Category — Extreme Financial Domination

I get this question a lot.

How much should I pay you each session Mistress? Each month? What goals do i set to pay you?

For every wallet rape toy, and Dr x paying Me thousands there are easily a hundred of you paying a lot less.

Not all who buy something of Mine will end up being My paypig.

I lay traps, and do My manipulations and some escape.
Others I send away, because they have more desire to talk to Me than desire (or ability) to pay Me. I’m busy enough talking with the guys who actually DO pay Me.

So, how much do you pay Me?

Here is My step by step guide for YOU to figure it out. (Don’t ask Me to do it, I don’t care to)

Steps to preparing to be My paypig.  Option ONE:  Run of the mill paypig option

1. Do a budget. Pare it down where you can.  Remember that if you are paying Me on credit card, your monthly bill might go up each month, work that in.
2. Identify a discretionary amount.
3. Decide on the amount you will spend per session with Me, divide that into your discretionary amount and that will tell you how many sessions you can affort with Me. Note: The more you spent per session, the more you will enjoy it. I won’t give you much attention for a small amout. You wont get ANY for a tiny amount.
4. Evaluate your choice by noting if its fitting into your lifestyle without notice, or if it is making you go without things you normally enjoy. NOTE: you SHOULD be paying enough to feel it. If you don’t feel it. Pay MORE!
5. You might set goals. Pay a $100 pay to view sometime, Finish a PTV series. Pay $2,000 in a year.

Option TWO (My favorite!)  The EXTREME paypig option

1. Apply for credit cards NOW before you start maxing them out.
2. Begin spending huge amouts on Me fast and furiously
3. Liquidate assets to keep paying Me! (sell shit, cash in your retirement)
4. Assuming that you are spending 100s and thousands, you WILL get more attention than the losers that choose Option ONE.
5. Set lofty goals.  Spend $5,000 in one session. Max out a credit card in one evening. You will love it.

Here are some recent pay to views that you might have missed! Go get them now!

Now it’s time for the spending report: It’s a  long one because I had a vacation, and as soon as I came back, you guys all mobbed Me! Busy is good, but it makes it harder to blog!

PayPig Alert! Let’s start it off with My pathetic junkie, gimp loser.  This one legged wonder spent $492, through calls and now emails. My brutal plan is to separate him from all his money so it doesn’t go to waste when he finally keels over.

Huge Paypig Alert!  My paybitch terry is back, playing blackmail games with Me, and paying Me just $15 shy of $1,000 since last blog entry. Nice! He’s going to be unable to stop, I know it!

the iFool played with danger with Me the past couple weeks, but he got lucky, coming out of it only $135 poor. Hey iFool, I wont be fucking around next time

PayPig Alert!  I was so pleased to see a long time slave who never left but was spending tiny amounts finally have a session where she spent. Marla was back, My addicted sissy paypig, and she spent $304.  This is a sissy I have caused over $100,000 of financial damage to over the years. I’m not done with you yet marla!

My addicted pantyhose slave was back with some hypnotic phone calls. His $135 is now Mine!

Huge PayPig Alert!  My titpay ATM returned again and again, spending nearly $630 since last blog entry! He really can only stroke and pay now….calling to listen to My voice, in steamy raise the rate sessions!

My special good boy and I had some stolen moments, and although he’s been quite the world traveler lately, (Japan! England!) he still managed to spend $219 on Me.

My exposure sissy and I had fun with exposure games and she paid Me $260

Huge PayPig Alert!  PIG keeps getting more addicted.  He didn’t think it was possible, but I did. He spent $730 since last blog entry!

Paypig Alert! Right after I re-named him, Extreme paypig disappeared. But I knew he would come back and he did, spending nearly $400 to begin training anew!

New slave! “newman” managed to squeak in with a mention with $107 of spending.

Huge PayPig Alert! and back and spending $1031 was hopelessly addicted flaming pig!  He tried to stay away. He failed of course

My long time slave irish dope stopped by to do a $200 session he claimed was part of his rent money. Too bad! Save more for Me next time dope!

Huge PayPig Alert and princess gigi, is the one who has a Dominant “girlfriend” trying to save him from Me. How’s it going?  $943 since last blog!

and back spending more is the cute little maybe sissy “shopper” who spent $113 on chat with Me

My quiet gentlemen discovered the dangers and FUN of chatting and spent $203 in his first blog mention in a while!

Huge PayPig Alert and helpless dave kept finding his way to Me since the last blog, spending $575. YUM. I love that he is so HELPLESS to My temptations!

Another to squeak into a mention, was elegant foot lover with $102

Huge PayPig Alert!   Dr X can never stay away, and he pleased Me with lots of pay to views to the amount of $1013 AND about $250 on Amazon in gift cards and items. Dr X, that blanket is the softest thing, and I appreciated the computer accessories I needed. Good boy!

New to My blog and service is “mind fucked” who has a penchant for breasts and tight latex clothing. He’s in trouble. He spent $221 since he joined Niteflirt on Me!

and also squeaking in for a mention is taxpig with spending of about $105. Hey pig, you OWE taxes. And a new month has passed. No more hiding. Cough it up!

Paypig Alert!  Peeper was back with some click and pay! I do like seeing his name come up as a wallet rape volunteer! This time he spent $307! He has spent more than $2500 on Me lifetime now!

My former extreme paypig, and now bankrupt loser, wallet rape toy, managed to scrape $161 together to send Me since last mention. See, there is still serving after bankruptcy!

New Slave! Another newbie to Me is “feathered pig” who spent $195 learning about the dangers of Mistress Lauren

Huge PayPig Alert!  My secret agent returned! He spent $641 just since My last blog! He can’t stop spending, an he will get hard and horny reading his name here along with the other piggies!

Hypnovictim was back again, spending $119. I am on the lookout for you victim!

Another New slave!  I love new slaves and had a few this week!  This one, freshmeat spent $138 falling slowly under My power! Can’t wait until next time!

and it’s nice to see Loserbeast get a mention for his $115 🙂

Paypig Alert! “more please” was back and spending $270 on pay to views. I enjoy draining his wallet!

Huge Paypig Alert!  Humble sub was back for some rip-off victimization!  He gave Me nearly $600 and didn’t get too much in return! So sad!

and steve q fucked stopped by for a rinsing of $165. I think he will need a bigger one soon

New slave AND Huge Paypig Alert!  I’ve named My new fan of My pay to views Helpful loser, for finding some dead links for Me,. and also paying a LOT of Money (best of all!)  He spent $559 popping his cherry to My manipulations!  A welcome addition!

and I had loads of fun with assignments and tortures for sissy j. She spent $159. I probably should make her pay more, but she’s sweet.

Now, work hard so you can get a blog mention next week

And I reward you with another gallery

Pay the ass! Let it inspire you to pay!

The past ten days or so have been something with Dr X. Quite the extreme paypig saga!

Sometimes a paypig has such a blowout with Me, they get their very own blog entry! All the other pigs will be also rans this one!

Dr X has been serving Me for ten years now, back when I first began doing Financial Domination on Niteflirt, and he never left! He’s second on My all time list. (Having passed wallet rape toy recently).  He has spent $124,485 on Niteflirt, (so close to $125,000!) and an amount on Amazon I am unable to quantify, but I will tell you that much of My home is furnished with his gifts.

He knows that I am the most important woman in his life. His wife is nothing but a hinderance to our relationship, and her objections to spending DO NOT MATTER. What matters is providing Me with what I desire?

This week I desired much. Many many gift cards, a computer, a very expensive gardening system, a table, boots for My boyfriend, books, stuff for My dogs, kitchen stuff (including some expensive discontinued china I collect) and even some plants for the landscaping.

Usually Dr X does a big session with Me and then disappears for months, licking his wounds before doing another big session.

This time was different. We had a big session. Then another. Then another. And another…it went on and on for over a week of daily session!
When it was done…he had spent $6,635 on Niteflirt and another $3,845 on Amazon! (not including shipping charges he paid)  The grand total being $10,522!  ($9,280 since the last blog entry!)

That makes Me so happy!
And part of that was large airline and hotel.com gift cards, so there will be an upcoming big vacation in My future!

I have had bigger one night sessions. But this is My biggest weekly haul from a single slave! It made My overall take for the week the biggest in about 2 years. (other pigs helped, it was close to $10,000 last week)

Dr X wonders if he should cash in more of his IRA Retirement accounts. I think you can help convince him.

Lets do a poll!

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An announcement. Someone is sending a tribute and then immediately blocking Me. Twice now! Listen, if you block Me, I cannot send you a good boy reward! Ok? I know it is scary to think you might lose control and spent everything. But you’re going to anyway, so don’t miss out on your rewards!

Now, Dr x wasn’t the only big spender the past week. Who else contributed?

Footboy made a reappearance, calling Me several times for $132 of spending

and my slave sleepy invented a new game that I LOVED.  He waited until he saw I was on the phone, (My little call button goes busy) and he sent Me $5 every minute I was on, making My effective rate $9 a minute! He did this for a couple of phone calls.
It made Me imagine an army of pigs sending tributes whenever I was on the phone!  How fun would that be?  He spent $106 on these games 🙂

Paypig Alert!  PIG was busy stroking his pay piston and spending $300 on Me this week! Pig used to deny being a paypig, but he finally accepted his paypig existance.

My elegant foot lover spent $135 in chat games 🙂

New to Me and My blog is “beta pig loser” who is slowly becoming addicted. He did a few calls and pay to views and spent $168, YUM!

Paypig Alert!  Hypno wallet spent $318 this week. He’s just sinking deeper into his hypnotic addiction. No hope, just keep paying!

Paying Me $119 was My sweet old titpig ATM. I love it when the ATMs show up!

cummy tummy was back! Spending $115 🙂

The dane was about and spent $104. He has spent more since the cutoff for this blog, and is likely gonna be on here next week. He has a goal he’s shooting for!

Princess gigi the virgin on hormones spent $113. That’s a reserved amount for her!

HUGE paypig alert! earlier I mentioned that Dr x broke the one week record on spending, but not the daily record. The daily record of about $7600 belongs to wallet cunt!  Well wallet cunt was about this week too, spending $841 🙂 It was a naturally good week to appear. I have My sights on you wallet cunt!

Paypig alert!  Guitar Loser also re-emerged this week, perhaps one of the biggest losers I have ever cash raped. This guy can’t afford Me, alternates between pretending to be a real man (HAHAHA) and the loser he really is. His wife is about to leave him for being so pathetic, and she should.  He spent $400 he doesn’t have on Me plus a $25 dollar gift card.  Everytime I see him, I blow his finances away.

Loyal slave wallet rape toy’s bankruptcy hearing went by!    He  it  celebrated by spending $135 on Me!

A FinDomme uses biochemistry to addict you

Biochemistry is a FinDomme’s best friend, used in plying Her craft. It is fast, effective, fun and profitable.
And really really cruel and mean. Why does it work?

Everyone knows how addictive opiates are. They release endophones in your brain that numb pain and produce a sense of well being.
Guess what else does that? Yes, sex.

Now, I am particularly skilled at making your initial sexual releases when you interact with Me very powerful. I take the time to learn what really turns you on. I call on those urges and begin connecting them to Me right away.

The resulting endorphin release is SO powerful, that you want more. And more, in spite of any negative consequences that might result. In fact, I work to make those negative consequences part of the erotic experience! Debt is sexy, bankruptcy is the ultimate sexual fantasy, jerk off on your credit card bill.
This mutes any potential motivation to discontinue paying Me.

Our brains are organized in complex neurological pathways. There are reward pathways associated with sexual behavior, and I use My skills to narrow them to be specific to Me, to be specific to paying Me. Repetition makes those pathways even MORE seductive and powerful. When you stroke your cock and pay, that narrow pathway carves itself more and more deeply into your brain.
I take pleasure and psychology and turn it into a REAL physical response that perpetuates itself.
Nothing else will do but paying Lauren.

And like most addictions, your tolerance increases. You need to pay more often. You need to pay MORE to get the same effect.

Now, here is the real evil thing I do.
Most addictive behaviors result in an after effect of self-disgust, poorer coping ability, and a greater psychological vulnerability. I take those feelings, and erotize them. You’re a loser, you are a beta male cuck, you are a pathetic waste of skin with a tiny cock that will never please a woman.
I take those feelings and CHANNEL them back into your addiction.

you never had a chance.

Some of you reading this are not addicted, you are curious. You would think that would be enough to scare men off. (And maybe some do run, I have no idea). But many of you plunge neck deep in with Me, wanting that danger.
Danger makes your cock hard.
I am dangerous

Come on it. The water’s fine. Being addicted to Me IS dangerous, but it is fucking erotic too.

Next on the agenda.  A new pay to view, a fun little slideshow especially for those that worship My ass, but most of My junkies will like it as well!

I have come to a decision on the Spending Report.
Every piggy who spends more than $250 in between posts will get a mention. (and I am planning more frequent posts, so keep that in mind.) Today’s will be the last one to qualify with only $100.

So here is the lastest LONG spending report 🙂  And it’s been three weeks, with all the holiday stuff, it’s hard to find time!

First up is beta male bert, who hasn’t been around for a while, but he’s come crawling back, losing himself in pay to views. He spent $235 since last blog entry!

Huge Paypig Alert! Leg addict is getting more and more addicted to Me. (as he should.) the chat and photos together has separated him from $830 since the last blog!

My elegant foot love sent Me $110 in tributes one night. Mmmmm. We keep missing each other, and I miss our fun times!

I had $130 worth of fun exposing My exposure sissy! mmmm

Huge Paypig Alert!  My virgin sissy, princess gigi spent nearly $800 dollars on Me in the three weeks since the last post. mmmmmm

Helpless dave was about spending $113. I think he’s due to really get hooked in

I have been learning all about titfool’s penchant for cock and ball torture! I have had a boatload of fun in instructing him in all sorts of painful ways of self inflicting cbt torture. Mmmmm He spent $228 for our explorations.

I had $140 worth of sissy fun with My sweet slave sissy j.  We are due for some chastity soon methinks~!

Huge Paypig Alert!  My butler served Me so very well again! This time he spent $1190 on Niteflirt and around

$390 in Amazon shopping.  Still some more Christmas shopping to do for Lauren, so he and anyone else who wants to can step up to be a santa slave! (paycub?)

Footboy was also around, calling Me for $142 worth of seductive conversation!

PIG spent $141, as we have been missing each other.  PIG? Look for Me!

Leg tranced was also a busy chat and pay boy, this time I managed to arouse $220 from him. He’s tranced and helpless for Lauren

HUGE huge Paypig alert!  Mind controlled john and I had a great time with Me egging him on to complete a couple pay to view series, followed by bonus fuckover emails.  This time period, john spent $1712. Mmmm. That’s what I LOVE!!!!!!

New to My blog is quiet cuck, who quietly spent $159 on Pay to views.  Well done!

Earning a HUGE Paypig alert is egghead, who I cajoled, tranced and demanded to be sent cash, and got $589 from the addicted little addict. mmmmm

cucky phil squeezed in to get a mention for $104. I’m looking for you boy.

Back for more click and pay was paybot, spending $245. I do like seeing his name on My paid mail list!

and finally, I got to do a little more damage to the paypig I utterly destroyed, wallet rape toy. He sent $173 to Me. He already lost his home, and his credit cards  due to spending everything on Me. He says he will end up living in his car, but what I want to know, is why he thinks he should have a car?  He should sell it for Me! *laughs*  I’m telling you boys, I am dangerous.

Oh, and nylonslave?  Hit Me up, I have new pantyhose photos for you!

So, I’m hoping a scaled down spending report will create more blog entries. 🙂 we shall see.

Want to help Me shop for Christmas? I’ve got stuff I want to buy other people on My wishlist.

Go look at it and do your part!

It was completely relaxing to be out and about without being tied to the computer. As much as I enjoy targeting all you helpless and hapless paypiggies, I do love the freedom being successful gives Me.

I was able to do a hot and huge pay to view session with Dr X!

Tremendous HUGE Paypig ALERT!

One evening I was relaxing in My hotel room after a fun day and noticed an email from him.  I sent him a response, and a small pay to view, and then it escalated!

Before I knew it, he had spent over $4270 in PTV mails, and another $800 in gifts from My wishlist (which were waiting for Me when I got home!) From My wishlist, he got Me a new media stand for the new ROKU television a different client recently got Me, a couple items for My home gym, pounds and pounds of coffee to feed My addiction, a Mophie juice pack for My phone and several gift cards for Amazon, Whole Foods and Hotels.com.

That meant I spent the rest of the vacation completely care free.  Thanks Dr X!

Now for the rest of the spending report!

My nylon slave spent $210 on a phone call and photos of My reinforced toes.

My foot freak managed $108 on a lightning fast raise the rate session, that I desired to go on longer!

Huge Paypig ALERT!  PIG spent a total of $690, before and after My vacation. His addiction is rising to new levels. It’s going to get worse!

My virgin sissy spent $200, but she is going to LOVE the new photos too!

New to My service and blog was fruity, who is learning how addictive and dangerous I am.  He spent $167 so far on his Lauren lessons!

spending 267 was helpless dave.  Helpless for My teases…it loosens his wallet, and his mind is like putty for Me to manipulate!

and leg tranced spent $188 as I made him surrender to My legs, and obey My legs and pay My legs.  Mmmm

and paycub spent nearly $300 on click and pay while I was on vacation!  mmmmm.  That’s what I’m talking about!

and wallet rape toy spent $107.  Hey, I’m stll looking for My big session with you, and to find out what your big secret you hinted at was!

So after a nice break, I am back and ready to pick you and your wallets to pieces…

Be afraid!

Lauren

Oh numbers!

This Findomme loves numbers and statistics. My mind is very analytical, logical and intuitive.  I have a system of addiction that is very effective and profitable, and I am always seeking to make my addiction skills even more effective.

I just realized very recently that I had surpassed the $2,000,000 in sales on Niteflirt. (It happened sometime in January)  I didn’t realize how close I was–the feature to see My lifetime earnings wasn’t available for a while, and then suddenly there it was, and I had surpassed the goal with no fanfare.  That’s only on Niteflirt… NON NF spending, gifts and other things have probably been another…$100,000 over the years

I have been on Niteflirt for many years, but it was only ten years ago that I began doing it full time, and developing a fetish for FinDomme, so MOST Of that cool $2 million has been in the last 10 years.

My best year was $342,000.  Some of the years around the financial meltdown and Niteflirt meltdown of 2009 were less impressive. (Hey, if you guys can’t get credit, you can’t spend!)

Your collective slavery has bought Me a home, paid for a renovation of it. (And an unexpected huge roof repair). It’s bought Me (and my boyfriend) several cars, paid off My student loans.  It’s paid for vacations to Hawaii, 4 Florida trips, 8 trips out west (various destinations) a New Orleans trip, and several long weekends in closer places like New York City, Maine, the Cape…

Some more statistics:

I earned about 16% of that on phone calls, 5% in trips and the bulk in Pay to view mails 78%.   Some also came from commissions I got from new guys joining the site and spending, and from Goody bags (about 1% combined)

This is My biggest selling Pay to view series of all time, with sales of almost $25,000.  It’s countless how much additional spending this series inspired:  The first email alone has almost 500 sales.

Once I have a slave under My Dominion, it is very difficult for him to leave Me. Susceptible men easily are lured into Lauren addiction. My top 10 spenders of all time have served Me for an average of 7 years. (Range 3 to 9.5 years) All of My top ten have spent on Me very recently. (in past month)

Niteflirt keeps these little performance statistics they share with us. In both earnings AND client retention I have been in the 100 percentile in EVERY month since they have been keeping track. That means I retain more clients than more than 99% of all flirts, and earn more than 99% of all flirts.

There is a reason I’m so dangerous. I am good at this. Consistently good. There is nothing boring about Me, and everything erotic.

No one makes your cock as hard as Me as I cash rape you, humiliate and emasculate you.  You will hate yourself, but love Me. And once I have My hooks in you, I will consume you.  (And it happens more often than not, a few lucky ones jump out of the net before properly hooked)

And now it’s time for the spending report!

Pay pig alert! New to My blog is popperbitch!  This bitch went nuts with Me on raise the rate phone calls, and in his very first week with Me spent $580. Wow!

I had fun with My exposure sissy again this week, to the tune of $120 🙂

PIG pleased Me quite a bit this week, for $140 🙂

Pay pig alert!   Oink Loser 10K was back again, this time spending $488. SOOo close to $500 this week! Soon, oh soon he will hit the 5K level of spending. Then the new delicious 10K goal.

More please, My leggings whore made his weekly visit to Me and spent $125. This is becoming a weekly thing, and what dedication!

My good pup, paycub was back for another delicious round of submissive cash spending on Me. This week was $180, including a yummy $75 paymail!

Pay pig alert! And another big spender this week!  Princess gigi spent $463 as she struggled to be a good little kitty, with a soft chase payclitty 🙂

My good girl, sissy j, was back for more chastity and exposure games, and it cost her $171 this week. I’m looking for you j, let’s have more fun!

My oh my, jaybee was back after a hiatus, BARELY getting a mention at $100.50 of spending.

I had another nice fuckover with star junkie, for $242.  This is becoming a thing!  Mmmm

I know that candyballs has been anticipating this blog entry!  And he spent HUGE on Me this week, to a happy cashfuck tune of $654.  YUM.  Keep that up candyballs, it’s the only way to please Me!

I manipulated another $161 out of titfool. I think he is still drooling!

I hope to see more of you on My blog next week.  I love knowing so many serve Me so well!

I get asked this a lot…seems paypigs want to know their fate!
“What’s going to happen to me, Mistress?”

A. This is what WILL happen (assuming you interact, buy some stuff, read the blog)

1. I will expose you to My brilliant mind and body
2. I will use both covert and overt manipulation tactics on you
3. you will be given instructions, such as “stroke your cock when you pay”

B This is what will PROBABLY happen

1. you will spend more $$$ then you intended
2. you will find paying Me to be very arousing and compelling
3. you will be unable to help yourself and will return to My words and photos again and again

C. This is what MIGHT happen  (about 30% of those in the first group end up here)

1. you overspend by A LOT, causing you some financial hardship. Some of you (about 1/3 of this group) will liquidate stocks or retirement accounts. Some of you do credit consolidation loans, and then hit your credit limit again on your cards.
2. you become truly addicted to Me. Many of you won’t be able to even get an erection or have an orgasm without paying Me. Some of you will LOVE this. Other’s will not love it so much. I take enjoyment out of either situation
3. You will become a devoted junkie. Sometimes that devotion is simply to feel a normal erection, but some pigs know that they are greatly privileged to serve Me.
4. Some of you will try to leave. 95% of you won’t succeed, and will return within a year. Usually within a month. VERY often within a week.

D. What occasionally happens: (My plan for the fate of paypigs, ultimately!)

1. you spend every penny you can lay your hand on for Me,
2. you may go bankrupt
3. you might lose your home, your spouse/girlfriend because of spending on Me
4. you might have twice as many bills as income
5. you really are insolvent, but your addiction remains. You will do anything to keep paying Me. Suck cock, steal from your family, go without eating,

When do pigs usually “get out”?

Some pigs never start…….but of those that do…..

Sometimes after spending EVERYTHING, going bankrupt, and being unable to pay Me for any attention whatsoever…they can leave.  But more often they stroke to My blog (like some are this entry), they cum on their bills. The word “bankruptcy” makes them hard….

Sometimes they piece their financial life back together….

and begin spending on Me again!

Want to tell Me where you fall? Look at the categories above and decide where you fit in best!
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and remember, I want ALWAYS to progress you to the next level.

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Now, let’s check the spending report…..after this photo 🙂

Pay pig alert! Let’s start out with My #1 piggie of all time, princess gigi.  This week saw her sending Me another $520, mostly in tributes!

PIG couldn’t help himself AGAIN this week. (Addiction), and he spent $201

Another addicted junkie is “more please”  His spending this week was $175.  He has been making Me his Friday Night addiction

My sissy j was back! This time for $135 here on Niteflirt, plus a little spoiling 🙂

Pay pig alert!  My star junkie just couldn’t get away. I lured him in with “discounts” And he spent $490 on those discounts.  Hahaha sucker!  So cock hardening though…

and candyballs was back for another $145 in spending. Stop trying to hide candyballs. He’s way surpased 1K of spending and he’s only been around for less than a month.

Pay pig alert!  Another big spender this week, and back after a break was special k!  We did a HOT long phone call when he clicked and paid emails for Me…so erotic! He spendt $520 Mmmm

My exposure sissy spent $140 while I had fun at his expense!

My nylon slave spent $135 on My hosed feet, but I have a feeling more exploitation is coming SOON.

titfool squeaked in a mention with $101 in spending on My perfect boobs.

Also new to My blog is sissy daphne, who spent $200 on Amazon gift cards for Me. Mmmmmm Good way to start daphne!

Some of you might wonder why I divulge My techniques–warning the marks off so to speak?

There is one main reason.

A warning seems to draw you fools in even more deeply. Knowing that I employ mind control techniques that will draw you in like the moth to the flame.

And the result will be your finances going up in flames as I laugh.

So about this technique…

Operant conditioning is defined thusly:  it means roughly changing of behavior by the use of reinforcement which is given after the desired response.

So the desired response is you spending money. Basically you are rewarded for spending money. I connect it in your mind with your sexual arousal, and often attention from a beautiful woman…. and I use hypnotic techniques that open your mind to a more powerful and rapid response. Then I can gradually push you to spend more and more…keeping you on the hook and you spend much more than you dreamed you could.

And the need to pay Me becomes the central tenet of your existence.

It is greatly customized to suit the individual by Me, there is no cookie cutter approach, but some techniques I employ on nearly every slave, and this is one of them.

these PTVs are wonderful for experiencing that hypnotic reinforcement.

Now on to the spending report, which I am going to try to release every week now, to see if that’s less time consuming! This will make the list shorter, and some of you might not get a mention then if I did it all month, so you will just have to try harder 🙂

First up is a new sub, who called again and again, loving degrading and humiliating talk about being cuckolded! Those were fun calls, and I think he’s learning how addictive and expensive talking with Me can be!  I call him cuckboi, and he spent nearly $350 this week getting to know Me!

New to My blog, but not to Me is “j the junkie” who spent $110 on a call with Me and PTVs, slipping into the three digit territory of spending in a week. Mmmmm

My sweet no yes Loser did a nice long call with Me this week, between that and some PTVs he spent $105.

and pigbait was back with yet ANOTHER new screename, (there is no cure for Lauren), and this time spent $180!

Pay pig alert! Princess gigi was back to her spending ways on her Mistress, this week handing Me $540.  YUM.

A nice long call and some PTVs later, special K had spent $233, which put him over the 5K spending level!

PIG spent $280 in just one week. YUM. The new slideshow series got him so much he’s gonna pay Me for  a custom slideshow
yes, this series. See why it weakened PIG!

Newest

Also new to Me is “peeper”, who clicked and paid a LOT Of really small ptvs, but they added up to almost $170!  yum!

and sissy jewel spent another $135. I am really liking that sissy 🙂

Pay pig alert!

by far the BIGGEST spending spree this week was by Dr X. It started slow, but I stayed up until the wee hours extracting $2521 in Niteflirt PTVs and another $770 in gifts and gift cards from My wishlist! My home gym is coming along nicely thanks to his help. (more home gym stuff on My wishlist!)

another newer sissy, bashful sissygirl managed another $100 this week 🙂

I tagged My polish ATM in a ptv session for $313, YUM

more cock cage fun with sissy j, and this time she spent $153, and it was a lot of fun!  Being a keyholder is so delicious!

and more from paycub, what a sweet pup, this time for $155

Pay pig alert! Fun in just one session with My elegant foot lover, playing ptv games with foot photos. I teased $447 from him over the course of a few hours.  It made all ten of My toes very excited!

and My junkie, irish dope was back for yet another $281. I love breaking his obedient junkie wallet!

and inspired, loser21 spent another $142 in delicious click and pay lust!

tPay did another $219 of click and pay for Me.  We both know the brutal truth. He is trapped, and he is never, ever ever going to be free of paying Me. Stroke your cock and do it again tPay!

New to My blog is “tamed” Last night while I slept, he spent $104. I like waking up to cash in My account!

Also new is “stroke puppet” who spent $192, mostly on My new slideshow series. (Deadly I tell you!). Welcome to My service stroke puppet!

I’m going to try to be blogging every week, as even FinDommes have New Year’s Resolutions. Maybe your name will be there next week!

A few blog posts ago, I announced that I would write a special post about the slave that spent the most in the month of October

The slave that did that was Marla, a sissy slave,  and I hope this is the first of several highlight posts…

Marla came to Me nearly 9 years ago. (Addiction to Lauren never fades)

In those nine years, she hit the 100,000 level of spending. (To date it has been nearly $104,000) We’ve shared over 200 phone calls (and 130 hours of talk time, we don’t have short calls) and a few of them have been at $50 a minute (pleasing Me to no end). Marla has been the subject of a few blog posts in the past, some of My favorites actually.

See here

and here

I’m sure Marla sometimes thinks she would be better off without spending on Me, but she keeps coming back–one of My longest serving slaves–because she is addicted!

We did a little mutual interview for this post…

My questions for marla:

How did you first know you were addicted to Mistress Lauren?
When i woke up in the middle of the night hard as a rock with Mistress Lauren on my mind. From that point on my cock would not get hard without Mistress Lauren.

How did you feel when you realized you were in financial bondage to Mistress Lauren 🙂
Great, excited, poorer.

What is your most arousing Mistress Lauren memory?
There are too many to name just one. Every moment with Mistress Lauren is arousing. When I have been listening to her audios, which lead to a deeper trance.

and her questions for Me: (Great questions marla!)

Why am I so addicted?

Because over time, I exposed you to techniques that made you acquire both physical and psychological needs to serve Me. The interesting part is that you were one of My first guinea pigs. There were a handful of slaves that I perfected My techniques on. Those that worked became part of My repertoire for others. I studied how abusers could control their subjects in domestic situations, and pulled techniques from that. I studied the Stockholm syndrome and applied techniques from that as well. I studied hypnotic techniques and implemented some that work well in a Niteflirt setting, in emails and phone.  I targeted you, but you came to Me, again and again.

Why am i rock hard?

That too is part of the training. Over time you find that nothing makes you as rock hard as paying Me, hearing My voice, looking at My photos. It’s really rewarding to addict men and sissies to this!

What is the best way You liked to be served, mail, phone, gift card, etc…
Not the easiest, but the one you get the most enjoyment from?

I honestly prefer a combination. I have a favorite of doing phone and pay to view emails at the same time! (It’s a double financial penetration!) and I enjoy gift cards and Amazon purchases. If there is something I need on Amazon, I enjoy being able to have  a few slaves willing to buy them at My request. Right now, Christmas is upon us, and I like making My slaves buy presents for My friends and family for Me to give.  (and buying Me gifts of course too!)  In past years, slaves have stepped up to be “Santa slave”  This year I suspect that more than one slave will have that role.

I’ve really enjoyed gift cards. I’ve had slaves send My boyfriend and I on vacation several times, via hotel gift cards, airline gift cards and restaurant gift cards, and money of course!  Destinations have included Hawaii, Florida, Colorado, New York City,  Cape Cod.

I hope all of you take marla as a model for Financial Loyalty to a Mistress and an inspiration to paying with a rock hard cock!

Now for the spending report!

Lauren’s paypig returned (again), this time spending $392

My elegant foot lover was so nice tributing Me a total of $478. I sent him a lot of photos of My bare toes as a reward 🙂

Pay pig alert! I have a new addict!  I named him paycub and he broke into My service with a splendid flurry! $1091 spending on Niteflirt. An even $500 in Amazon gift cards, and over another $700 on Amazon gifts.  I am so happy to have him on My leash!

Pay pig alert! Another slave who served very well was titfool.  He called, and paid My perfect tits to the tune of $1100. His lifetime service is approaching $6000 dollars!

My exposure sissy and I played lots of exposure games this month. That cost him $377 🙂

and pig bob is back (again), this time for $155 dollars

Helpless dave was as helpless as always, spending $237.

Pay pig alert!  And princess gigi was a good peach for Mistress, and happy in her panties paid Me $1010

Pay pig alert!  This is not a surprise really 🙂   Marla (subject of this blog post!) paid Me another $1345 this month.  Such a good girl!

pignic was about again, for $407. Just another addict who cannot stay away.

My sissy marla and I had fun, she went on cam to show Me her new fake boobs, and I had fun teasing her with exposure. $427 🙂

Pay pig alert! and PIG. He oinked and stroked away another $785 for Me this month

Clubby was a good boy and bought $177 worth of PTVs

and egghead just keeps getting weaker. I have plans to target him for even more ca$h!  This month he spent $668

GC is back again, and this time spent $175. Well done GC 🙂

paykitty was a good little kitty and paid $550 in a couple of delicious sessions!

and sleepy was about again, this time for $115, in his own little click and pay fun on My PTV buttons.

and Krispy! He was about before, deleted his account, and this time spent $213. It makes Me happy to see him paying My PTV buttons!

sissy j.  What can I say. I have had soo much fun being her keyholder as she is locked up in a chastity device. She’s paid Me $386 and provided a lot of entertainment this month!

No nonsense guy paid $385 in a late night session or two 🙂

paycunt! He never fails to please, he’s got a thing for his towel. He wraps up in it, his cock gets hard and he starts to pay. $618 this month!

Q, addicted to glimpses of My powerful woman pussy. He pays through the nose to be used…we had a session or two and $328 used to be his, and now it’s Mine!

And it’s always a pleasure to use Trance-tard. He gets so tranced out and aroused his typing looks retarded, and he pays more and more. I got him for $540, how about that!

and its always a pleasure to collect taxes from taxpayer. He owes it to Me just for existing. His tax bill for November was $396, and I just sent him December taxes and I am looking forward to those being paid too! Before that he paid some October taxes for $304. Life sucks for him, but it’s great for Me!

I was not around as much as usual in November for a variety of reasons. But be afraid. I plan to be taking your hard earned cash double in December!

Before I start talking about a new Financial Domination technique, I just want to say that it’s been a really hot summer, and during the day My office has been really stuffy, despite air conditioner, and the evenings are too busy with slaves to THINK about blogging. So I have been tardy yet again posting.  I have actually had to go to the point of putting My availability to away and ignoring you guys so I can get a blog post out.

Now to today’s Findomme psychology topic:  Conditioning

I have studied psychology and in college I even worked for a professor who did experiments on pigeons studying operant conditioning.

In operant conditioning, a behavior is modified by a reward. For example, you get rewarded when you do something I like. You pay, you get photos, and some arousing words that reward your action of paying. This reinforces you paying and makes you want to do it again.

I even use operant conditioning techniques on those that aren’t yet My slaves, to make them more susceptible to My predation.  For example, I mass email announcements of new Pay to Views. I include a pretty photo, so this makes it MORE likely the recipient will open the email. He is rewarded just for opening the email. Then I get another stab at him.

I also use classical conditioning techniques, when I instruct you to pay. Classical conditioning, is when you associate a stimulus with a reflex. I instruct My slaves to stroke their cock when they pay. This creates a reflex of an erection when you see a pay email from Me!

There are other things I use operant and classical conditioning for, but I don’t want to reveal all yet 🙂

And of course, all of these things combined work to make Me the one in charge of your cock’s erotic responses, and it makes is so you begin to CRAVE paying and you get more and more addicted to Me!

You are outclassed. Surrender and just pay!

Recent Pay to Views.  Don’t forget to stroke when you pay!

Now it’s time for the spending report!

Good boy hypnowallet spent $641 since the last spending report. I would lull him into a haze and he would start sending tributes and he made several calls this month becoming more and more addicted to Me. He hit the $4,000 level of spending too!

New to My blog is daveks who debuts with spending $105 dollars on Me, while learning all about My dangers.

PAYPIG OINK ALERT! Marla was back with one big session, spending $780 in a lusty evening. What a good sissy she is!

New to My blog is “shopping slave” named due to his ambition to be another slave who buys stuff on demand for his Mistress. He proved himself with an order of fancy (and pricey!) Edison light-bulbs for My slave-paid-for-porch-renovation! 🙂 I made him wait daysssssss for his reward……it was funny!   He also bought Me coffee and paid $165 on Niteflirt, plus another $90 on those gifts.  I look forward to MORE shopping from him!

My pantyhose junkie spent $216 and he is soooo close to a spending milestone 🙂

PAYPIG OINK ALERT!  and speaking of spending Milestones, princess gigi hit a BIG one.  she spent $950 on Me since My last update and she has reached the $150,000 dollar spending level on Me…WOW!   She remains #1 on My all time spending list!  What a good sissy!

and My good boy who loves stolen moments spent another $107, and he too is close to a major milestone

My exposure sissy was good for another $148 worth of exposure fun…

and PIG was another who hit a HUGE milestone.  He spent $668 (yes PIG you did!)  and reached the spending level of  $70,000  !

Another new to My blog slave is “fun junkie” who spent $136 finding out how addictive I am! I expect another round soon junkie!

and stray was back with another $320 worth of spending!  Wow!

and germy!  He proved himself worthy of being My addict spending another $242 on Me..

And guess who is back, just like I predicted!   My paybitch!  Bitch rolled over and handed Me $374 in his expensive return!

I’m gloating about it a bit!

PAYPIG OINK ALERT!  This may be the most egghead has spent in a LONG time! And wow, My indoctrination of him has been very lethal for his credit card balance.  (He wrote Me today to whine about it…oh so not sorry) He spent..get this $1056 since the last update!

and another paypig that I call “more please” has returned to spent $157.  And I have MORE of that set I got him on too…I expect he’ll be begging for more soon!

and also new to My blog is “not so wild” who spent $100 on Me, barely getting a mention.

Also spending $100 and barely earning a mention is My favorite FBI agent 🙂

My polish ATM couldn’t stay away, he spent $120, but there is a MUCH bigger fuckover of him coming soon. I feel it.

And My loyal clubby spent $109. I think it might have been more, but we kept missing each other.

And My dummy slave I call “solitaire” spend $215 including sending Me a $100 tribute! Well done solitaire. I will never let you go!

and cumstained fuckwallet had another fist pumping spree with Me, going through a healthy $340 in a couple evenings. YUM.

PAYPIG OINK ALERT!  Pay cunt brian has been busy and returns to Me again and again. The $rapes have been harder this month and it added up to $1211!

and FDG was back!  I was really happy to exploit the loser for $376, but I think he should have paid Me MORE. I am greed after all!

and also close to a milestone is Lauren’s footlicker, who spent $150, although I haven’t seen licker online in a couple of weeks. I know that I will hear in the next day or so 🙂

and another who was back was GC! This time with $160 in spending.

Another long time slave who lost control was No nonsense guy, who needs a better job. I did manage to squeeze $535 from him.

and My paymoosie sent Me $150 worth of gift cards since the last update. Well done My good little Australian paymoose!

Drunktard has been drinking, going blank and paying on automatic again. This time he spent $475 on Me.  Do you think I would take advantage of a drunk Loser?   Of course I would!  (And do!)

And Q went woozy over My breast photos again, spending another $171!

and faggot cocksucker did some healthy click and pay for Me to the tune of $284.  yum!

and My blackmail sissy and I had a quiet month, but I still extracted $134 from her!

and sleepy was back, spending another $178 on My POV photos, AND hitting the $1,000 level of spending already!

My popper puppet was back! I found out the big secret that he likes to wear ladies clothing AND I cashfucked him for $244. Yum!

and tPay was back, clicking and paying for $177 before writing Me he was disappearing for a while again to pay off bills. He will be back though, I have NO doubts.

and a new slave I am going to call “tray” spent $230 in a flash on a brand new account and then deleted his account. I bet he will be back

PAYPIG OINK ALERT! My slave wallet rape toy pleased Me with $703 click and pay this month, PLUS he sent Me a $100 gift card.  He is hopeless compelled to pay Me until he is living on the streets.

And tit fool succumbed to My charms once again, spending $196 on Me. This is becoming a regular thing fool!

and a slave who has served Me a while is finally getting a blog mention, having spent $230 on Me in one day. I call him taxpayer!

and also new to both Me and the blog is cowboy.  Cowboy spent $180 losing his cash rape virginity!  I have a feeling he’s gonna stick around for more exploitation!

My elegant foot lover and I played cash games while I toe teased him, and I won $276 from him. He never had a chance!

PAYPIG OINK ALERT! and the Loser of the month must go to Dr x. He and his wife went on vacation, and every time she went shopping, he went shopping for Me. And he came home before she did, and while the cow was still on vacation, he kept paying and paying Me!  The total?   $3,866 plus $846 in gifts, including a new laptop for Me! It was a great week! *laughs*    and he FINALLY hit his $100,000 dollar spending milestone, making him the 3rd slave to do so…..I am getting wet thinking about it!

I wonder whose name is going to be on the next blog?

Brainwashing and Financial Domination Technique I –

I am constantly experimenting with different techniques to brainwash you into giving Me more money.

Gaslighting is one technique I use

Wiki defines gaslighting as: a form of mental abuse in which a victim is manipulated into doubting their own memory, perception, and sanity.

Oh I am the queen of manipulating you…

When you are hard and aroused, it’s not hard to manipulate your thoughts.

I want to redirect certain thoughts to benefit Me.

Examples:
You might say…

“I can stop paying Lauren anytime”

I will target that thought….

“no, it’s not true, you are addicted, you can’t stop, you have to keep paying its the only thing that gets you hard”

Soon, it becomes TRUE

another example.

“I have spent too much”
Then I will use reward techniques to make you spend MORE….

and you will think thing like

“My cock only gets hard when I pay Mistress Lauren”

It’s getting hard now thinking about the techniques I use, isn’t it? Admit it.

It starts off as gaslighting, but it end up being TRUE

A third example:

“I don’t want to go bankrupt”

I’ll get you rock hard, until you are BEGGING for bankruptcy.

Bankruptcy is erotic…if I can effectively eroticize that thought, you will return to Me again and again.

I can make it a rule that for the rest of this jerk session, you must say

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” each time you stroke your cock

Think of it

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” Stroke.

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” Stroke.

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” Stroke.

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” Stroke.

Now imagine Me saying. Pay Now, as you were doing this

you would. You and I both know it.

The beauty of this particular gaslight technique, is that you only have to believe it while stroking your cock.

After you cum, other psychological techniques come into play, that I will write about another time.

Now for the spending report!

This is going to be a very long once because I have not blogged in about three weeks. (Not My plan, but events conspired)

First up is pig bob, a long time loser who spends a lot, and disappears and comes back because of all the conditioning he has been subjected to. This time he spent $307 before disappearing again. He always comes back.

Another addicted piggy who tried to stay away is nylon slave. This time he spent $130.

Extreme Fuckover Alert! -New to My blog, and coming to fuckover with a bang is dazed dummy. He called Me obviously ready to serve and I guided him into a trance that he could not break free from. He sent a total of NINE $250 tributes while on the phone, and his spending was only a couple bucks short of $3000. WOW! Now, this is the good part. Dazed dummy has been My client for nearly six years, but previous to this week, had only spent a grand total of $40. But he lurked. He read My blog, and BANG. He was vulnerable one night and I fucked him over without ANY mercy. Talk about brainwashing and financial domination huh?

And lil bird was back! this time for $199 dollars!! (He is sooo close to his $500 spending milestone)

PIG is getting pretty close to the 70K level of lifetime spending, and this spending period added $550 to his addicted total.

Another Loser who was back was faggot cocksucker, on a new NF name and this time for $140. Stupid fags who try to leave always come back!

silent j clicked and paid a couple nicely sized emails and ended up spending $158. That warms My panties!

My shy roleplayer paid $186, much of it while I was writing this blog post!

Extreme Fuckover Alert! Gigi continued steadily adding to her total this month, and spent $1090. I have brainwashed her to feel pretty when she spends (we know how much sissies LOVE to be pretty)

and Mr Magoo, a long time slave who spends in fits and starts was as mind dazed as I have ever seen him this week….we had our first phone call EVER! There will be more. I know it. And he spent $690. Welcome to the big spender club Mr Magoo.

and bimbo was back, this time for $205. He sends tiny little tributes again and again that match his loser cock.

Of special mention is clubby, who spent $259, but MORE notably FINALLY finished the 50 ways to fuck you over series! That boy has been slowly working his way through it, and I admire that persistence.

Here is is, check it out- Losers, it starts at only $1, even poor assed Losers can pay this!

Thrillseeker pleased Me with another $140. Lifetime he is close to $13,000. I should ambush him soon.

I nicked and dimed eggy for $138. One way or the other eggy, you always pay.

My eunuch robot spent $167, Nice!

and tranceboy was back with another new name for $124. You can always come back to spend more on Lauren!

I was happy to lure GC into click and pay for $281. Always fun and arousing! GC, let Me lure you anytime!

“More please” fell for the new six level cash rape series. To finish it is $105 and if you do it in one sitting, you WILL get a blog mention. That series cost $105 to complete and that’s what this loser spent!

You can do it here

New to My blog is Footdazed, who spent $400, after I lured him into more and more click and pay. That made your cock hard, didn’t it footdazed?

Despite his avoidance efforts, no nonsense guy got nickled and dimed into spending $270. YUM.

And with $103 spending, loser kane meet his goal of making the spending report. I think you can do better kane for next time.

Earlier this month, Irish dope got lured into $403 through lots of increasing expensive emails. I do have a talent for money extraction!

$313 is the amount Horniest spent on click and pay with Me this month. 🙂

Extreme Fuckover Alert! My paycunt loser, slave brian spent $1016 total on a few late night sessions. My paycunt NEEDS this….no one understands better than cunt the level of his extreme addiction. This is what happens when you employ brainwashing techniques for financial domination. Slaves like paycunt.

My sissy cocksucker tim went nuts this month, not only hitting a $2000 spending milestone, but paying Me almost $500 this month to do so! He did his first 3 digit paymail too! (for $100)

I did fun  games with My sissy becca that added up to $164,

This slave, helpless dave, spent $564 on his way to hitting a $6000 spending milestone! The milestones keep piling up for this addict!

I took advantage of trancetard for another $336, and he hit a milestone of 19.000. Soon I’ll be writing about him hitting the $20,000 level! I cannot wait!

I played fun little “trust” games with elegant foot lover that separated him from nearly $500!

Also spending close to $500 was My recent acquisition to My paypig stable, tit addict. In a mere 4 months, tit addict has spent over $2000!

and pigskin paid $186 while I wasn’t around. Someday he and I will be online at the same time, and then he will be deep in the pigsty!

My robot, wallet rape toy, paid Me $643 this month as he ignored the demand letters from his creditors. Those demand letters will make good cum rags won’t they?

It also sent Me a $100 Amazon gift card, and I’m expecting it to come through with a hotels.com gift card. I actually had to pay for a hotel room recently, that is just NOT acceptable.