I know him 🙂

Pay pig alert!  PIG kept losing himself in long pay message sessions where he spent about $500 for the week. Mmmmmm

A slave I enjoy a lot, sleepy, pleased Me for $146 this week! I always love seeing that boy in My blog mentions!

Dr x made a little appearance, spending $125. I’m watching for you dr x!

HUGE Pay pig alert!  in another HUGE session, another slave trying to stay way, Krispy, failed. I am the winner, he is the loser and I have $874 of his money. I bet I get more soon too!

My Friday night special piggy, MP was back for his weekly leggings indulgence, and it turned $300 worth of his cash into MY cash!  YUM.

and piggy david was back, this time for $109. He loves hearing about how much I take from men. Someday I hope to take a lot from him!

I leave you with an alluring photo and a promise to try to do My best so that many of you can earn your own blog mentions!

Mistress Lauren

I like gifts, as does any woman (hell person).

FinDommes like them because we get a greater % of your cash! No fees to pay, taxes to pay.

They have limits of course because you can’t use gifts or gift cards to pay bills, and for that reason I still desire your hard cold money!  My mortgage, car payment, student loan payment, utility bills still need your cash.   But….I am creative otherwise. I also don’t have a use for many restaurant gift cards, because in My area, we don’t have many chain restaurants.

I buy few groceries, between getting stuff on Amazon Pantry and Whole Food gift cards, that covers about 80% of My food bills 🙂  Petco gift cards pay for My dog’s food. Starbuck’s cards pays for My latte indulgence a couple times a week.

Slaves pay for everything for My home. Computers, television, furniture, lighting, telephones, sound equipment, clothing, home gym equipment.  Also things like books, coffee, dishes, purses.  If I need a gift for someone else (often at Christmas) I implore a slave to get it for Me. I haven’t had a lot of luck with shoes online.

One of My favorite gifts recently was My new Roku HD smart TV. (Thanks needful one!) I can watch Netflix, and shows from Amazon Prime, (I’m currently watching Dr Who episodes) and lots of other options.

Vacations are slave driven 🙂  There are Hotels.com gift cards (one of My favorites!), Airline gift cards and I see that Amazon even has Uber gift cards now.  I had a slave, wallet rape toy even send Me Disney gift cards and I had a luxury Disney vacation. (I’m such a child in many ways)

So if you want to treat Me, I am all about that!

These are all Egift cards I would love to have. If you get one, be sure you sign it so I know who did it. If I don’t already know how to get a hold of you, drop Me an email.

Use the email address laurenamazon@gmail.com

More Disney cards (collecting for another adventure in the fall!)

VISA ecards (I can actually use those for almost anything!)

For clothes and shoes

Macy’s ecards

Kohl’s ecards

My wishlist on Amazon is also a great place to look

I always have coffee on there, and right now, there is a media center I want that fits My new TV better 🙂

and some gift cards too!

Sometimes guys are disappointed to see I don’t have many shoes on My wishlist. There is a reason for that.

I have had TERRIBLE luck with shoes on Amazon not fitting Me right.   It *is* possible to return stuff, but if you do it too often Amazon has been known to shut down your list. So for this reason, I don’t ask for many shoes, that’s one thing I like to try on in person. It’s heartbreaking to see a beautiful pair of shoes a client has bought Me that doesn’t fit right and I can’t return. So I just don’t.

So now that I’ve inspired you to buy Me prezzies, I want to do the spending report!

Let’s start with one of My best present buyers, paycub!  This week paycub spent $255 on Niteflirt, and another $125 on gift cards, which I had no idea were coming until they arrived! What a nice surprise!

Pay pig alert! And wallet rape toy! He spent $508 on Niteflirt and another $122 on gifts, (coffee and gift cards)

New to My service and blog is “foot fool” who spent about $205 in a rousing raise the rate game!  Wait until he actually checks out My foot photos!

My sweet kitten, princess gigi had no success in staying away, but earned a release after a week spending about $225. YUM

My exposure sissy was back for more exposure fun, this time for $135. Mmmm

MP (more please) was back for his Friday night leggings session and spent $201 🙂

No nonsense guy spent $104 he doesn’t have on My ass photos this weekend 🙂

I was SOOO happy to have My shoe sniffing cuck back, and he spent $197.

paycunt and I had a fun session and he spent $184.

and having his first blog mention, My long time junkie, addicted pete, finally spent more than $1oo in a week to get a mention. (He spent $114). I was surprised to see he hit the $3000 level of paying Me!

Wow!

Pay pig alert! Dr X was back for several sessions, paying a total of $540 to Me this week. Soon will be another HUGE one Dr x.  I’m waiting for you

Silly tit fool was back for more breast teasing, this time spending $254 on me!  Delicious!

Leg tranced paid about $100 this week on My leg photos, on Only fans (It’s hard to track on that site, but the site is a LOT of fun)

Another tranced out PIG from only fans is PIG himself, who spent about $350 on his addiction

So lets see how many of you please Me this week with Cash spending and gift cards.
I’m waiting…

oh, and if you haven’t seen My new Hypno ass slideshow, it’s worth the spend! In fact, here are ALL My recent

Pay to views on Niteflirt

Why pay a FinDomme?

What happens when a pay pig pays a FinDomme? (especially Me!)

1. When you hit send, or load up your account, it’s exciting! The adrenaline flows, the blood begins to flow, interest is added to your otherwise boring life.
2. Your cock gets stiff in anticipation
3. Your mood lifts as you know you will be pleasing Me

This is the time to touch yourself, because it feels soooo good when the paypig pleasure has been primed

If you do it again and again, it gets a little more intense each time!

Now if you edge again and again (bringing yourself almost to orgasm, then backing off),

the pleasure is freaking amazing!  And there is NOTHING as heady and addictive as combining paying with the edge of orgasm. Mmm

Now abuse. I like to layer that into it, because it’s fun, and because it gets results. It too will make your cock throb…and if you learn to become hard and aroused to abuse and humiliation, it makes a hard cash fuck even easier!

What is more humiliating then taking your cash from you because you’re a pathetic loser?

Stroke your cock to this, and then go buy something!

Good boy, (or girl!)
Now time for the spending report!

Pay pig alert! PIG surrendered to his inner desires again and again, spendingover $400 YUM

My cucky ass lover spent $345 in a nice HOT session, it had been so long!

My slave needful one was back, spending $150.  I was so hoping for those wishlist items. Oh well, next time!

paycub just spent $32 on Niteflirt this week, but he gets a mention because he surprised Me with  $100 gift card from My wishlist! I love that

My good little kitten princess gigi spent $147 this weak, still licking her wounds from last week!

I’ve been having fun with sexy jocelyn, who signed a “clit” control contract with Me, and spent $132. The fun has just begun!

My paypig victim was back, this time spending $213. Hey victim, you’ve got Me just a little concerned, and I can’t email you right now as you know…so please check in with Me.

and My leggings addict, more please, spent $201 this week on his weekly Friday session. YUM

New to My blog, but not to Me is “shiny iz” who barely qualified with $110 spend this week. I was surprised to see that he has spent well past the $1000 level lifetime!  Well done!

Krispy was back, spending nearly $200.  He emailed Me that he wanted to do a phone session, but we keep missing each other. Keep looking for Me Krispy, I’m looking forward to it!

Pay pig alert!  My shoe sniff Loser was back!  He spent $460 on Me last night in a HOT session. I can’t wait for the next one and

x dash 84 was back spending $214 this week, in a delicious click and pay in the Oink and pay series. YUM

Helpless dave spent 160 in a tasty click and pay session. YUM, how I enjoy those!

and also new to My blog but not Me is pay-bot, who spent $172 this week on click and pay for Me!

It’s been a while, but I had a fun $191 session with drunktard!  Oh how I missed using him!

So who will be in the blog next week? There are a number of you with a target on your back. Give it up, I WILL lure you in

Paypig psychology is not very complicated, although one might think so.

Paypigs don’t begin as paypigs, they begin as ordinary submissive men who want to please a Dominant woman.

So that is My target group.  My photos, My blog pages, everything I do is designed to target submissive men and sissies (and some women)

I am the Woman who otherwise would NEVER give you a second glance, never give you the time of day. But I give you an opportunity to have the attention from a Dominant Woman you would never otherwise get.

Then I take that need and twist it.

I addict you and then make you pay more and more..by addicting you to those intense orgasms

Of course, you have the choice of NOT paying, but that means no attention, no more intense orgasms. It is a real addiction, so that is My only consideration.
I warn you in advance, and that is My only mercy

Otherwise, I have none.

No mercy for paypigs….

This series is an example of that “No mercy” philosophy playing out! Go play it now

Speaking of no mercy….who is in the spending report today?

There were a LOT Of huge spenders this week. YUM!

Popper bitch was back for more exploitation, this time spending $135 on phone calls while I conditioned his mind more and more

Pay pig alert! Princess gigi was out of control pleasing Me this week. Oh the effect I have on this sissy paykitten!  This week she spent $850. MMMMmmmm.

My partner in crime, and stolen moments guy was back spending $108 and having very interesting conversations with Me!

Back again with some delicious click and pay to the amount of $110, was rum nut. Drink up and spend some more nut!

Pay pig alert! PIG had a huge weak, as I discovered a new extraction method and he spent about $460 on Me. yum!

My robot eunuch paypig dropped $194 on Me this week, mostly on the new series. YUM

Wallet hole was back with $117 worth of click and pay. Mmmmm

HUGE Pay pig alert! Perhaps his biggest week ever, My elegant foot lover spent time literally spoiling Me with tributes as I teased him with feet photos. He spent $707 this week.  YUM

Pay pig alert! My long time paypig,  wallet cunt, made another appearance this week, this time for a delicious $388.

And pignic was back for $201 worth of spending in a nice PTV session!  Mmmmm

And slave x-dash-84 spend $195, mostly on the new series. Mmmmm well done!

Pay pig alert! Another big pig spender this weak was easter egghead! Who obeyed and tranced out paying to the total of $466. YUM

More please also was back, for more legging photos, this time spending $132 on his weekly Friday night frolic!

and leg tranced became finally broken and spent about $220 on My leg photos. Mmmmm

Pay pig alert!  and finally paycub, pleased Me to the tune of $370, becoming utterly lost in My new series. One Thought.

Mistress Lauren has a wish

Next week I want to blog about someone who spends $1,000 or more. Will it be you?

Oh numbers!

This Findomme loves numbers and statistics. My mind is very analytical, logical and intuitive.  I have a system of addiction that is very effective and profitable, and I am always seeking to make my addiction skills even more effective.

I just realized very recently that I had surpassed the $2,000,000 in sales on Niteflirt. (It happened sometime in January)  I didn’t realize how close I was–the feature to see My lifetime earnings wasn’t available for a while, and then suddenly there it was, and I had surpassed the goal with no fanfare.  That’s only on Niteflirt… NON NF spending, gifts and other things have probably been another…$100,000 over the years

I have been on Niteflirt for many years, but it was only ten years ago that I began doing it full time, and developing a fetish for FinDomme, so MOST Of that cool $2 million has been in the last 10 years.

My best year was $342,000.  Some of the years around the financial meltdown and Niteflirt meltdown of 2009 were less impressive. (Hey, if you guys can’t get credit, you can’t spend!)

Your collective slavery has bought Me a home, paid for a renovation of it. (And an unexpected huge roof repair). It’s bought Me (and my boyfriend) several cars, paid off My student loans.  It’s paid for vacations to Hawaii, 4 Florida trips, 8 trips out west (various destinations) a New Orleans trip, and several long weekends in closer places like New York City, Maine, the Cape…

Some more statistics:

I earned about 16% of that on phone calls, 5% in trips and the bulk in Pay to view mails 78%.   Some also came from commissions I got from new guys joining the site and spending, and from Goody bags (about 1% combined)

This is My biggest selling Pay to view series of all time, with sales of almost $25,000.  It’s countless how much additional spending this series inspired:  The first email alone has almost 500 sales.

Once I have a slave under My Dominion, it is very difficult for him to leave Me. Susceptible men easily are lured into Lauren addiction. My top 10 spenders of all time have served Me for an average of 7 years. (Range 3 to 9.5 years) All of My top ten have spent on Me very recently. (in past month)

Niteflirt keeps these little performance statistics they share with us. In both earnings AND client retention I have been in the 100 percentile in EVERY month since they have been keeping track. That means I retain more clients than more than 99% of all flirts, and earn more than 99% of all flirts.

There is a reason I’m so dangerous. I am good at this. Consistently good. There is nothing boring about Me, and everything erotic.

No one makes your cock as hard as Me as I cash rape you, humiliate and emasculate you.  You will hate yourself, but love Me. And once I have My hooks in you, I will consume you.  (And it happens more often than not, a few lucky ones jump out of the net before properly hooked)

And now it’s time for the spending report!

Pay pig alert! New to My blog is popperbitch!  This bitch went nuts with Me on raise the rate phone calls, and in his very first week with Me spent $580. Wow!

I had fun with My exposure sissy again this week, to the tune of $120 🙂

PIG pleased Me quite a bit this week, for $140 🙂

Pay pig alert!   Oink Loser 10K was back again, this time spending $488. SOOo close to $500 this week! Soon, oh soon he will hit the 5K level of spending. Then the new delicious 10K goal.

More please, My leggings whore made his weekly visit to Me and spent $125. This is becoming a weekly thing, and what dedication!

My good pup, paycub was back for another delicious round of submissive cash spending on Me. This week was $180, including a yummy $75 paymail!

Pay pig alert! And another big spender this week!  Princess gigi spent $463 as she struggled to be a good little kitty, with a soft chase payclitty 🙂

My good girl, sissy j, was back for more chastity and exposure games, and it cost her $171 this week. I’m looking for you j, let’s have more fun!

My oh my, jaybee was back after a hiatus, BARELY getting a mention at $100.50 of spending.

I had another nice fuckover with star junkie, for $242.  This is becoming a thing!  Mmmm

I know that candyballs has been anticipating this blog entry!  And he spent HUGE on Me this week, to a happy cashfuck tune of $654.  YUM.  Keep that up candyballs, it’s the only way to please Me!

I manipulated another $161 out of titfool. I think he is still drooling!

I hope to see more of you on My blog next week.  I love knowing so many serve Me so well!

I get asked this a lot…seems paypigs want to know their fate!
“What’s going to happen to me, Mistress?”

A. This is what WILL happen (assuming you interact, buy some stuff, read the blog)

1. I will expose you to My brilliant mind and body
2. I will use both covert and overt manipulation tactics on you
3. you will be given instructions, such as “stroke your cock when you pay”

B This is what will PROBABLY happen

1. you will spend more $$$ then you intended
2. you will find paying Me to be very arousing and compelling
3. you will be unable to help yourself and will return to My words and photos again and again

C. This is what MIGHT happen  (about 30% of those in the first group end up here)

1. you overspend by A LOT, causing you some financial hardship. Some of you (about 1/3 of this group) will liquidate stocks or retirement accounts. Some of you do credit consolidation loans, and then hit your credit limit again on your cards.
2. you become truly addicted to Me. Many of you won’t be able to even get an erection or have an orgasm without paying Me. Some of you will LOVE this. Other’s will not love it so much. I take enjoyment out of either situation
3. You will become a devoted junkie. Sometimes that devotion is simply to feel a normal erection, but some pigs know that they are greatly privileged to serve Me.
4. Some of you will try to leave. 95% of you won’t succeed, and will return within a year. Usually within a month. VERY often within a week.

D. What occasionally happens: (My plan for the fate of paypigs, ultimately!)

1. you spend every penny you can lay your hand on for Me,
2. you may go bankrupt
3. you might lose your home, your spouse/girlfriend because of spending on Me
4. you might have twice as many bills as income
5. you really are insolvent, but your addiction remains. You will do anything to keep paying Me. Suck cock, steal from your family, go without eating,

When do pigs usually “get out”?

Some pigs never start…….but of those that do…..

Sometimes after spending EVERYTHING, going bankrupt, and being unable to pay Me for any attention whatsoever…they can leave.  But more often they stroke to My blog (like some are this entry), they cum on their bills. The word “bankruptcy” makes them hard….

Sometimes they piece their financial life back together….

and begin spending on Me again!

Want to tell Me where you fall? Look at the categories above and decide where you fit in best!
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and remember, I want ALWAYS to progress you to the next level.

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Now, let’s check the spending report…..after this photo 🙂

Pay pig alert! Let’s start out with My #1 piggie of all time, princess gigi.  This week saw her sending Me another $520, mostly in tributes!

PIG couldn’t help himself AGAIN this week. (Addiction), and he spent $201

Another addicted junkie is “more please”  His spending this week was $175.  He has been making Me his Friday Night addiction

My sissy j was back! This time for $135 here on Niteflirt, plus a little spoiling 🙂

Pay pig alert!  My star junkie just couldn’t get away. I lured him in with “discounts” And he spent $490 on those discounts.  Hahaha sucker!  So cock hardening though…

and candyballs was back for another $145 in spending. Stop trying to hide candyballs. He’s way surpased 1K of spending and he’s only been around for less than a month.

Pay pig alert!  Another big spender this week, and back after a break was special k!  We did a HOT long phone call when he clicked and paid emails for Me…so erotic! He spendt $520 Mmmm

My exposure sissy spent $140 while I had fun at his expense!

My nylon slave spent $135 on My hosed feet, but I have a feeling more exploitation is coming SOON.

titfool squeaked in a mention with $101 in spending on My perfect boobs.

Also new to My blog is sissy daphne, who spent $200 on Amazon gift cards for Me. Mmmmmm Good way to start daphne!