Category — Extreme Financial Domination

I have been busy working on My new webpage, to replace what used to be at Laurenrules.com . Right now its just a holder page, so don’t get too excited, but I have lots of stuff that will go on it, and hoping to have it up by July 1st or even sooner.  This blog is not going anywhere, and will be linked into that page when the time comes.

There will be several pages dedicated to Financial Domination of course!

There will be a page on EXTREME Financial Domination, talking about the psychology of it, etc etc.  I’ve also going to have a page on how you broke and poor money slave wannabes can serve Me–

Here is an example.

Broke and poor money slaves can promote Me and help Me find more money slaves!    Got a twitter?  Post this in it :

Mistress Lauren is the best and most ruthless Mistress on Niteflirt.  Check her out! http://www.niteflirt.com/phonesex/homepage?crid=sl&user_id=7265582&pid=7265582

This link goes here of course

Post it every day for best results. Feel free to throb it all over the web, not just twitter *giggles* (but do not spam with it in emails, I have a few standards and spamming is not My style nor effective)
Of course, ALL slaves can do this, not just the poor ones.

Stay tuned for more teases in My new pages:  I am really excited about how it is all turning out!  If you have any fetishes you would like Me to cover, be sure you comment.  Other fetishes I am already developing pages for include hypnosis, feminization, feet, cock control, small penis humiliation,  and forced bi/gay.   I am excited about it and hope you are too.

Now just in case I’m not busy enough, I am taking a PhotoShop online course in My spare time because  I am doing all My own graphics and want to be a little better.

In other news, check out My new Cuckolding listing.  There is a Pay to View in it, called Cuckold Hypnosis, (Part One) It’s hot for ANY  of you guys, a slideshow you should buy if you haven’t already

and speaking of New Pay To Views,

I released some today from My awesome new set “Pearls”

Go buy them, they are magnificent!

I’ve really been meaning to blog more often, but the truth is that lately, almost the moment I sign on I am bombarded with emails and calls from My junkies, all needing to spend on Me for their fix.

It’s been sooo profitable and wonderful, all of those marvelous wallet fucks have left Me in such a state of almost constant arousal!  Some rapes deserve a little extra mention.

Of note is a Loser I am thinking of as wallet bimbo..he really started of a bit pesky with email after email, which naturally I began charging for.  This is a loser who just can’t stay away.  Each time he reappears with a new handle, but his “voice” is distinctive in his emails, and before you know it, he’s paying cash for empty emails that I tell him are  a tax on a surcharge surcharge email, for sending me a two word email. This all sounds silly, but in the last week or so, I’ve milked him for about $950 bucks 🙂

And we have worm,  a pathetic loser who is getting addicted to the way big fat pay mails make him feel.  To that I say Yay!   A rough calculation shows he has spent about $350 on me this week

The iFool made an appearance briefly. I fucked him for $200 really really fast and he fled in terror.  He will be back. Weak willed submissive fools always return.

Oh, and I know how much some of you love reading slave letters, so I thought I would share this one from addicted n

Mistress Lauren,

I have been listening to your slideshow as directed.

I keep thinking of your words. I left feedback. As mentioned, I have no interest in any other flirts on NF. They really have no significance to me, so some conditioning is definitely working. I only look on NF hoping for emails from you Mistress.

I try not to worry Mistress as you say and want to be a good boy, so keep repeating what you tell me to say in the slideshow. I had to get money out of my savings for the last cc bill, so it was scary and hurt but it made my cock hard.

The secret parts of my mind are the property of Mistress Lauren. That means you can know anything and everything you want, because it is yours? It makes my cock hard to think of this.

All that I am is yours. But wont I be broken? It is scary. Yet I hear you say not to worry in my mind, and it makes me feel weak and hard.

I loved your previous POV pictures ‘addiction’. Do you have more mistress? Like your previous POV set ‘enrapture’ that I found so weakening. I just want to worhip looking at the crease in your panties…..

(name changed for privacy)

Yes addicted n, you may be broken, and it may be scary, but it will be the biggest rush of your life..

Now addicted n referred to a recording..This is something I have not done previously, a VERY long recording. It’s some 31 minutes, filled with multiple tracks and hypnotic audio. Your life will never be the same.

you too can have your mind warped by it..buy it now

And I am sooo excited because I splurged with your cash and got a custom fitted red latex dress, and of course I did a photo shoot in it. See the photos here, you’ll probably lose control and beg for more

and all of you foot junkies have been begging for more PTVs, so have no fear (or perhaps you should), here is a series of some of My best foot shots ever!

Begin here

So click and pay junkies!  Maybe you’ll get your name in My blog next

It seems so harmless..and many of you *were* able to only make this one purchase this weekend from Me..but not most of you

This slideshow..with this mind altering audio–layered with subliminal messages and a special programming exercise.

So how did I earn so much from this?  Once a pay pig listens…he can’t stop.  One of My long time pay slaves…Dr X, completely lost control. He called me on the phone, and I began sending him huge Pay mail after huge paymal, and using My voice to make him completely unable to deny Me…between the paymails (which included THREE $999 emails and a $500 and $400 dollar one) and some Amazon wishlist spoiling, he spent only a few dollars shy of SIX THOUSAND DOLLARS.   Yes, it was a really profitable hour and a half.  

Now I know not all of you junkies will may that much…but I bet most of you will wish you had the money to do so….

Now, I know some of you will doubt this and I invite you to buy this pay mail, and go ahead and see for yourself.  Don’t say I didn’t warn you.  *smiles*

I have soo many slaves who just cannot go more than a day or two without begging for some photos, or making a call to hear My voice.  Many actually can no longer enjoy their orgasms, or can’t even get hard without Me.  Yes I do that to men, and I think its kind of funny.  I mean…not only does it happen, but I intentionally train men to become addicted to be, to become obsessed wtih Me…to not be able to enjoy an erection without Me, or at least not as intensely.

Now, I know many many many of you read this blog and have never experienced My power.  You may be afraid..and well you should be.  But you also will never know what you are missing unless you take the step and find out how incredibly erotic and powerful it is to know that I *am* reprogramming and manipulating your psyche to need to serve Me.  It will likely lead to wallet rape.  If I manage to embed Myself deeply within your mind….if My thought penetration is highly successful, you will find that you may become a victim of extreme financial domination 

Mmm Financial Fuckery and Mind Manipulation.  Get your wallet rape map now *laughs*

I do LOVE being a Financial Domme.

Why?

Is it the money? Well, that’s part of it.  This is indeed a very good living, but far more importantly, it rings true with My authentic self–a Woman who needs to be in charge.  Note that I didn’t say I “like” to be in charge, I actually “need” to be in charge.  This is the only vocation I have ever had in which *I* am in charge.

I have the control.  I have the power.  I do not answer to a boss, and I decide what hours I am going to devote to this pastime.  I sleep and eat and vacation when and where I want.  Working for others for a wage, didn’t resonate with Me.  I had to conform to other’s expectations, and I did not like that game one little bit, and My bosses knew it!  I made for a pretty unruly employee.

I had already dabbled in BDSM in My personal life, and found I loved being a Dominant Woman.  I did not begin as a Financial Domme, in fact I never heard of Financial Slavery my first couple of years.  I learned to swing a flogger and a single-tail whip. I learned all about Japanese rope bondage and spanking and cock and ball torture and face-sitting.  I learned how to feminize a submissive sissy and how to make My female slave cum on command in the grocery store (yes really).

So when I was in need of a little supplementation of income, I began dabbling on the site that would evolve into Niteflirt to earn money in the world of phone sex.  I didn’t have much time and did it really part time. I did a little modeling too, and tried different things–saving money to someday accomplish My dreams.

in 2007,  I truly needed a change, so I planned a move and to quit My job.  I worked Niteflirt more intensely, saving for the move. I learned about the fetish of financial domination, and began studying it, it seemed intriguing to Me. (and profitable!). My original plan was to find another job working for a wage after I moved, but having the time to truly develop My websites and Niteflirt listings, and doing photo shoots, I found I made lots more money as a phone Mistress than I ever did working, and I never looked back.  It was in 2007 that I really entered the stage of Financial Domination, and as a fetish it was the most satisfying one I had ever tried.

This is why.  When I spank or whip a slave, they are in pain while I’m doing it, and maybe for a short time afterwards, and its AWESOME, feeding My Inner Sadist. But when a slave gives Me cash, “especially” more than he can afford…that lasts.  Tomorrow I will still have his cash.  Next week I will.  I will enjoy all the items that I buy with his money, and he will only have a bill. (If My training goes as expected, that bill will give him an erection, and he will seek Me out again!)

So this long post all led to an idea.

It’s really common in the FinDomme world to see women with buttons that say.  Pay My Rent! Or Pay My cell phone bill!  I haven’t done that, because it doesn’t really turn Me on…I get something yes, but I don’t really get the pleasure of knowing how My shenanigans have effected My slave’s lifestyle (and that’s what I love to know)

So instead I thought…wouldn’t it make sense to charge men to sacrifice for Me, instead?  They give Me the cash, and also, consciously skip doing something they enjoy.  So that I have both the cash, AND the concrete knowledge that they don’t get to have something they enjoy JUST so that I can ..a. enjoy their cash  and b.  Enjoy the fact that they don’t’ have it!

So instead of the traditional Tribute buttons,

I present…Sacrifice buttons! In the $5 you agree to pay Me $5 AND give up a latte or $5 worth of coffee…

For a $10 sacrifice, you will give up lunch out, and skip it, or brownbag it instead.

For a $25 dollar sacrifice, you’re going to stay home instead of going out with the guys.

And note..you’re not ONLY sending Me the cash, you are agreeing to give up something that costs

that amount!

Want to spend more?  No problem.  Click this button, fill in the tribute amount, and describe to Me what you are going to do without for Me.  A weekend out?  New golf clubs?   Your vacation?  To all I say YUM

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In other news…

I must give a special blog mention to a returning slave….ca$h pig brian, who celebrated his return to Me by spending an unprecedented $740!  Well done brian!  He left Niteflirt, solely to avoid spending on Me…and he found his craving was unbearable, and when he came back, I was the beneficiary of a delicioius binge.

And…not too many details I want to share yet, but I have been being called three times now by a man who has decided that his wife is now My money slave.  He makes her kneel in the corner, and takes photos of her for Me, and uses her credit card to pay Me and jerks off to My photos, telling his wife that I am more beautiful than her and I deserved her money.  Hearing her sob in the background was really HOT. She is kind of like a female cuckhold, and I am like the “bull”. I hope I get more calls like that!

So stop reading now, and decide what *you* are going to sacrifice to serve Me……I can’t wait to hear about it.

Yes, I am sooo pumped about My new series I released today

There is sooo much delicious creamy fetishy goodness in this series….we have lots of suggestive imagery, and of course, My usual talents weaving words and images to separate you from your cash…..to milk you, extract from you, bleed you, demand payment from, coerce you, entice you, force cash from your wallet…whatever image blows up your skirt and makes you throb….
This set will blow you out of the water.
I think all you ca$h cows/junkies will LOVE them….there are lots of feet, stocking and strap on images in there and it’s such a HUGE set I have a lot of unused photos I can use for your customized PTV sessions.
Be Afraid. Be My cow….

Mistress Lauren

I have had so many of you begging Me to blog more often. Even though I know some of you just want the jerk material of reading about My conquests, I know that it makes so many of you vulnerable to My predations.

I really would like to blog more often, but so often, it seems like I come online, and so many of you are just waiting for Me, with wallets in hand.   Sometimes I choose between blogging and wallet rape.  It’s not rocket science to know which I pick (and should pic!)

But I do know that blogging is a tool that I have in My repertoire to help train susceptible men into their transformation as My  money slave.  Even now, there is a very good chance that you are sitting there, almost without doubt sporting a stone stiff  cock, and very likely fondling it.   Excellent!  This behavior helps condition you to take sexual pleasure in the thought of financial ruin at My hands.  Pavlov would be so proud!

So who did My blog bring down since the last post?  Well scotch scotty lost control when he read about himself here and called Me right away in marathon session that cost him nearly $700. And he pretty much has admitted to Me that I do things to him he has never even heard of in our intense phone sessions. He was so far gone that he couldn’t even cum *laughs*   Pretty pathetic huh?  He’s turning into a pretty fun money slave for Me!

Another one that returned after I blogged about him was “g-man” now known as g-wimp  This is priceless.  I sent g-wimp email after email….raising the price each time until we reached up to a $700 emails.  Twice he had to stop to get his credit card company to lift a block on adding more $$$ to his Niteflirt account, but he did it anyway.   Quite amusingly, he begged Me to stop sending him emails at one point, he couldn’t afford them.  Well…any of you that know Me, know I never stop sending the emails…..as long as you pay them *laughs*   and well he kept paying them. He got on the phone with Me for the last several, paying the final $700 one on the phone with Me.

Well, he spent an ADDITIONAL $3400 dollars (Total of over $4000).  I don’t remember any slave getting off to this fast a start since Loserbeast last summer.

Here is the BEST part.  The next day, g-wimp has the nerve to write Me this. Loser

I’m sorry to ask for this Mistress, but is there any way I can get some of the money back? I have spent way too much and I don’t know what I’m going to do.

Now that was about the funniest thing I read all week, and even *if* I could return $$ he spent on Me on Niteflirt (and there isn’t a way to do that), I wouldn’t, because he didn’t deserve it. You know, if any man is weak enough to surrender 4 grand he doesn’t have, why should I enable him to do it all over again with a different Domme?  *laughs*

And with the cash, I booked Myself a nice little spa resort vacation in March, in a warm place I can hike in and relax and get away from the New England weather.  Thanks g-wimp!

And coming later this week, a deadly series I call “Milked”   there will be a really addictive click and pay series that I’m going to make a killing on because these images will make you lose control.

This is Me thinking about how I’m going to be doing sooo many fuckovers with these photos

This is a metaphor for what I’m going to do to your wallet

Happy Valentines day to all My junkies!

I know many of you reading this are lurking, that you return to My blog to read it again and again, and that you are afraid or do not know how to begin serving Me.

Some of you serve Me from time to time,

and some of you are loyal slaves who never miss a chance to serve. Me.

I want ALL of you reading this to step up to the plate today (it’s ok if you are late, and don’t see this until after Feb 14th, better late than never)

I made a special Valentines Day clip, with photos and even put in a video piece from My archives…

So you can get it as a reward for serving Me..

 But that isn’t enough, is it?

And I do LOVE prezzies! And I added lots of appropriate V-day gifts at ALL price points…go crazy!

Now I want to talk about some of the Biggest Junkies of the week

I have a new Mystery Man, I’m going to call g-man who clicked and paid through My “Financial Slavery begins with a $2 email”   I woke up to find that he spent over $600 pleasing Me….and asked nothing in return but enjoying the contents of the paymail!  Well done g-man!

I also have a new “British Victim”  who overcame his trepidation to spend over $400 this week on Me…I think he may be addicted.  He claims he plans to stay away for awhile, but we all know how well that works…Not.

I think some of the words he wrote Me, were right on Target to how Financial slaves feel about their victimization, so I am going to share

I know that by sending this I am accepting myself as a money slave. I love it. This has been the biggest emotional rollercoaster of an hour in my hole life. The post orgasmic high is still with me. I feel guidy, happy, excited each time I think of you or zoom in on a photo.

I wholely accept that I will do this again one day (I’m still hard!). The totaly, uterly crazy thing is that the thought of doing it again makes me smile a beaming smile in a room on my own. crazy.

and

And I know you have heard it all before, but WOW. I could never have imagined financial domination could feel this good. Its turned my mind upside down. It doesnt even feel seedy anymore, just loving, caring and correct x x x x x x

and best of all this

The feeling after masturbating to financial rape is completely different to the dull lethargic feeling after normal wanking. Its almost exactly the same endorphin filled high you have after long sex with a close partner.

I’m not sure if anyone has said that before, but I also now understand the gratitude guys feel towards you after they have been raped. I feel enormous good will to you right now x x x

Welcome to the fold British victim

This week also made scottie, a weak man with a newfound Lauren addiction much much poorer….he spent HOURS on the phone with Me, getting totally tranced out, while I extracted over $1100 from him (and the week before it had been another $650)

Have fun with Me  and call back again Scottie! (yes I “am” really good at wallet rape, aren’t I?)

And of course we had cameos from Dr X and wallet cunt..both dropping several hundred.

Valentines Day is just going to cap it off!

Once I get My claws into a man, they just can’t seem to escape Me.  Most try, and some manage to stay away for a time, even a year…before being drawn back in again.

I got this letter this week from a slave

Dear Mistress Lauren,

over the years I have joined and quit NF several times, and you are pretty much the only findom who’s been able to keep it interesting. (I tend to buy a few things, feel guilty, quit, and then come back.) Your pics are just fing too good, very suggestive and erotic, but still somehow demure, and very teasing, taunting and appetizing, making a guy want more and more.

When I distance myself a bit I realize you simply have a great business going, raking it in, coming out with new products, occasional sales, good promotion. But your business is pushing men’s buttons, holding their little balls till them can’t help responding and gently squeezing till they get incrementally excited, wanting and oblivious to the cost, just needing more. You’re good at what you do, but of course you know it and love it.

And being kind of sadistic, not just wanting money but wanting to squeeze those balls till they suffer, have nothing left and are emptied and regret their total fucking stupidity and lack of control…somehow that just makes you more enticing, and you obviously know that telling them how you are going to totally fuck them over, is your way of being a coquette and adding excitement.

I thought that letter was pretty on target for My goals for all My weak little puppets. I tenderize you, and then I chew you up and spit you out to do again another day.

Some notable slaves this week.   “Sunburst slave”  (Name changed to protect their privacy) showed up for another out of control round of click and pay.  I always love being surprised by finding out that a slave has been paying and paying while I slumber.  Sunburst went through My new series and spending $270 while I was dreaming of luxurious and indulgent things.

Also, my no nonsense “young gun” also surprised Me with middle of the night spending this week, to the tune of a few hundred over several sessions.

And then, My biggest spender of the week, was Smelly.  (once again, name changed for blogging reasons) Smelly has a really strong foot fetish, and a love of what My voice does for him. He spent hundreds, maybe even as much as a grand this past week, on custom made audios that just made him week.  I gave him little mantras to repeat as he stared at My photos and admired My strong legs, and reprogrammed him to only get hard for Lauren. He bought pay mails as big as $200, just to please Me….(all of you take a lesson here)

A couple of times this week, it become apparent to Me, that many of you are purchasing My paymails on your cell/mobile phones, and need a way to see if your device is compatible with My slideshows and videos.

So I made two very short clips in the two formats My clips are in…(wmv and mp4) so you can download them on your phone to test…it’s free (You don’t need to pay the ten cent payment request, that’s just  the only way I have to deliver a NF email into your box at a click)

So now you can see if you can view My stuff right on your phone. And if  you can’t, google and you may find a way for your phone to handle it

First of all….
I have designs on your wallet, as usual. I want you to feel the weakness…..

Good, now buy the slideshow….a price designed to addict you

I can’t wait until you become helpless…like other have this week.

We have a special little cuck, who seems to have fallen back into the money slave ways that he thought he left behind
He tells Me he spent thousands years ago on a different Mistress.

This fall will be further, and of course, *I* am the Mistress who will make him fall.

And then there is Stiletto lover. Who made the mistake of requesting an hypnotic audio.  He had NO idea what was going to befall him, and now he can only get hard for Me…

And My little stroke puppet, who spent this week begging Me to make him addictive slideshows.  And he ended up paying A LOT more than he ever dreamed he would.  This loser has been MINE for years now, but this week it went to a deeper level.  Mmmm

Who will be next in My blog?
You?

This is how you know if you really *have* become poor for Lauren, and yes, most of these things have been the reality for My clients.
I invite you to add in the comments what else you think of when you are “Being poor for Lauren”

That bankruptcy becomes a real option for your future
That you spend more in a month on Me than on your mortgage
That you open a new credit card before you max out the old one, so you will have a really big splurge
That when you are so desperate to talk with Me, after months of not being able to afford it, you accept an offer to get paid for a blowjob and use the cash to get a prepaid credit card to hear My voice and tell Me about what you did.
That you spend the money you and your fiancee were saving for a house on Me.
That you eat ramen and tuna for a month so that you can pay for My boyfriend and I to go to Vegas.