Category — psychology of financial domination

I study the craft of Financial Domination very closely, so that I can apply principles that will boost the strength of your addiction to Me and the need to empty your wallet for Me.

I am calculated.   One of the areas I study is abuse.  I’ve been fascinated by the phenomena known as Stockholm Syndrome, a state in which a kidnapped victim begins to identify with his/her captors.   I also study domestic violence and the psychology of why an abused person in a relationship has difficulty leaving that relationship.

Basically it comes down to the fact that when one person in a relationship (Me), intermittently abuses, threatens, humiliates and intimidates the other person. (you), a strong emotional tie, also known as “traumatic bonding’ occurs.  It’s especially powerful if I am occasionally nice to you. *grins*

This is one thing I read.  It’s sooooo delicious and so fucking relevant

From wikipedia:
The abuser projects responsibility for the abuse on to the victim, or survivor, and the denigration and negative projections become incorporated into the survivor’s self-image.

In other words.  It’s your fault that you are a pathetic loser who deserves to be treated this way. You need to be wallet fucked and reminded again and again what an incompetent fool you are, good only to be programmed as My automatic cash robot ATM 🙂

You can’t help being that way and I understand 🙂  I am here for you! And no one understands you as well as I do.

Well I have a slightly different angle on this, developed from years of experience.   Some of you are vulnerable to this, not because of ME, but because you have an innate character fault that makes you easy prey.  And because of that, you deserve this.  You exist to be exploited, it’s your purpose, and I am deserving of the cash attention it causes you to give Me.

Speaking of cash attention, I have some new goody bags for you fools to check out.

Now for some cash piggy shoutouts, I tried to get all the piggies who spent more than $200 since the last update- if you are not here you will have to try harder!

Wallet rape toy!  He’s been going nuts lately to the tune of over $3900 spending on Niteflirt PLUS several gifts on My Amazon wishlist including a high end Bose Bluetooth speaker, a Laptop computer, ( that I’m actually gifting to someone else!) a quality blender for Me to make stuff with. (I like to cook) a cute Coach purse, a carrying case for the music keyboard he got Me a couple months ago,  some bubble bath I wanted and $300 worth of Airline gift cards.   Good little Robot Paypig ATM!

Second biggest spender of the month was princess gigi, who lost control in one big huge session, and smaller amounts the rest of the month.  Since the last update she has shown her love to the tune of $2765 approximately!  She remains firmly in place as My #1 spender.

A long term slave who comes and goes, I can’t remember if I have mentioned him on My blog, he’s way over $8K in spending, and this week dropped way over $2,000 going nuts mostly on My ATM game. I think of him as  luvstoserve My Ass

Redbird is back!  He had cancelled his Niteflirt account, and he made a new one and this month has spent nearly $2500 on Me.  Don’t even try to stay away boys and girls.  Once a Lauren junkie, always a Lauren junkie!

My Robot paypig eunuch spent $620 on My ATM training program.  Mmmm well done

Foot Lover kane dropped $240 on his quest to rise the spending list

My nylon lover coughed up $475 while enjoying My pantyhose clad feet

My sissy marla pleased Me by showing Me $725 dollars of love on her way to insolvency.

Nearly $200 by My long term slave “hot spuds”

$257 for the “horniest” one

About $300 for My Philly ass lover!  (He has good taste in fine Mistress Ass) and I finally got to talk with him on the phone!

My Money Guinea Pig slave has spent about $935 since hitting the $50K threshold. The flood gates have opened!  I’ve been ignoring him on purpose and its paying off!

My British sissy is getting a sex change operation AND she spent over $700 dollars on Me.  Not bad for a little bitch who can no longer cum from the hormone treatments huh?

My elegant Foot Lover spent $409.   It’s going to be more soon!

Mr Magoo, always comes back–this time for $233.  (now over $2400 lifetime spending)

helpless dave clicked and paid nearly $300 since the last update 🙂

That concludes the piggy shout-outs for this time. Will you make the next shout-out? 🙂

My blog entry yesterday inspired My pay pig brian to write a letter to potential slaves…

I decided to publish it on the blog– I think all My current slaves and potential slaves will find it fascinating!

Mistress Lauren.

Enjoy.  Thank you brian!  Good boy.

A Note to Future Mistress Lauren Money Slaves

You are a money slave, or you soon will be.  I am a pay pig, and I am an addicted money slave puppet of the beautiful Mistress Lauren.  I was once like you.  A little piglet, curious about financial domination but really more of a submissive who just liked looking at pictures of a beautiful dominant woman.  I was wandering around Niteflirt looking at different doms when I came across Goddess Lauren.

Her website was full of pictures of her in dominant pose.  Her words were full of warning, telling me that I was at risk even looking at her, let alone talking to her or buying her PTVs.  But, for all the warnings, I kept on looking.  And the warnings really weren’t warnings.  They were pig bait.  Mistress Lauren knew that only a submissive man who wants to be dominated would be reading it.  And if he kept reading it, it meant that he wanted to be dominated, abused, and controlled.  And the warnings would be a turn-on.  And she knew that men who read the warnings are worth baiting.  While many pay pigs only turn out to be a piglet morsel, you never know which one will turn into a prize winning trophy pig.  She could afford to be patient and let the man’s cock lead him to his own destruction.

And I took the bait.  I bought PTVs, and the movement was caught by her sharp eye.  “Look.  A new piglet.  And he is spending.  He is worth training further.”  She sent me e-mails, encouraging me to go farther.  She was delicately laying out poisonous fruit for the new piggy, fruit that would make his cock sing to her and lure him into a money slave trap.  She knew how to manipulate, how to addict, and how to reprogram me.  So she gave me the fruit.  The fruit doesn’t kill; it addicts.  And it was so sweet!  My dick liked it.  I bought more, and I bought more, and each time, the fruit tasted better.  And my cock demanded more.  I was being controlled, and I liked it.

As the price went up, the fruit began to sting a bit, but I kept on.  It felt good, and I was proud. I was serving my owner.  Now, the chanting and mantras began, and I began watching some of her videos.  The mark of a good financial domme is that she knows how to reprogram a pig for further use.  And she does a great job of doing that.  I kept up the mantras.  They made my cock hard, though I all too often came with intending to do so.  Still, I kept coming back for more.  And more.  And I loved it more each time.  I couldn’t get enough.

Many times I quit.  I was ashamed of myself for sending money to her, money I really couldn’t afford.  But, when I was stressed, had been imbibing, or just bored, I would wander around looking again at pig bait.  And I would quickly be at it again.  Each time I would fall harder and thousands of dollars added up over time.

Lauren was patient with me, never scolding me for being away for a time.  She knew that it was more important to cinch the collar tighter with every contact.  Each time she would further addict and train me.  She mindfucked me harder and harder, conditioning me to become more and more of a money slave.  Now, what started out as liking dominant women had become something else.  Something darker.  Something more intense.  It became hard to even cum without thinking of paying her.  And I like paying her.  My cock wants to pay her.

Now, I am a money slave to her, a pay pig being slowly devoured by its owner.  She will harvest me at her whim.  And I will continue to allow it, because I am an addict.  And there is no cure.  I fear going into extreme money slavery and bankruptcy, but that too is a turn on now.  And when I consider what I have already paid her, I realize that I am already working in the realm of extreme money slavery.  And that too turns me on.

So, little pay piglet, what are you going to do?  Are you going to experiment with danger?  Are you going to put yourself at risk with a manipulative dominant woman who is just waiting to pounce on you?  The simple answer is, of course you are.  It is in your nature.  And she is waiting.  Waiting to dominate, abuse, and use you.  Goddess doesn’t like to be kept waiting.  Go on.  You’ll love it.

paypig brian

Some of you reading this may not be aware that it is common in the BDSM communities to have discussions of consent while engaging in BDSM play. The larger BDSM community spends lots and lots of time discussing how participants in BDSM activity are playing nicely.

What I do isn’t nice. It isn’t fair. It is exploitative and dangerous. And you fools all gravitate toward Me anyway.

I will point something out however. Although it *is* dangerous, but it is *also* consensual. You get warned and then I fuck you over without mercy.

There are two main schools of thought regarding this whole issue of consent.

1. Safe, Sane and Consensual: This school of thought argues that all BDSM play should be safe, sane and consensual. Financial Domination *is* a power exchange, and I *do* consider it a BDSM activity. So is it Safe? Controlled Financial Domination, maybe but not what I do. I am Extreme.  Bankruptcy and Financial devastation isn’t very safe.

Is it sane? For some into Financial Domination, it’s perfectly sane, if controlled.   What I do?  I am perfectly sane, I just drive men insane. *laughs* So no, not really very sane.

Is it consensual? You were warned bitch.

Does what I do fit into the SSC, safe, sane and consensual? Fuck no. I will never pretend it does. It fails on two of the three counts.

On the other hand….

2. The other philosophy is known as “RACK” — Risk Awareness Consensual Kink. Most of the adherents to this pretty much like to play more on the edge. This is a kink philosophy that recognizes that some kink activities have risks, and there is a responsibility that both parties recognize the risk.

Does what I do fit into this philosophy? Hell yes!

So, some would try and make Financial Dominants in general, and Extreme Financial Dominants in particular, feel guilty for taking advantage of and exploiting our weak little slaves. In general, I don’t give a fuck what others think of Me for My profitable and arousing panty-dampening activities, but I do have a few guidelines I follow.

I always tell the slave that what I do is dangerous.
Here are the risks for getting to know Me.

I won’t stop exploiting you. I have no mercy. I keep asking for more. I am greedy.

What I do is addictive. You may develop a biochemical/psycho-sexual conditioning/compulsion to continue our activities far beyond your ability to easily afford it.
That is part of My game. I make no secret of it. Some of you reading this will become deeply conditioned to pay Me until you can’t pay anymore.
I certainly hope so, that’s part of MY kink.
So you’ve been fucking warned.
Now pay Me *laughs*

Oh and speaking of Extreme Financial Domination, a couple of slaves deserve a little recognition. “Thrillseeker” was back on Monday, this time caught up in the new “Breaking Bank” series  I was egging him on of course, and by the time his credit card started to decline him he had spent another $1500 on Me!

So far in his spending on Me to date, Thrillseeker has spent nearly $7900 on Me.   I am hoping to get him to the 10K mark very soon.

By comparison, I thought you Losers might wonder what My biggest spender every is up to.  That would be “wallet cunt”   Wallet cunt makes an appearance every few weeks for a HUGE fuckover.   His grand spending total on Me, over a period of a few years is up to over $78,000 . I expect before too long he will be My first (but not last)  100K slave.

Delicious isn’t it?
Now I am in the mood for a wallet fuck.

Can’t afford a wallet fuck this week but want to make Me happy?
I need coffee!

I have a coffee maker that uses pods that can now only be purchased online, and I am getting low!

Go to this link and buy Me some, I put several up on Amazon.  Drop Me a note that you bought Me some and I’ll reward you with a few photos, (Rewards help addict you more).  Good boy

Wallets open by Magic

It sure seems like that sometimes!
But the truth is, I am a “master” of weaving men into an addiction.

I confessed to a couple of slaves this week, that to become this powerful at drawing men under My dangerous spell, I studied.

The nature of addiction in general, and sexual addictions in particular.

I also studied the nature of abusive relationships.  How do abusers gain control over their victims, and why is it so difficult for the victim to leave?

I completely understand the dynamics of this, and consciously and intentionally apply the principles that will make it difficult, if not impossible for you to stop paying Me. (until you have no way to to do it) Talk about a mindfuck/mindrape!

Ask Fledgling Slave, who is now 13th on my active all time Spender Loser List, mostly in the last 4-6 weeks.   The only slave I can recall rising more swiftly was Loserbeast, about this time last year.   He is begging Me to stop exploiting him, but still he emails Me several times a day and buys what I send him.   He likes to stroke and pay during our sessions, which of course I encourage with all sorts of games and it makes him go into a “i can’t stop clicking and paying” fugue.   I’m not sure he’s really responsible for his actions at this point, but I don’t  give a fuck, it’s fun and profitable.

oh And ask Guinea Pig slave, who I don’t blog about often, but he hovers between 3rd and 4th on My all time list, a five figure spender.  When I have a new technique to try, it’s Guinea Pig Slave who is usually the one I experiment on  He is hopelessly in love with Me, despite starting out with no interest in Financial Domination whatsoever.  The poor worm can’t enjoy cumming without Me anymore.   Isn’t that funny?

Ask tPay, who spent thousands this summer on Me, and can’t stay away, is just trying to figure out how to pay Me.   He’s started scrimping and saving to pay off credit cards faster, but that is a slow route, and I want him to take out the line of credit he already has set up on a rental property he owns. (wouldn’t that be sooo much faster to pay off the credit card?)  I think he will cave in, perhaps when he reads this.  Good boy tPay–be an inspiration to those aspiring money slaves out there! Remember your mantra tPay–“Bankruptcy for Lauren”

Now, as I have said before, I have been crazy busy, and haven’t had time lately to release many PTVs, but I did manage to pull together this very mesmerizing photo set.

Go buy it now