Category — psychology of financial domination

Some of you reading this may not be aware that it is common in the BDSM communities to have discussions of consent while engaging in BDSM play. The larger BDSM community spends lots and lots of time discussing how participants in BDSM activity are playing nicely.

What I do isn’t nice. It isn’t fair. It is exploitative and dangerous. And you fools all gravitate toward Me anyway.

I will point something out however. Although it *is* dangerous, but it is *also* consensual. You get warned and then I fuck you over without mercy.

There are two main schools of thought regarding this whole issue of consent.

1. Safe, Sane and Consensual: This school of thought argues that all BDSM play should be safe, sane and consensual. Financial Domination *is* a power exchange, and I *do* consider it a BDSM activity. So is it Safe? Controlled Financial Domination, maybe but not what I do. I am Extreme.  Bankruptcy and Financial devastation isn’t very safe.

Is it sane? For some into Financial Domination, it’s perfectly sane, if controlled.   What I do?  I am perfectly sane, I just drive men insane. *laughs* So no, not really very sane.

Is it consensual? You were warned bitch.

Does what I do fit into the SSC, safe, sane and consensual? Fuck no. I will never pretend it does. It fails on two of the three counts.

On the other hand….

2. The other philosophy is known as “RACK” — Risk Awareness Consensual Kink. Most of the adherents to this pretty much like to play more on the edge. This is a kink philosophy that recognizes that some kink activities have risks, and there is a responsibility that both parties recognize the risk.

Does what I do fit into this philosophy? Hell yes!

So, some would try and make Financial Dominants in general, and Extreme Financial Dominants in particular, feel guilty for taking advantage of and exploiting our weak little slaves. In general, I don’t give a fuck what others think of Me for My profitable and arousing panty-dampening activities, but I do have a few guidelines I follow.

I always tell the slave that what I do is dangerous.
Here are the risks for getting to know Me.

I won’t stop exploiting you. I have no mercy. I keep asking for more. I am greedy.

What I do is addictive. You may develop a biochemical/psycho-sexual conditioning/compulsion to continue our activities far beyond your ability to easily afford it.
That is part of My game. I make no secret of it. Some of you reading this will become deeply conditioned to pay Me until you can’t pay anymore.
I certainly hope so, that’s part of MY kink.
So you’ve been fucking warned.
Now pay Me *laughs*

Oh and speaking of Extreme Financial Domination, a couple of slaves deserve a little recognition. “Thrillseeker” was back on Monday, this time caught up in the new “Breaking Bank” series  I was egging him on of course, and by the time his credit card started to decline him he had spent another $1500 on Me!

So far in his spending on Me to date, Thrillseeker has spent nearly $7900 on Me.   I am hoping to get him to the 10K mark very soon.

By comparison, I thought you Losers might wonder what My biggest spender every is up to.  That would be “wallet cunt”   Wallet cunt makes an appearance every few weeks for a HUGE fuckover.   His grand spending total on Me, over a period of a few years is up to over $78,000 . I expect before too long he will be My first (but not last)  100K slave.

Delicious isn’t it?
Now I am in the mood for a wallet fuck.

Can’t afford a wallet fuck this week but want to make Me happy?
I need coffee!

I have a coffee maker that uses pods that can now only be purchased online, and I am getting low!

Go to this link and buy Me some, I put several up on Amazon.  Drop Me a note that you bought Me some and I’ll reward you with a few photos, (Rewards help addict you more).  Good boy

Wallets open by Magic

It sure seems like that sometimes!
But the truth is, I am a “master” of weaving men into an addiction.

I confessed to a couple of slaves this week, that to become this powerful at drawing men under My dangerous spell, I studied.

The nature of addiction in general, and sexual addictions in particular.

I also studied the nature of abusive relationships.  How do abusers gain control over their victims, and why is it so difficult for the victim to leave?

I completely understand the dynamics of this, and consciously and intentionally apply the principles that will make it difficult, if not impossible for you to stop paying Me. (until you have no way to to do it) Talk about a mindfuck/mindrape!

Ask Fledgling Slave, who is now 13th on my active all time Spender Loser List, mostly in the last 4-6 weeks.   The only slave I can recall rising more swiftly was Loserbeast, about this time last year.   He is begging Me to stop exploiting him, but still he emails Me several times a day and buys what I send him.   He likes to stroke and pay during our sessions, which of course I encourage with all sorts of games and it makes him go into a “i can’t stop clicking and paying” fugue.   I’m not sure he’s really responsible for his actions at this point, but I don’t  give a fuck, it’s fun and profitable.

oh And ask Guinea Pig slave, who I don’t blog about often, but he hovers between 3rd and 4th on My all time list, a five figure spender.  When I have a new technique to try, it’s Guinea Pig Slave who is usually the one I experiment on  He is hopelessly in love with Me, despite starting out with no interest in Financial Domination whatsoever.  The poor worm can’t enjoy cumming without Me anymore.   Isn’t that funny?

Ask tPay, who spent thousands this summer on Me, and can’t stay away, is just trying to figure out how to pay Me.   He’s started scrimping and saving to pay off credit cards faster, but that is a slow route, and I want him to take out the line of credit he already has set up on a rental property he owns. (wouldn’t that be sooo much faster to pay off the credit card?)  I think he will cave in, perhaps when he reads this.  Good boy tPay–be an inspiration to those aspiring money slaves out there! Remember your mantra tPay–“Bankruptcy for Lauren”

Now, as I have said before, I have been crazy busy, and haven’t had time lately to release many PTVs, but I did manage to pull together this very hypnotic photo set.

Go buy it now