Category — financial domination

I do LOVE being a Financial Domme.

Why?

Is it the money? Well, that’s part of it.  This is indeed a very good living, but far more importantly, it rings true with My authentic self–a Woman who needs to be in charge.  Note that I didn’t say I “like” to be in charge, I actually “need” to be in charge.  This is the only vocation I have ever had in which *I* am in charge.

I have the control.  I have the power.  I do not answer to a boss, and I decide what hours I am going to devote to this pastime.  I sleep and eat and vacation when and where I want.  Working for others for a wage, didn’t resonate with Me.  I had to conform to other’s expectations, and I did not like that game one little bit, and My bosses knew it!  I made for a pretty unruly employee.

I had already dabbled in BDSM in My personal life, and found I loved being a Dominant Woman.  I did not begin as a Financial Domme, in fact I never heard of Financial Slavery my first couple of years.  I learned to swing a flogger and a single-tail whip. I learned all about Japanese rope bondage and spanking and cock and ball torture and face-sitting.  I learned how to feminize a submissive sissy and how to make My female slave cum on command in the grocery store (yes really).

So when I was in need of a little supplementation of income, I began dabbling on the site that would evolve into Niteflirt to earn money in the world of phone sex.  I didn’t have much time and did it really part time. I did a little modeling too, and tried different things–saving money to someday accomplish My dreams.

in 2007,  I truly needed a change, so I planned a move and to quit My job.  I worked Niteflirt more intensely, saving for the move. I learned about the fetish of financial domination, and began studying it, it seemed intriguing to Me. (and profitable!). My original plan was to find another job working for a wage after I moved, but having the time to truly develop My websites and Niteflirt listings, and doing photo shoots, I found I made lots more money as a phone Mistress than I ever did working, and I never looked back.  It was in 2007 that I really entered the stage of Financial Domination, and as a fetish it was the most satisfying one I had ever tried.

This is why.  When I spank or whip a slave, they are in pain while I’m doing it, and maybe for a short time afterwards, and its AWESOME, feeding My Inner Sadist. But when a slave gives Me cash, “especially” more than he can afford…that lasts.  Tomorrow I will still have his cash.  Next week I will.  I will enjoy all the items that I buy with his money, and he will only have a bill. (If My training goes as expected, that bill will give him an erection, and he will seek Me out again!)

So this long post all led to an idea.

It’s really common in the FinDomme world to see women with buttons that say.  Pay My Rent! Or Pay My cell phone bill!  I haven’t done that, because it doesn’t really turn Me on…I get something yes, but I don’t really get the pleasure of knowing how My shenanigans have effected My slave’s lifestyle (and that’s what I love to know)

So instead I thought…wouldn’t it make sense to charge men to sacrifice for Me, instead?  They give Me the cash, and also, consciously skip doing something they enjoy.  So that I have both the cash, AND the concrete knowledge that they don’t get to have something they enjoy JUST so that I can ..a. enjoy their cash  and b.  Enjoy the fact that they don’t’ have it!

So instead of the traditional Tribute buttons,

I present…Sacrifice buttons! In the $5 you agree to pay Me $5 AND give up a latte or $5 worth of coffee…

For a $10 sacrifice, you will give up lunch out, and skip it, or brownbag it instead.

For a $25 dollar sacrifice, you’re going to stay home instead of going out with the guys.

And note..you’re not ONLY sending Me the cash, you are agreeing to give up something that costs

that amount!

Want to spend more?  No problem.  Click this button, fill in the tribute amount, and describe to Me what you are going to do without for Me.  A weekend out?  New golf clubs?   Your vacation?  To all I say YUM

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In other news…

I must give a special blog mention to a returning slave….ca$h pig brian, who celebrated his return to Me by spending an unprecedented $740!  Well done brian!  He left Niteflirt, solely to avoid spending on Me…and he found his craving was unbearable, and when he came back, I was the beneficiary of a delicioius binge.

And…not too many details I want to share yet, but I have been being called three times now by a man who has decided that his wife is now My money slave.  He makes her kneel in the corner, and takes photos of her for Me, and uses her credit card to pay Me and jerks off to My photos, telling his wife that I am more beautiful than her and I deserved her money.  Hearing her sob in the background was really HOT. She is kind of like a female cuckhold, and I am like the “bull”. I hope I get more calls like that!

So stop reading now, and decide what *you* are going to sacrifice to serve Me……I can’t wait to hear about it.

Yes, I am sooo pumped about My new series I released today

There is sooo much delicious creamy fetishy goodness in this series….we have lots of suggestive imagery, and of course, My usual talents weaving words and images to separate you from your cash…..to milk you, extract from you, bleed you, demand payment from, coerce you, entice you, force cash from your wallet…whatever image blows up your skirt and makes you throb….
This set will blow you out of the water.
I think all you ca$h cows/junkies will LOVE them….there are lots of feet, stocking and strap on images in there and it’s such a HUGE set I have a lot of unused photos I can use for your customized PTV sessions.
Be Afraid. Be My cow….

Mistress Lauren

I have had so many of you begging Me to blog more often. Even though I know some of you just want the jerk material of reading about My conquests, I know that it makes so many of you vulnerable to My predations.

I really would like to blog more often, but so often, it seems like I come online, and so many of you are just waiting for Me, with wallets in hand.   Sometimes I choose between blogging and wallet rape.  It’s not rocket science to know which I pick (and should pic!)

But I do know that blogging is a tool that I have in My repertoire to help train susceptible men into their transformation as My  money slave.  Even now, there is a very good chance that you are sitting there, almost without doubt sporting a stone stiff  cock, and very likely fondling it.   Excellent!  This behavior helps condition you to take sexual pleasure in the thought of financial ruin at My hands.  Pavlov would be so proud!

So who did My blog bring down since the last post?  Well scotch scotty lost control when he read about himself here and called Me right away in marathon session that cost him nearly $700. And he pretty much has admitted to Me that I do things to him he has never even heard of in our intense phone sessions. He was so far gone that he couldn’t even cum *laughs*   Pretty pathetic huh?  He’s turning into a pretty fun money slave for Me!

Another one that returned after I blogged about him was “g-man” now known as g-wimp  This is priceless.  I sent g-wimp email after email….raising the price each time until we reached up to a $700 emails.  Twice he had to stop to get his credit card company to lift a block on adding more $$$ to his Niteflirt account, but he did it anyway.   Quite amusingly, he begged Me to stop sending him emails at one point, he couldn’t afford them.  Well…any of you that know Me, know I never stop sending the emails…..as long as you pay them *laughs*   and well he kept paying them. He got on the phone with Me for the last several, paying the final $700 one on the phone with Me.

Well, he spent an ADDITIONAL $3400 dollars (Total of over $4000).  I don’t remember any slave getting off to this fast a start since Loserbeast last summer.

Here is the BEST part.  The next day, g-wimp has the nerve to write Me this. Loser

I’m sorry to ask for this Mistress, but is there any way I can get some of the money back? I have spent way too much and I don’t know what I’m going to do.

Now that was about the funniest thing I read all week, and even *if* I could return $$ he spent on Me on Niteflirt (and there isn’t a way to do that), I wouldn’t, because he didn’t deserve it. You know, if any man is weak enough to surrender 4 grand he doesn’t have, why should I enable him to do it all over again with a different Domme?  *laughs*

And with the cash, I booked Myself a nice little spa resort vacation in March, in a warm place I can hike in and relax and get away from the New England weather.  Thanks g-wimp!

And coming later this week, a deadly series I call “Milked”   there will be a really addictive click and pay series that I’m going to make a killing on because these images will make you lose control.

This is Me thinking about how I’m going to be doing sooo many fuckovers with these photos

This is a metaphor for what I’m going to do to your wallet

Happy Valentines day to all My junkies!

I know many of you reading this are lurking, that you return to My blog to read it again and again, and that you are afraid or do not know how to begin serving Me.

Some of you serve Me from time to time,

and some of you are loyal slaves who never miss a chance to serve. Me.

I want ALL of you reading this to step up to the plate today (it’s ok if you are late, and don’t see this until after Feb 14th, better late than never)

I made a special Valentines Day clip, with photos and even put in a video piece from My archives…

So you can get it as a reward for serving Me..

 But that isn’t enough, is it?

And I do LOVE prezzies! And I added lots of appropriate V-day gifts at ALL price points…go crazy!

Now I want to talk about some of the Biggest Junkies of the week

I have a new Mystery Man, I’m going to call g-man who clicked and paid through My “Financial Slavery begins with a $2 email”   I woke up to find that he spent over $600 pleasing Me….and asked nothing in return but enjoying the contents of the paymail!  Well done g-man!

I also have a new “British Victim”  who overcame his trepidation to spend over $400 this week on Me…I think he may be addicted.  He claims he plans to stay away for awhile, but we all know how well that works…Not.

I think some of the words he wrote Me, were right on Target to how Financial slaves feel about their victimization, so I am going to share

I know that by sending this I am accepting myself as a money slave. I love it. This has been the biggest emotional rollercoaster of an hour in my hole life. The post orgasmic high is still with me. I feel guidy, happy, excited each time I think of you or zoom in on a photo.

I wholely accept that I will do this again one day (I’m still hard!). The totaly, uterly crazy thing is that the thought of doing it again makes me smile a beaming smile in a room on my own. crazy.

and

And I know you have heard it all before, but WOW. I could never have imagined financial domination could feel this good. Its turned my mind upside down. It doesnt even feel seedy anymore, just loving, caring and correct x x x x x x

and best of all this

The feeling after masturbating to financial rape is completely different to the dull lethargic feeling after normal wanking. Its almost exactly the same endorphin filled high you have after long sex with a close partner.

I’m not sure if anyone has said that before, but I also now understand the gratitude guys feel towards you after they have been raped. I feel enormous good will to you right now x x x

Welcome to the fold British victim

This week also made scottie, a weak man with a newfound Lauren addiction much much poorer….he spent HOURS on the phone with Me, getting totally tranced out, while I extracted over $1100 from him (and the week before it had been another $650)

Have fun with Me  and call back again Scottie! (yes I “am” really good at wallet rape, aren’t I?)

And of course we had cameos from Dr X and wallet cunt..both dropping several hundred.

Valentines Day is just going to cap it off!

First of all….
I have designs on your wallet, as usual. I want you to feel the weakness…..

Good, now buy the slideshow….a price designed to addict you

I can’t wait until you become helpless…like other have this week.

We have a special little cuck, who seems to have fallen back into the money slave ways that he thought he left behind
He tells Me he spent thousands years ago on a different Mistress.

This fall will be further, and of course, *I* am the Mistress who will make him fall.

And then there is Stiletto lover. Who made the mistake of requesting an brainwashing audio.  He had NO idea what was going to befall him, and now he can only get hard for Me…

And My little stroke puppet, who spent this week begging Me to make him addictive slideshows.  And he ended up paying A LOT more than he ever dreamed he would.  This loser has been MINE for years now, but this week it went to a deeper level.  Mmmm

Who will be next in My blog?
You?

This is how you know if you really *have* become poor for Lauren, and yes, most of these things have been the reality for My clients.
I invite you to add in the comments what else you think of when you are “Being poor for Lauren”

That bankruptcy becomes a real option for your future
That you spend more in a month on Me than on your mortgage
That you open a new credit card before you max out the old one, so you will have a really big splurge
That when you are so desperate to talk with Me, after months of not being able to afford it, you accept an offer to get paid for a blowjob and use the cash to get a prepaid credit card to hear My voice and tell Me about what you did.
That you spend the money you and your fiancee were saving for a house on Me.
That you eat ramen and tuna for a month so that you can pay for My boyfriend and I to go to Vegas.

I have not done a good job this year alerting all of you minions to My birthday! It’s Friday, November 9th 🙂

I’ll be releasing Pay to Views that day for you to buy of course, because “I like money”

And tributes are really nice, and of course, I am updating My Amazon wishlist, and also Amazon gift cards that you can send to laurenamazon@gmail.com are also really appreciated

And I’ll be adding stuff to My wishlist alll week-if you get Me something, let Me know..

I really really NEED the Senseo coffee pods. I have their coffeemaker, and I can no longer buy the pods in my grocery store, so I can only get them online, and I LOVE My coffee…..so that is something I always appreciate.

There are many beautiful Mistresses out there who are not successful FinDommes.

Yet I am, and you come to My blog again and again to read about Me and My pets.

Many ask Me, how did I get this way?

You read a lot of stories on the ‘net about FinDomme’s claiming they were just naturally born that way. It’s a gift and I’m natural.

I call bullshit.

I mean, it’s true that one needs a certain kind of Dominant personality and a certain amount of confidence, but without the knowledge to “really” penetrate into a man’s psyche, without the skill to reprogram a man, it will never reach its full potential.

That takes a little work. (OMG, FinDomme and work are anathema right?)

Hardly.

I read every bit of information on Mind Control I can get.

I absorb facts on sexual addiction. (All the better to cause it!)
On brainwashing–on trancing and mind control—on the Stockholm effect–on interrogation–on abusive relationships.

I get My best info from scholarly papers, and a certain ability to translate that info into a few choice techniques that make you into a weak fool, an addicted junkie for Lauren–a victim.

I didn’t get so dangerous by being born that way. I chose to be dangerous, to nurture that Fem Fa-tale inside. …to intentionally become the kind of woman that exists to take from you.  And that is why I deserve your cash.  I am smarter than you.

Now hand it over Loser!

The combination of all of those techniques is deadly and effective.

Loserbeast is a fairly new slave, but a very notable one.  In a very short time, mostly the last ten days, he has catapulted to #9 on My All Time Spender List, recently passing a dormant Australian money pig I know still stalks My pages.  He is closing in on the #8 spender.  All of the ones ahead of him took fucking years to get there, this is unprecedented.

Loserbeast should be a shining example to the rest of you Losers out there.  Make an impression, damn it!

Here is a synopsis of his downfall.

It started slowly on August 24th, the last day of My 10K Challenge  –Loserbeast spent $139 dollars, not chump change, but not much foreshadowing of the total extreme financial fucking to come.
A few days went by, and on August 28th, suddenly, the waters broke loose, and Loserbeast lost all control.  I woke up to his clicking and paying to the tune of $710,  ending with a $100 tribute.  Very nice.

But Loserbeast had only just begun.

August 29th brought him to spend another $803 on Me….in another click and pay frenzy

August 30st  was another click and pay Frenzy, and a one on one pay to view session, where once he had spent nearly $900 dollars, I sent a $125 dollar email and he begged Me to lower My price.  My slaves know, that when I do a PTV session, each email cost more than the previous one, and I had been increasing his mails in $10 increments, and jumped to $25 increments when he got to $100.   So he started begging, I said   Sure, Loserbeast…pay that one, and I’ll start decreasing,..so he bought that and I started decreasing $10 at a time.  $100 email…a $90 email….a $80 email…..I’m assuming you all can do the arithmetic,  the rape totaled a Mind blowing $1575.

But Loserbeast wasn’t even close to being done.

August 31st ended the month with a $1126 dollar day

Enter Sept, which began at midnight for me, and the month switched over in the middle of the rape Mmmmm

Sept 1st Total:  $977

Sept 2nd:   $1036

Sept 3rd:  $1070

Sept 4th   $1445

Sept 5th  $684

And today Sept 6th so far a mind fucking  $2965, and I wouldn’t be at all surprised if it went way over $3000 today before we are done, as seeing this blog entry is going to turn him on to return for more fucking.
The Grand Total for Loserbeast:  $12,530.  Holy fuck and most of that was in TEN DAYS (An average of over $1200 a day)

So let Me tell you guys how that feels.  I’m on a high right now.  I’m getting a huge rush seeing the cash flow in. I have resorted to checking My email in the middle of the night, and Loserbeast is not disappointing.  Do you know how HOT it is to wake up to more than $1000 in your Niteflirt account, that got there when you were sleeping?  And a slave begging for more?  I literally get dizzy, I get aroused and I get stoked and full of energy, its better than any drug let Me tell you. And My boyfriend is the sexual beneficiary of this, I haven’t even had a chance to spend this, between the wallet rapes and the sex.  Oh but that will come. 

I’m thinking its time to update My kitchen,  Other girls, they buy shoes, clothes and go out partying with your cash.  Me? I do that too, but I have more expensive needs. I go on vacations, I buy things like cars and artwork.  And I bought a home 3 years ago, and part of Loserbeast’s former cash is going to the principal on that pesky mortgage and possible toward that kitchen renovation.

And let Me just say. Other boys have not been silent during this, and are not forgotten by Me as well.

Kudos Loserbeast.  You’re one of My biggest Losers ever

I have sooo many posts to do, I’ve been so busy.

Last week was My 10K fantasy week, and totaled, 11,700, as I posted.

Here are some statstics I meant to post and didnt

Some statistics. 

63  participated.

The AVERAGE spending for each participant was an amazing $185.71 cents.

The HIGHEST Spender was the slave I call “wallet cunt” who spend a mind numbing $4,250 in only thirty minutes! (If I made that rate hourly, in a year of 40 hour weeks I would have earned close to 18 million dollars!)

The LOWEST Spenders were several of you that only spent $2

You’re probably thinking…well that “wallet cunt” guy skewed the average.  I grant you that, so I calculated eliminating his contribution and participation and STILL it averaged $120 plus a person.

So if you just spent $2, seriously you should go buy something right now to atone!  *laughs*
And *this* week, has been nearly as good, even without wallet cunt.

I’ve made another 8K, without any advertising or promotion. 

Many of you spent hundreds on Me, a couple of new ones deserve special mention.

Loserbeast dropped about 3K on me so far, including a delicious $1500 rape this morning.  I cannot wait to see how far I can push him.

And a new one BusyBoy, I call him that because he just loves to click and pay and can’t stop. So far he has clicked and paid about $1400 into My coffers. Mmmm

And there are others. Jewelry Slave popped her sissy head up to drop a few hundred, and a new guy from Bulgaria did the same.

And some bimbo keeps coming back for more and more abuse, even though I’m always tricking him to pay for empty email and won’t fucking give him more than a few sort words without charging him for the honor.

Someday you guys will give Me time to spend your cash, instead of just collecting it! *laughs*