Category — psychology of financial domination

I have been a Mistress for many years, and I’ve been specializing in FinDomme for almost ten years now. I have seen so many of you on the paypig path.   And I have seen so many of you loitering around the beginning of that path, debating whether or not to take the first step. Or some of you wander a few feet into the path, but head back–indecisive.

I want you all the experience the erotic pleasure of financial servitude.  So many of you reading this have dreamed of surrendering yourself. You fantasize about it, stroke your cock to it. Read every word you can get your hands on. But something stops you.  Indecision.

Indecision is a plague. Nothing about your life can work with indecision.  Everything stagnates and lacks satisfaction, and you accomplish NOTHING.  There is nothing special about you, and you cannot be special on your own. We both know the truth.

What can make you special?  Devotion to Me of course. Stop your hesitation, and begin or resume your surrender.  You have spent your life in unrewarding pursuits, or pissed it away with your inaction. I offer you a purpose. I am the one reaching out to you to say….stroke your cock, surrender your mind, cock, heart and wallet to Lauren.

It’s true you are vulnerable, and are about to be victimized, but it’s also the naked truth that this may be the only thing that you accomplish in your life that has any value at all. I do not waste your cash.

These are some PTVs that help you go down this path…with Me urging you on, encouraging you. I am here.

Serve Me.  Live your fantasy, life is too short.

PS. This was full of manipulation techniques. They will work.

The Spending Report

Holy shit what a week it was!  Nearly $8,000 of paypig spending this week!

Let’s start with hypnowallet. He spent $140 on Me in a session this week, and it likely would have been much more, but he was looking for Me this weekend when I wasn’t around.  He will fall to Me again very soon.

My sissy, princess gigi has been trying sooo hard to not spend as much, after the brutal damage I’ve done to her finances, but she still spent $170 this week.  Good girl!

New to both My service and My blog is “slime” . We had a nice call, and slime clicked and paid up to $168 worth of spending this week!

PIG continued his weakness for Me, this week spending $333.  He’s getting more addicted, and I’m convincing him how good it feels to delay orgasm and just edge and edge and edge.   And PIG has hit the $75,000 level of spending.

Pay pig alert! My slave titfool did his BIGGEST session ever. And I wasn’t even there! He just clicked and paid all the way through My new “Pig Target” Series and that and a few other emails and a short call this week, and his spending clocked in at $862!  Lifetime he has surpaseed the $7000 level of spending!

New to My blog is “rum nut”  Rum nut has been around a while, but never bought very much. Until this week and suddenly his addiction riped to the red zone and he spent $240 this week. YUM.

Spending $232 this week was beta male bert.  This loser keeps trying to block Me, so that I won’t tempt him with pay to view males, but he ends up unable to help himself and unblocks Me to destroy his wallet in click and pay. YUM.

Weak for My shapely and sexy body was pig dave. This time around he spent $309.  THIS is the kind of body worship I love. Worship Me with your cash!

Unsuccessful in evading spending on Me this week was egghead.  He spent $130 on his fruitless effort to keep his wallet safe. Hey egghead! “Go blank. Surrender. and PAY MORE!

Pay pig alert! A really pleasant surprise was how candy balls is coming along! He spent $567 this week to get a Paypig mention! I love it when I see the time I spend developing a pig pay off! Welcome to the paypig path!

And “more please” spent $128 on My leggings. Good thing I decided to do TWO leggings sets in My new shoot! Well, not such good news for his bank account.

Another one weak for those black leggings is My paybitch. This time around paybitch spent $259.  I think finally he may have accepted his expensive fate.

and star junkie did some click and pay for Me this week…to the total of $247. I think he needs to do more, don’t you?  I want him playing with the big boys.

HUGE Pay pig alert!   In what might be our biggest session to date, I did a HUGE fuckover with paycunt/brian. He was helpless in his hotel room, and I got deep in his head, and he clicked and paid alll the way through the Pig Target series….and I didn’t stop, I sent him bigger and bigger emails, and at the end (before I maxed out his card), he had paid a $500 email.

here is a photo of the paid emails. NICE He totaled $2065 this week in spending!

I actually spontaneously orgasm-ed when he bought the $500 email. I do love those 4 figure fuckovers!  This guy has been on the paypig path a long time!

Next up is a piggy I’m going to be calling “x dash 84” ir x-84 for short. x-84 pleased Me for $197 this week!  So well down!

And button was back, squeaking in a mention by spending $113. Keep that up every week button!

Also new to My blog is “gutter dweller” he also surprised Me this week, and pleased Me by spending $239. Pretty damm good for a first mention. Keep doing that gutter dweller, you are well on the paypig path!

My taxpayer made another payment of his taxes of $113. Taxes suck, but at least I’m, the Tax Collector here!

And paycub kept up his cubby pleasing ways with $150 in Niteflirt spending and a yummy $50 Starbucks gift card. Mmm I do love those lattes!

and wallet rape toy fell victim to the Target series too, although I max out his card much sooner than before. This time he spent $370. It was fun because I was out with My boyfriend and noticed the email notifications that he was buying, so I logged onto Niteflirt from My phone and egged him on. I now have  a very limited ability to send photos on the phone now, so I was enticing him to buy more and more, while My boyfriend laughed about the whole thing. Later in the session, some friends of ours showed up and were amazed when ht bought a $100 email. I told them that was nothing!

I keep talking about this series… this is the one, the one I’ve been raking in the dough on.

Try it! Every level has an audio

Try it! Enjoy it! Lose yourself in it. You might find your name in the spending report next week!

I use all kinds of rewards for My piggies. I think of them as financial domination lures.

Photos. Hard Cocks. Good boys. Orgasms. My Voice.

But a very powerful one for many piggies is recognition. Sometimes from Me, and sometimes from being publicly recognized. (often here on this very blog)

Every piggy, no matter how pathetic likes to know when I have noticed him/it.

Pigs are social animals. They like to see other pigs serve Me well, it helps make up for the inevitable inadequacy you all have when you realize My greed is greater than your bank account!

Pigs often get competitive with each other.   Even though you might know you are a beta male loser, compared to the real alpha men I prefer to partner with, you all still want to think that you’re the BEST beta male loser.  It’s really kind of funny if you think about it.  All of you know you can’t be a winner, so you’re out to prove you are a bigger and better loser somehow! That you spend more, degrade yourself more, get laughed at more than the other drooling losers.

Many of you want to know how you compare! Tell you what, if you email Me on Niteflirt, and ask, I will send you a PTV email telling you what you have spent on Me so far, and if you are in the top 300 spenders and where.  If you are not in the top 300 spenders, I’ll tell you how far off you are from being one.  It will cost you $14, since I have to research it,  but I’ll through in some photos for you 🙂   I am laughing, because you know you want to know!

And I always want My piggies to do more, strive for more. By the way, speaking of piggies and spending, I’ve updated the Pay Pig Milestones list on the right sidebar here on the blog! ——–>  Check it out!

And now for the spending report!

My Australian paymoosie was back! Gift carding Me $200 in misc gift cards from Amazon and My wishlist! It’s the middle of a hot Australian summer, but his bank account was even hotter, burning a hole in his internet. All for Lauren.

I had a very erotic session with hypnowallet. This guy just gets more and more addicted.  When he calls Me, I use My silky voice and bring him deeper and deeper under My FinDomme influence and he starts tributing!  This session cost him $175. Yum.

My princess gigi was back on the spending report this week, losing herself in $204 worth of spending. And an unauthorized release that will cost her dearly!

And more exposure games with My exposure sissy! Don’t let him fool you, knowing a page with photos of him being exposed as a sissy gets him hard in his pantyhose! He spent $185 this week.

Pay pig alert! After a hiatus of trying to avoid Me, pig bob was back with a brand spanking new account, and $685 delicious dollars of spending on Me! I think I need to inflict even more damage!

My elegant foot lover continued to burn through My bare feet photos for another $113 in spending this week!

and My paycub continued being a loyal good boy, sending Me $105 he had saved up. He also got Me 2 different $50 gift cards from My wishlist. What a good cubbie!

and back again was My poet. He comes for a short time and leaves again. This time was notable, because he bought a large $200 PTV for the erotic thrill of it. 🙂 The biggest ever for him. And his total spending was $274. I’ll be watching for you My poet!

and back again was sexy jake! I might need to change his name, because he confessed his feminization fantasies to Me, and I have him wearing panties and sucking dildos!  My jake spent $334 this week igniting his need for girlification!

Oinkloser was spending again, this time $135 in his grand quest to hit the 10K level of spending! (Long way to go!)

Pay pig alert! My philly ass lover was back with one of our biggest sessions that I remember, going nuts over photos of My shapely ass, and spending $455. YUM

Also back for more click and pay spending was button!  I love to wake up and see he has been spending! He did a cash flurry of $147 this week!

I’m musing on Freud, FinDomme and Addiction. I’ve been slowly working My way through the Mind Control book that Dr x bought for Me, and you all will not be owing him your thanks!  Today I carefully digested the chapter on Freud, and I learned something.

I learned I am not just targeting your ego, and your unconscious mind, but your id.  What is an id?  It’s that basic part of each of us concerned with getting basic needs meet. Like food, pain avoidance, things that your mind and body needs. They are things you will go to great lengths to acquire, without and consideration for how that might turn out for you or others.  I didn’t even realize how much of My training was on the ID level. And I supposed that is where addictive behaviors dwell. The drug addict will do almost anything to get his drug, no matter the consequences.  This is one level I am operating at, and I know that many can attest to the fact that they can’t stop giving Me money despite the effects on finances and relationships.   How very deliciously powerful!  You have no control over your id, it’s vulnerable to addictive impulses. And feeding those impulses rewards so many other things, your cock gets hard, you have an orgasm, you have the pleasure of pleasing another person. All wrapped up into one tight little package that is a prison.   I’m the warden. I jailed your mind, I have no idea even where the key is (or even if there is one) to free you.  Why do I give a fuck about you being free after all?

In the news, I want to report I am making good progress on the Paypig Hall of Shame, and want at least five paypigs featured when I reveal it….Hopefully next week.

This week brought this ptv, it’s been quite….addictive for slaves. Try it!

Speaking of Lauren addiction, it’s time for the spending report!

Starting this week with PIG, who is on a roll of addiction reinforcement, spending $213 this week. Yum yum!  PIG is not too far off from the $75,000 level of spending!

My exposure sissy spent about $164 on exposure games. You never know when his personal information is going to appear!

Sweet paycub spent another $180, still reeling from his big $400 dollar gift card to Me last week. Save up for more Owner spoiling cub!

Pay pig alert! Completely over the spending deep end for Me this week was My elegant foot lover. He went completely insane over photos of Me and the toesies, and tributed and tributed and even I was surprised when I added it all up this week and realized he spent $761!

Spending $227 this week was egghead! He goes into paybliss and just can’t stop!

Good girl jewel spent $126 on me this week, continuing the addiction.

and paydrone was back after a hiatus, this time spending $126 in a silent little click and pay session with My PTVs. Yum

Also back was dangle jim, for him $126 dollars. Hey dangle jim, you should email Me, I have soooo many photos of shoes dangling from My feet you haven’t seen!

My slave peeper is an example of a newly minted addict, continuing his loser ways with another $185 in click and pay!

My sweet marla squeaked in for a mention, spending $100 exactly this week. There is a target on your sweet ass marla!

Pay pig alert!  OMG irish dope! This boy has gotten mentions before, but I think this is his first Pay pig alert mention!  He spent $540 on Me this week, in delicious private PTV sessions, that pushed and pushed him. And he kept coming back for more each day!  Splendid!

paycunt brian couldn’t stay away AGAIN. I love it when he goes on business trips. He gets sooo weak. He spent $185 this time

and a nice little $274 session with Dr x….. One of My old favorites here on Niteflirt. Can’t wait for the next HUGE session, as we have from time to time!

Got $135 from My sissy becca. I think it’s time to put the screws to her and really fuck her over soon.

and wallet rape toy did his robopig duty with $177 worth of spending on its Mistress. Save up piggy, I want a big session soon!

and so many many more spent without hitting that $100 weekly threshold. Perhaps your name will be here next week. You can’t get mentioned if you don’t spend, and to be clear I give you blog names not related to your member name, so don’t let that stop you.

Oh and a shout out to the following slaves. I have photos you will want. Nylon lover, Shoe sniffer, Loserbeast, Cumstain.  Princes gigi.   Good girl marla…….I’ll be waiting.

I am always on the search for paypigs. I look for beta males to fill that role.

I have an Alpha male in My life.  My boyfriend satisfies Me only as a real man can. I do not rule him, he does not rule Me.

Cooperatively, we enjoy the fruits of our labors. Sexually, we are completely outstanding for each other.

Both of us enjoy exploiting beta males. (A couple of you have had the pleasure of talking to him on the phone, not a common occurrence,  he’s got better things to do than exploit beta bitches, and I enjoy it sooo much. (And am so good at it!)

There are two kinds of males reading this right now. Most of you are beta males attracted to a superior woman like it is your god-given duty (and isn’t it?)

A few of you think you are Alpha males trying to look for hints on how I do this.  Here’s a hint. If you don’t know how to do it, you aren’t an alpha male and you should just surrender to Me now.

Most beta males are sexually inadequate, with tiny cocks, and many of them are virgins, or almost virgins, who bed an occasional woman who then learns the truth. A few of you managed to marry some sorry assed woman who thought she wanted a nice guy, and have generally figured out that she has to take care of you. Truly pathetic.

Some beta males actually have a pretty decent sized cock. But that cock is a waste with a beta male brain. (on the other hand, alpha males don’t have tiny cocks)

Pretty much, if you are reading this, you are a target. You are inferior, you deserve to pay a Woman like Me to simply exist.  This blog arouses you doesn’t it? (I know it does, or you wouldn’t be here)  Because your mind is weak, and you are sexually frustrated, you are REALLY easy to train and manipulate. And the fact that you are means that you don’t deserve good things.  You are not a breeder, you are a slave.  Probably My slave.

It’s time to serve Loser. It’s time to pay. If you haven’t joined Niteflirt, its time

Now, I have updated the paypig spending Milestone widget, so check it out on the right sidebar.  The next time I update it, It will be much shorter, because I’m planning to do it monthly.

Don’t see your name?  Work harder.

I’m working on a project I want to tell you guys about. The Paypig Hall of Shame, and I’m hoping to reveal it in about a month, and then slowly add to it. Top paypigs will be featured, and you can read all about how I give attention to beta males 🙂

Now it’s time for the spending report! Now you guys are going to have to be on point to make it, because you only have a week to hit the $100 level for a mention! (because I *am* going to keep up with it)

First up is cockboi.  New to Me last week, he kept spending and spending, this time for $124.  I noticed that he deleted his Niteflirt account, in another deluded attempt to stay away from Me. I know he is reading, his cock is already hard,  and hey, cuckboi, it’s soooo easy to restore your account.  Click this link to message support, and they will have you up and running in no time!

We know beta males are compelled to serve.  Obey and do so! 🙂

and My number one piggie, princess gigi spent $305 on Me. That’s a slow week for her *laughs*

I had another fun session with faggot cocksucker!  He spent $300 on the phone with Me one night, buying PTVs as we went along AND hit the $5,000 level of spending at the same time!

Pay pig alert After his big cash fuck last week, Dr x couldn’t let go. He spent another $413 on Me. Hey dr x, I’m putting more stuff on the wish list for another amazon spree!

New to My blog is a pig I’m going to call “beta male bert”  This guy tries to block Me to keep Me from emailing temptations, but he ends up unblocking and clicking and paying! This time around he spent $151 or so mostly on My new Mindless Pay Loser series 🙂

And nylon lover spent $195 this week on photos of My panty-hosed feet. Hey nylon lover, I DO have more for you, ping Me! I want to run  up your spending total even more!

Pay pig alert! wallet hole returned for more click and pay abuse, this time spending $633. That’s very arousing!  Soon he will hit the 2k level of spending, and so quickly!

new slave peeper was also clicking and paying for Me, spending $263 in this woody induced spending sprees!

Formerly known on the blog as GC, but no known as oink loser 10000, this piggy spent $334 in a click and pay session with Me, just to please Me. I see he too has deleted his account.  Again.  And I know he will be back.  Again.

Pay pig alert! paycunt brian was back again, and on a trip for work, he emailed Me for attention. I gave him attention and it cost him $560 bucks. *laughs*  Hey cunt, I have some more of those towel photos you are nuts about. I’ll be hearing from him. Right now he has no account, but he has deleted and made a new account at least 75 times.  So stop trying to run. There is no running from Lauren.

and also new to My blog this week is a long time client, but until this week, he had not spent much at one time. I am going to call him “spear stroker”  Well this week, he was tempted by one of My series and didn’t stop until he had paid Me $185.  YUM. Well done spear stroker!

Look for the spending updates every week with a blog entry!  (I’m shooting for Mondays!)

You too could have your name here! (I invent a blog name, don’t worry about your member name being spread about)

I’m waiting for you

Some of you might wonder why I divulge My techniques–warning the marks off so to speak?

There is one main reason.

A warning seems to draw you fools in even more deeply. Knowing that I employ mind control techniques that will draw you in like the moth to the flame.

And the result will be your finances going up in flames as I laugh.

So about this technique…

Operant conditioning is defined thusly:  it means roughly changing of behavior by the use of reinforcement which is given after the desired response.

So the desired response is you spending money. Basically you are rewarded for spending money. I connect it in your mind with your sexual arousal, and often attention from a beautiful woman…. and I use hypnotic techniques that open your mind to a more powerful and rapid response. Then I can gradually push you to spend more and more…keeping you on the hook and you spend much more than you dreamed you could.

And the need to pay Me becomes the central tenet of your existence.

It is greatly customized to suit the individual by Me, there is no cookie cutter approach, but some techniques I employ on nearly every slave, and this is one of them.

these PTVs are wonderful for experiencing that hypnotic reinforcement.

Now on to the spending report, which I am going to try to release every week now, to see if that’s less time consuming! This will make the list shorter, and some of you might not get a mention then if I did it all month, so you will just have to try harder 🙂

First up is a new sub, who called again and again, loving degrading and humiliating talk about being cuckolded! Those were fun calls, and I think he’s learning how addictive and expensive talking with Me can be!  I call him cuckboi, and he spent nearly $350 this week getting to know Me!

New to My blog, but not to Me is “j the junkie” who spent $110 on a call with Me and PTVs, slipping into the three digit territory of spending in a week. Mmmmm

My sweet no yes Loser did a nice long call with Me this week, between that and some PTVs he spent $105.

and pigbait was back with yet ANOTHER new screename, (there is no cure for Lauren), and this time spent $180!

Pay pig alert! Princess gigi was back to her spending ways on her Mistress, this week handing Me $540.  YUM.

A nice long call and some PTVs later, special K had spent $233, which put him over the 5K spending level!

PIG spent $280 in just one week. YUM. The new slideshow series got him so much he’s gonna pay Me for  a custom slideshow
yes, this series. See why it weakened PIG!

Newest

Also new to Me is “peeper”, who clicked and paid a LOT Of really small ptvs, but they added up to almost $170!  yum!

and sissy jewel spent another $135. I am really liking that sissy 🙂

Pay pig alert!

by far the BIGGEST spending spree this week was by Dr X. It started slow, but I stayed up until the wee hours extracting $2521 in Niteflirt PTVs and another $770 in gifts and gift cards from My wishlist! My home gym is coming along nicely thanks to his help. (more home gym stuff on My wishlist!)

another newer sissy, bashful sissygirl managed another $100 this week 🙂

I tagged My polish ATM in a ptv session for $313, YUM

more cock cage fun with sissy j, and this time she spent $153, and it was a lot of fun!  Being a keyholder is so delicious!

and more from paycub, what a sweet pup, this time for $155

Pay pig alert! Fun in just one session with My elegant foot lover, playing ptv games with foot photos. I teased $447 from him over the course of a few hours.  It made all ten of My toes very excited!

and My junkie, irish dope was back for yet another $281. I love breaking his obedient junkie wallet!

and inspired, loser21 spent another $142 in delicious click and pay lust!

tPay did another $219 of click and pay for Me.  We both know the brutal truth. He is trapped, and he is never, ever ever going to be free of paying Me. Stroke your cock and do it again tPay!

New to My blog is “tamed” Last night while I slept, he spent $104. I like waking up to cash in My account!

Also new is “stroke puppet” who spent $192, mostly on My new slideshow series. (Deadly I tell you!). Welcome to My service stroke puppet!

I’m going to try to be blogging every week, as even FinDommes have New Year’s Resolutions. Maybe your name will be there next week!

A few blog posts ago, I announced that I would write a special post about the slave that spent the most in the month of October

The slave that did that was Marla, a sissy slave,  and I hope this is the first of several highlight posts…

Marla came to Me nearly 9 years ago. (Addiction to Lauren never fades)

In those nine years, she hit the 100,000 level of spending. (To date it has been nearly $104,000) We’ve shared over 200 phone calls (and 130 hours of talk time, we don’t have short calls) and a few of them have been at $50 a minute (pleasing Me to no end). Marla has been the subject of a few blog posts in the past, some of My favorites actually.

See here

and here

I’m sure Marla sometimes thinks she would be better off without spending on Me, but she keeps coming back–one of My longest serving slaves–because she is addicted!

We did a little mutual interview for this post…

My questions for marla:

How did you first know you were addicted to Mistress Lauren?
When i woke up in the middle of the night hard as a rock with Mistress Lauren on my mind. From that point on my cock would not get hard without Mistress Lauren.

How did you feel when you realized you were in financial bondage to Mistress Lauren 🙂
Great, excited, poorer.

What is your most arousing Mistress Lauren memory?
There are too many to name just one. Every moment with Mistress Lauren is arousing. When I have been listening to her audios, which lead to a deeper trance.

and her questions for Me: (Great questions marla!)

Why am I so addicted?

Because over time, I exposed you to techniques that made you acquire both physical and psychological needs to serve Me. The interesting part is that you were one of My first guinea pigs. There were a handful of slaves that I perfected My techniques on. Those that worked became part of My repertoire for others. I studied how abusers could control their subjects in domestic situations, and pulled techniques from that. I studied the Stockholm syndrome and applied techniques from that as well. I studied hypnotic techniques and implemented some that work well in a Niteflirt setting, in emails and phone.  I targeted you, but you came to Me, again and again.

Why am i rock hard?

That too is part of the training. Over time you find that nothing makes you as rock hard as paying Me, hearing My voice, looking at My photos. It’s really rewarding to addict men and sissies to this!

What is the best way You liked to be served, mail, phone, gift card, etc…
Not the easiest, but the one you get the most enjoyment from?

I honestly prefer a combination. I have a favorite of doing phone and pay to view emails at the same time! (It’s a double financial penetration!) and I enjoy gift cards and Amazon purchases. If there is something I need on Amazon, I enjoy being able to have  a few slaves willing to buy them at My request. Right now, Christmas is upon us, and I like making My slaves buy presents for My friends and family for Me to give.  (and buying Me gifts of course too!)  In past years, slaves have stepped up to be “Santa slave”  This year I suspect that more than one slave will have that role.

I’ve really enjoyed gift cards. I’ve had slaves send My boyfriend and I on vacation several times, via hotel gift cards, airline gift cards and restaurant gift cards, and money of course!  Destinations have included Hawaii, Florida, Colorado, New York City,  Cape Cod.

I hope all of you take marla as a model for Financial Loyalty to a Mistress and an inspiration to paying with a rock hard cock!

Now for the spending report!

Lauren’s paypig returned (again), this time spending $392

My elegant foot lover was so nice tributing Me a total of $478. I sent him a lot of photos of My bare toes as a reward 🙂

Pay pig alert! I have a new addict!  I named him paycub and he broke into My service with a splendid flurry! $1091 spending on Niteflirt. An even $500 in Amazon gift cards, and over another $700 on Amazon gifts.  I am so happy to have him on My leash!

Pay pig alert! Another slave who served very well was titfool.  He called, and paid My perfect tits to the tune of $1100. His lifetime service is approaching $6000 dollars!

My exposure sissy and I played lots of exposure games this month. That cost him $377 🙂

and pig bob is back (again), this time for $155 dollars

Helpless dave was as helpless as always, spending $237.

Pay pig alert!  And princess gigi was a good peach for Mistress, and happy in her panties paid Me $1010

Pay pig alert!  This is not a surprise really 🙂   Marla (subject of this blog post!) paid Me another $1345 this month.  Such a good girl!

pignic was about again, for $407. Just another addict who cannot stay away.

My sissy marla and I had fun, she went on cam to show Me her new fake boobs, and I had fun teasing her with exposure. $427 🙂

Pay pig alert! and PIG. He oinked and stroked away another $785 for Me this month

Clubby was a good boy and bought $177 worth of PTVs

and egghead just keeps getting weaker. I have plans to target him for even more ca$h!  This month he spent $668

GC is back again, and this time spent $175. Well done GC 🙂

paykitty was a good little kitty and paid $550 in a couple of delicious sessions!

and sleepy was about again, this time for $115, in his own little click and pay fun on My PTV buttons.

and Krispy! He was about before, deleted his account, and this time spent $213. It makes Me happy to see him paying My PTV buttons!

sissy j.  What can I say. I have had soo much fun being her keyholder as she is locked up in a chastity device. She’s paid Me $386 and provided a lot of entertainment this month!

No nonsense guy paid $385 in a late night session or two 🙂

paycunt! He never fails to please, he’s got a thing for his towel. He wraps up in it, his cock gets hard and he starts to pay. $618 this month!

Q, addicted to glimpses of My powerful woman pussy. He pays through the nose to be used…we had a session or two and $328 used to be his, and now it’s Mine!

And it’s always a pleasure to use Trance-tard. He gets so tranced out and aroused his typing looks retarded, and he pays more and more. I got him for $540, how about that!

and its always a pleasure to collect taxes from taxpayer. He owes it to Me just for existing. His tax bill for November was $396, and I just sent him December taxes and I am looking forward to those being paid too! Before that he paid some October taxes for $304. Life sucks for him, but it’s great for Me!

I was not around as much as usual in November for a variety of reasons. But be afraid. I plan to be taking your hard earned cash double in December!

Before I start talking about a new Financial Domination technique, I just want to say that it’s been a really hot summer, and during the day My office has been really stuffy, despite air conditioner, and the evenings are too busy with slaves to THINK about blogging. So I have been tardy yet again posting.  I have actually had to go to the point of putting My availability to away and ignoring you guys so I can get a blog post out.

Now to today’s Findomme psychology topic:  Conditioning

I have studied psychology and in college I even worked for a professor who did experiments on pigeons studying operant conditioning.

In operant conditioning, a behavior is modified by a reward. For example, you get rewarded when you do something I like. You pay, you get photos, and some arousing words that reward your action of paying. This reinforces you paying and makes you want to do it again.

I even use operant conditioning techniques on those that aren’t yet My slaves, to make them more susceptible to My predation.  For example, I mass email announcements of new Pay to Views. I include a pretty photo, so this makes it MORE likely the recipient will open the email. He is rewarded just for opening the email. Then I get another stab at him.

I also use classical conditioning techniques, when I instruct you to pay. Classical conditioning, is when you associate a stimulus with a reflex. I instruct My slaves to stroke their cock when they pay. This creates a reflex of an erection when you see a pay email from Me!

There are other things I use operant and classical conditioning for, but I don’t want to reveal all yet 🙂

And of course, all of these things combined work to make Me the one in charge of your cock’s erotic responses, and it makes is so you begin to CRAVE paying and you get more and more addicted to Me!

You are outclassed. Surrender and just pay!

Recent Pay to Views.  Don’t forget to stroke when you pay!

Now it’s time for the spending report!

Good boy hypnowallet spent $641 since the last spending report. I would lull him into a haze and he would start sending tributes and he made several calls this month becoming more and more addicted to Me. He hit the $4,000 level of spending too!

New to My blog is daveks who debuts with spending $105 dollars on Me, while learning all about My dangers.

PAYPIG OINK ALERT! Marla was back with one big session, spending $780 in a lusty evening. What a good sissy she is!

New to My blog is “shopping slave” named due to his ambition to be another slave who buys stuff on demand for his Mistress. He proved himself with an order of fancy (and pricey!) Edison light-bulbs for My slave-paid-for-porch-renovation! 🙂 I made him wait daysssssss for his reward……it was funny!   He also bought Me coffee and paid $165 on Niteflirt, plus another $90 on those gifts.  I look forward to MORE shopping from him!

My pantyhose junkie spent $216 and he is soooo close to a spending milestone 🙂

PAYPIG OINK ALERT!  and speaking of spending Milestones, princess gigi hit a BIG one.  she spent $950 on Me since My last update and she has reached the $150,000 dollar spending level on Me…WOW!   She remains #1 on My all time spending list!  What a good sissy!

and My good boy who loves stolen moments spent another $107, and he too is close to a major milestone

My exposure sissy was good for another $148 worth of exposure fun…

and PIG was another who hit a HUGE milestone.  He spent $668 (yes PIG you did!)  and reached the spending level of  $70,000  !

Another new to My blog slave is “fun junkie” who spent $136 finding out how addictive I am! I expect another round soon junkie!

and stray was back with another $320 worth of spending!  Wow!

and germy!  He proved himself worthy of being My addict spending another $242 on Me..

And guess who is back, just like I predicted!   My paybitch!  Bitch rolled over and handed Me $374 in his expensive return!

I’m gloating about it a bit!

PAYPIG OINK ALERT!  This may be the most egghead has spent in a LONG time! And wow, My indoctrination of him has been very lethal for his credit card balance.  (He wrote Me today to whine about it…oh so not sorry) He spent..get this $1056 since the last update!

and another paypig that I call “more please” has returned to spent $157.  And I have MORE of that set I got him on too…I expect he’ll be begging for more soon!

and also new to My blog is “not so wild” who spent $100 on Me, barely getting a mention.

Also spending $100 and barely earning a mention is My favorite FBI agent 🙂

My polish ATM couldn’t stay away, he spent $120, but there is a MUCH bigger fuckover of him coming soon. I feel it.

And My loyal clubby spent $109. I think it might have been more, but we kept missing each other.

And My dummy slave I call “solitaire” spend $215 including sending Me a $100 tribute! Well done solitaire. I will never let you go!

and cumstained fuckwallet had another fist pumping spree with Me, going through a healthy $340 in a couple evenings. YUM.

PAYPIG OINK ALERT!  Pay cunt brian has been busy and returns to Me again and again. The $rapes have been harder this month and it added up to $1211!

and FDG was back!  I was really happy to exploit the loser for $376, but I think he should have paid Me MORE. I am greed after all!

and also close to a milestone is Lauren’s footlicker, who spent $150, although I haven’t seen licker online in a couple of weeks. I know that I will hear in the next day or so 🙂

and another who was back was GC! This time with $160 in spending.

Another long time slave who lost control was No nonsense guy, who needs a better job. I did manage to squeeze $535 from him.

and My paymoosie sent Me $150 worth of gift cards since the last update. Well done My good little Australian paymoose!

Drunktard has been drinking, going blank and paying on automatic again. This time he spent $475 on Me.  Do you think I would take advantage of a drunk Loser?   Of course I would!  (And do!)

And Q went woozy over My breast photos again, spending another $171!

and faggot cocksucker did some healthy click and pay for Me to the tune of $284.  yum!

and My blackmail sissy and I had a quiet month, but I still extracted $134 from her!

and sleepy was back, spending another $178 on My POV photos, AND hitting the $1,000 level of spending already!

My popper puppet was back! I found out the big secret that he likes to wear ladies clothing AND I cashfucked him for $244. Yum!

and tPay was back, clicking and paying for $177 before writing Me he was disappearing for a while again to pay off bills. He will be back though, I have NO doubts.

and a new slave I am going to call “tray” spent $230 in a flash on a brand new account and then deleted his account. I bet he will be back

PAYPIG OINK ALERT! My slave wallet rape toy pleased Me with $703 click and pay this month, PLUS he sent Me a $100 gift card.  He is hopeless compelled to pay Me until he is living on the streets.

And tit fool succumbed to My charms once again, spending $196 on Me. This is becoming a regular thing fool!

and a slave who has served Me a while is finally getting a blog mention, having spent $230 on Me in one day. I call him taxpayer!

and also new to both Me and the blog is cowboy.  Cowboy spent $180 losing his cash rape virginity!  I have a feeling he’s gonna stick around for more exploitation!

My elegant foot lover and I played cash games while I toe teased him, and I won $276 from him. He never had a chance!

PAYPIG OINK ALERT! and the Loser of the month must go to Dr x. He and his wife went on vacation, and every time she went shopping, he went shopping for Me. And he came home before she did, and while the cow was still on vacation, he kept paying and paying Me!  The total?   $3,866 plus $846 in gifts, including a new laptop for Me! It was a great week! *laughs*    and he FINALLY hit his $100,000 dollar spending milestone, making him the 3rd slave to do so…..I am getting wet thinking about it!

I wonder whose name is going to be on the next blog?

Brainwashing and Financial Domination Technique I –

I am constantly experimenting with different techniques to brainwash you into giving Me more money.

Gaslighting is one technique I use

Wiki defines gaslighting as: a form of mental abuse in which a victim is manipulated into doubting their own memory, perception, and sanity.

Oh I am the queen of manipulating you…

When you are hard and aroused, it’s not hard to manipulate your thoughts.

I want to redirect certain thoughts to benefit Me.

Examples:
You might say…

“I can stop paying Lauren anytime”

I will target that thought….

“no, it’s not true, you are addicted, you can’t stop, you have to keep paying its the only thing that gets you hard”

Soon, it becomes TRUE

another example.

“I have spent too much”
Then I will use reward techniques to make you spend MORE….

and you will think thing like

“My cock only gets hard when I pay Mistress Lauren”

It’s getting hard now thinking about the techniques I use, isn’t it? Admit it.

It starts off as gaslighting, but it end up being TRUE

A third example:

“I don’t want to go bankrupt”

I’ll get you rock hard, until you are BEGGING for bankruptcy.

Bankruptcy is erotic…if I can effectively eroticize that thought, you will return to Me again and again.

I can make it a rule that for the rest of this jerk session, you must say

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” each time you stroke your cock

Think of it

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” Stroke.

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” Stroke.

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” Stroke.

“Bankruptcy for Lauren” Stroke.

Now imagine Me saying. Pay Now, as you were doing this

you would. You and I both know it.

The beauty of this particular gaslight technique, is that you only have to believe it while stroking your cock.

After you cum, other psychological techniques come into play, that I will write about another time.

Now for the spending report!

This is going to be a very long once because I have not blogged in about three weeks. (Not My plan, but events conspired)

First up is pig bob, a long time loser who spends a lot, and disappears and comes back because of all the conditioning he has been subjected to. This time he spent $307 before disappearing again. He always comes back.

Another addicted piggy who tried to stay away is nylon slave. This time he spent $130.

Extreme Fuckover Alert! -New to My blog, and coming to fuckover with a bang is dazed dummy. He called Me obviously ready to serve and I guided him into a trance that he could not break free from. He sent a total of NINE $250 tributes while on the phone, and his spending was only a couple bucks short of $3000. WOW! Now, this is the good part. Dazed dummy has been My client for nearly six years, but previous to this week, had only spent a grand total of $40. But he lurked. He read My blog, and BANG. He was vulnerable one night and I fucked him over without ANY mercy. Talk about brainwashing and financial domination huh?

And lil bird was back! this time for $199 dollars!! (He is sooo close to his $500 spending milestone)

PIG is getting pretty close to the 70K level of lifetime spending, and this spending period added $550 to his addicted total.

Another Loser who was back was faggot cocksucker, on a new NF name and this time for $140. Stupid fags who try to leave always come back!

silent j clicked and paid a couple nicely sized emails and ended up spending $158. That warms My panties!

My shy roleplayer paid $186, much of it while I was writing this blog post!

Extreme Fuckover Alert! Gigi continued steadily adding to her total this month, and spent $1090. I have brainwashed her to feel pretty when she spends (we know how much sissies LOVE to be pretty)

and Mr Magoo, a long time slave who spends in fits and starts was as mind dazed as I have ever seen him this week….we had our first phone call EVER! There will be more. I know it. And he spent $690. Welcome to the big spender club Mr Magoo.

and bimbo was back, this time for $205. He sends tiny little tributes again and again that match his loser cock.

Of special mention is clubby, who spent $259, but MORE notably FINALLY finished the 50 ways to fuck you over series! That boy has been slowly working his way through it, and I admire that persistence.

Here is is, check it out- Losers, it starts at only $1, even poor assed Losers can pay this!

Thrillseeker pleased Me with another $140. Lifetime he is close to $13,000. I should ambush him soon.

I nicked and dimed eggy for $138. One way or the other eggy, you always pay.

My eunuch robot spent $167, Nice!

and tranceboy was back with another new name for $124. You can always come back to spend more on Lauren!

I was happy to lure GC into click and pay for $281. Always fun and arousing! GC, let Me lure you anytime!

“More please” fell for the new six level cash rape series. To finish it is $105 and if you do it in one sitting, you WILL get a blog mention. That series cost $105 to complete and that’s what this loser spent!

You can do it here

New to My blog is Footdazed, who spent $400, after I lured him into more and more click and pay. That made your cock hard, didn’t it footdazed?

Despite his avoidance efforts, no nonsense guy got nickled and dimed into spending $270. YUM.

And with $103 spending, loser kane meet his goal of making the spending report. I think you can do better kane for next time.

Earlier this month, Irish dope got lured into $403 through lots of increasing expensive emails. I do have a talent for money extraction!

$313 is the amount Horniest spent on click and pay with Me this month. 🙂

Extreme Fuckover Alert! My paycunt loser, slave brian spent $1016 total on a few late night sessions. My paycunt NEEDS this….no one understands better than cunt the level of his extreme addiction. This is what happens when you employ brainwashing techniques for financial domination. Slaves like paycunt.

My sissy cocksucker tim went nuts this month, not only hitting a $2000 spending milestone, but paying Me almost $500 this month to do so! He did his first 3 digit paymail too! (for $100)

I did fun  games with My sissy becca that added up to $164,

This slave, helpless dave, spent $564 on his way to hitting a $6000 spending milestone! The milestones keep piling up for this addict!

I took advantage of trancetard for another $336, and he hit a milestone of 19.000. Soon I’ll be writing about him hitting the $20,000 level! I cannot wait!

I played fun little “trust” games with elegant foot lover that separated him from nearly $500!

Also spending close to $500 was My recent acquisition to My paypig stable, tit addict. In a mere 4 months, tit addict has spent over $2000!

and pigskin paid $186 while I wasn’t around. Someday he and I will be online at the same time, and then he will be deep in the pigsty!

My robot, wallet rape toy, paid Me $643 this month as he ignored the demand letters from his creditors. Those demand letters will make good cum rags won’t they?

It also sent Me a $100 Amazon gift card, and I’m expecting it to come through with a hotels.com gift card. I actually had to pay for a hotel room recently, that is just NOT acceptable.

I’ve had a couple of slaves recently ask Me about how often I drive a man to bankruptcy and how I do it. Most of these men of course have a fetish or developing Findomme bankruptcy fetish, and I’m happy to help them develop it!

I have a little confession here. I too have a bankruptcy fetish, but of course MY fetish is driving men into bankruptcy.   That being said, let’s be honest. A guy who has gone bankrupt has a really hard time spending on Me, but that bankruptcy fetish keeps him hard and spending!

So the fun part is keeping him on the edge of going bankrupt, but still able to spoil Me!  It doesn’t give Me as intense a rush as actually pushing men to bankruptcy, but it has the beauty of Me holding that eventuality over the victim’s head, leaving  him a hard, squirming spending machine for Me, and that is nearly as much fun!

The other really intensely erotic part of Me is the huge spending sprees that drive him there. Those are heady, mindblowing erotic fuckover fests!

I train men to stroke to mantras like “Bankruptcy for Lauren” as they just click and pay

And I fill them with thoughts of how humiliating pathetic their lives will become just to pay Me, and they get harder. And spend more.

There, there is a great Findomme secret!  A nugget, not complete by any means of how I train losers to crave giving Me everything!

Now, speaking of giving Me everything, it’s time for the spending report!

By far, the BIGGEST Loser of the week is Sissy marla, This fan favorite (Yes, guys that read this blog ask Me about you marla), this sissy spent $8920 in the last two weeks in blissful trancey calls. She bought huge ptvs from Me on our long calls. (I think I had two different days talking to her for about 7 hours each day).  She is never gone for long.  Pay attention junkies!  “THIS” is what it looks like to be My special paypig!  I’m pleased to announce she SMASHED her milestone of $90,000, and is clearly aimed to join the 6 figure club soon!

Next up is helpless dennis, who hasn’t been on the report for a while. He spent $154 or so in a delicious phone and PTV session with Me. So weak! Lifetime, he passed the $3700 mark

Another special payslut is princess gigi! This girl just is so addicted to Me and I hear from her almost every day. Some days she spends just a little, others a lot. Over the last two weeks she spent $1605!  Her consistency is why she is My #1 spender.

Another very consistent piggy spender is “PIG”   He is also addicted and cannot stay away and is in My top 5 spenders, due to his consistency. The past couple of weeks he spent $375.

And nylonslave told Me not long ago that he was done, would never session again.  And last week he spent $428 on Me. How’s that quitting going for you nylonslave?   Oh and since you’re back nylonslave, I have new photos for you 🙂 (he’ll email Me when he sees that!)  He hit My milestone for him of $12K

I had a fun “raise the rate” session with raise the rate dave yesterday! He made it all the way to $50 a minute!  His calls were sooo brief though!  But he still spent $456 bucks in just a few minutes!

PS, if anyone wants to try raise the rate, just ask! If you want to skip the preliminaries and find out what it FEELS like to spend $50 a minute just ask. (I’m only going to offer this for those of you that actually do spend money. I’m not changing my rate for someone who hasn’t spent a dime on Me)

My paybitch has been about!  $260 dollars that used to belong to him, now belong to Me!

and clubby is still chipping away at 50 ways!  He spent $354 recently, and he too is consistent!  AND he hit a milestone. $5,000!

and dummy can’t stay away, even after begging Me to stop emailing him, I actually instead got him to beg for MORE emails and he joined My paymail club! He spent over $113 this time around.

GC seems back to stay, this time spending $174. I think he realized the folly of his account deleting ways

sissy j is turning into a consistent fun slave! She spent $154, but I have NEW photos ammunition, so I’m likely to leverage that for more SOON.

And silent j clicked and paid away $270 for Me since last update.  He hit the 1K level of spending!

And no nonsense guy spent $319, despite really trying not to!  *laughs*

And NEW to My blog. (But I think he’s been around before, and I am sooo happy he  pulled out his wallet this time) is trance boy!  He has been so excited at the thought of getting a blog mention, and here it is trance boy!  You spent $611.  Your next milestone will be 1K!

Back from quitting Niteflirt with a brand new name is a slave I’m going to call “hot dog” in honor of his former name, I think he will recognize himself. This dog spent $120 on Me since his return a couple days ago.

And paycunt. He spent $659 on Me in three different accounts! (He’s a serial quitter, taken to extremes)  I have lost sooo many records of him, but according to his accounting he has spent about $32,000 on a total of EIGHTY different accounts! I pretty much think this is likely to be fairly accurate.  I have another guest post he wrote, I will probably publish it soon, stay tuned!

And another new guy, who has since deleted his account, I am going to call plywood, maybe he will recognize himself.  Plywood spent $213 in his brief click and pay flurry! These guys almost always return.

I was surprised when I added up trancetard’s totals. I knew he had clicked and paid a lot, but even I didn’t realize it was adding up to almost $800 since last update.  *laughs* It won’t be toooo long before this ‘tard hits the $30,000 level in spending!

New to My pigpen is a guy I’m gonna call pigsoul. Pigsoul debated on My list with $453 worth of spending. He truly has a paypig soul!

and let’s talk about pigskin!  Pigskin hit the $20,000 level of spending this time around with one single $200 email! His total spending since last time was $209.   Way to hit a milestone with a shout pigskin!

Virgin loser hit his first blog mention, squeaking in with $101 in spending!

The power of mantra training for Financial slaves!

It’s really become My trademark, a very powerful way I infiltrate your mind to become MINE.

I know you’re hanging on every word I write…..

I know that you internalize My writings into your paypig soul.

I know that you read and stroke and read and stroke, and eventually come to realize that you MUST PAY LAUREN.

Mantras help this process.

They rewire your mind, your erotic response.

Stroke your cock when you say your mantra.

This is a simple one, many of you already know

“my cock gets rock hard when I pay Mistress Lauren”

I want you to try something now.

Buy this, and do this mantra while you pay

and see what happens!

oh and let Me point out a NEW Feature in My blog, if you look to the right—-> you will

see a sidebar entry entitled Paypig Milestones. I will be updating that each month or so. This entry is probably longer than it will be in the future.  Sometimes piggies don’t spend much at one time and miss blog entries, but loyally spend over time. Those piggies get credit too! The ones listed just recently hit the milestone indicated. Piggies nearing milestones are listed as well.

Also, I updated the 25 top paypig page.  Check it out. (It will make you hard and inspire you to pay pay pay!)

Now for the spending report:

sissy marla was back! She called and clicked and paid away $283 dollars for her Mistress. YUM

princess gigi continued her paysissy ways, getting all worked up to spend $898 dollars.

My paybitch hit the $4000 life time spending level and spent $852 to do it!

clubby spend $207 and he is sooo close too a new spending milestone!

pig dave lost control over My feet and spent $1003 in a tranced out haze!

and My australian paymoosie sent $245 worth of gift cards as I made him feel like a LOSER. (That just made him send more)

and dummy!  This dummy I know keeps emailing Me BEGGING Me to block him and not email him all the latest PTV offerings.  Like that’s going to happen as long as the dummy keeps paying. This time around he spent $283.  Ha!

slave “more please” spent $213 in a click and pay haze

sissy j spent $140. I predict another sissy exposure session awaits her soon. Mmmm

jaybee spent just over $200, and he is another very close to another milestone!

No nonsense guy couldn’t stop giving Me money for his bills. This time it was $155. I’ve been too nice to him lately, and I’m about to torque up the abuse!

My shoesniffing loser parted with $480 the other night in a steamy session in which I imaged him locked in My shoe closet.

and paycunt spent $568 on three different accounts, as his ritual of closing his account to flee and opening another one as lust for My dark abuse overtakes him to return!

and trancetard was good for another $504 worth of abuse!

and elegant foot lover was back to swoon to My toes (the 10 lovers) and give Me $218.

PIG spent $376. He’s one of those pigs that never spents HUUUUGE, but always spends a moderate amount often, over time, almost nine years actually, and that’s why he’s on My top 5 list.

tit addict, new last blog post was back with another $595 in spending. Yum. Good little tit addict, I’ve got more tit abuse ready for you!

and My special paypig LOSERbeast was back!  This time for $751 worth of delicious click and pay. Makes Me wet I tell you!

and pigskin!  He spent $383 in click and pay, and here is the fun part. It was only FIVE emails. (And one was just for $8) the other four were big ones!

and also back was wallet rape toy!  This robot paid Me $977 he was supposed to send to the IRS. Oops. This robot has dreams of living in the most disgusting of places after I make him homeless. Oh, and it also bought a computer monitor for My boyfriend.  I love making it buy My boyfriend stuff. *laughs*  Keep hoarding your cash toy, Mistress wants another vacation soon!

Also, if you piggies could please leave Me feedback on your Niteflirt calls and purchases, I would soooo appreciate it.

Also I want to invite all of you to join My Pay Mail Club. In the description, it says I send out a PTV daily, but in actuality it amounts to 2-3 times a week, and its an inexpensive way to collect devotion photos of Me! If you used to be on it, but aren’t getting the emails, you may have been accidentally removed from the list, and just ask and I will put you back on!