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How I use Modern Psychological Techniques to Train and Exploit Paypigs

CBT (Cognitive Behavior Training in this case, not Cock and Ball Torture) is a psychological process that helps you make desired changes. This modern psychological technique helps Me to train and exploit you and other paypigs

Traditionally, it’s the client’s desired change, but I’ve twisted it to help you make MY desired changes.

I take many of the common elements of CBT and use them to turn you into a more profitable pig for Me!

For example, these are some common techniques and how I apply them

  • Cognitive restructuring or reframing. .. I make you think of yourself as a paypig, I call you a paypig, have you stroke your cock while you declare your paypig nature. Mantras are a huge part of this.

  • Guided discovery. … I’ve stareted adding some of this to sessions, and boy is it powerful! It’s really got to do with taking a fantasy but hooking into your senses, you might imagine kneeling at My feet while I demand cash, and you feel your cock just getting harder and harder. And hear Me say “Good boy” This would be an example
  • Exposure therapy. … Gradually I expose you to paying more and more…raising the rate, increasing the amount of the pay to view, demanding gradually larger tributes
  • . All of My series are great for this. Try this one from the archives

  • Journaling and thought records. …when you email Me back your thoughts or when you send Me what you’re thinking in chat, this taps into this technique
  • .I think I may have to exploit this technique with certain individuals more often

  • Activity scheduling and behavior activation. …
  • I like to hook actions to other actions. For example, stroke your cock when you stroke when you pay Me. Or I suggest you will get hard when you see an email from Me. I don’t generally schedule by the cock, but rather by action. ACTIVATING the paypig within

    Behavioral experiments. .. .I am CONTINUOUSLY

  • experimenting on you guys to see what the most effective techniques are for separating you from your cash. Science is real and you have no chance
  • Relaxation and stress reduction techniques. …When you pay, it makes you soooo happy and relaxed, you feel bliss. Many of you will recognize this technique
  • Role playing is a common technique. I let you think it’s roleplaying. You’re the slave, I’m the Queen, you kneel at My feet. Maybe it’s not roleplaying, it’s REAL
  • So now that you are hard, I want to make a suggestion. The thought of seeing your name in My fuckover report is OVERWHELMINGLY sexy. You want it there, with red letters, so that everyone can see how much you admire Goddess Lauren

    Now that I’ve planted that suggestion, Let’s actually do the fuckover report! It’s an amazing one! It’s over a month, so it’s long. Between Thanksgiving and some personal stuff, I’m later than usual, but oh so worth it.

    The Fuckover Report

    Legendary Paypig Alert!

    My good girl and #1 spender buffy went completely off the rails, sending Me larger tributes than ever before. She is on the road to bankruptcy and it is going to be EPIC She spent. $4201 maxing out a couple of credit cards on Me! SOooooooo erotic. Limp clitty, still a virgin and it looks like that will never change. Wonderful!

    Legendary Paypig Alert!

    And also getting a legendary alert is rare whalebird! This guy appears, and then disappears, kind of a paypig whore who passes himself around many Dommes. I haven’t seen him in years, but the other night was MY turn I guess, he spent $3087. This rare bird can drop by anytime as long as he brings his wallet! I always enjoy trancing him into submission.

    Extreme Paypig Alert! This might be helpless dennis’s first extreme paypig alert! He went insane on click and pay, we did several calls, and he tributed like a good boy everytime he stroked his cock when I wasn’t around! How much did it cost him? $1880!

    Extreme Paypig Alert! Getting his first bit of red type was jerk jockey! This loser is sooo easy to manipulate as he is gooning, and I extorted him for hundreds of $$$ of tributes for cum permission. Over a couple of sessions I extracted $1715 from him!

    Extreme Paypig Alert! Dr x never fails to please, and did it again, with $802 on Niteflirt and $780 on Amazon, as My special Santa Slave! He totalled $1582 with his extreme mention! I love sessioning this guy, one of My favorites.

    Extreme Paypig Alert! Another newer slave surprised Me with an extreme mention. Very good boy “spawn” has been losing control with click and pay! He spent $1393 falling more deeply under My power!

    Extreme Paypig Alert! Coming to life, after years to suddenly become completely addicted to Me was footdazed. We had a lot of fun with some custom recordings and he tributed his wallet empty. How much did he spent? $1070. Stupendous!

    My raise the rate puppet stopped by for degradation and increasingly expensive phone calls. He spent $112

    Huge Paypig Alert! Boomer’s addiction is going strong, he can’t stay away, keeps clicking and paying! He spent $738 this time around!

    My good boy nylon slave spent $187 listening to My silky addictive voice and buying pantyhose feet photos

    Huge Paypig Alert! It was sooo nice to have marla back in My clutches again. My good girl ended up spending just a few cents over $700 as I used her VERY HARD. Lifetime, marla has spent more than $110K on Me! (she’s one of the founding tribe members)

    Just missing a paypig alert is worthless gimp loser, who spent $290 on Me that there is no way in hell he can afford. So sad, too bad. I won’t think about it again.

    New to the blog, is sticky, whose been around awhile and finally spent enough for a mention! He spent $106

    Completely mindfucked pigbait spent $123. I think he should spend more.

    Huge Paypig Alert! Just missing an extreme alert was bambi, My good girl who visited Me in My Hypno cabin. I introducted her to the mystical fun of the “kink sack” and we had a great time! She spent $978

    My good shopper paulito came around and spent $101 to get a mention!

    Huge Paypig Alert! My good boy, PIG can never ever stay away, he spent $510 this time around to get a “HUGE” mention

    Good loser jeffnomore came around to spend $177

    New to blog! Spending $137 to get a blog mention is “mensch”. This guy found out how dangerous I can be!

    I was very happy to have surprised get a mentio again, this time for $131. He’s so sweet to session and so weak over My heels and feet

    Paypig Alert! Getting another mention is My addict and very good boy j the junkie. J spent over $400 this time around to really make Me smile. He is no match for My power!

    Squeaking in for a mention was helpless dave, this time for $103

    New Slave! Huge Paypig Alert! Getting red type right away was a new slave, a good boy I’m calling citrusy. He’s curious and found danger!

    My good girl caged yankee spent $250. I’m always happy to take her cash

    New to blog! After a long time not spending much, suddenly a guy I’m calling “rando” came to life, spending $141. That’s what I’m talking about!

    Back for more spending was My NF client who spent $122 this time around. He’s got soo many accounts, who knows how much his lifetime is now.

    Paypig Alert AND New to the Blog. Getting My attention was moniker, who clicked and paid his way to spending $487 and earned his blog name. (It’s so full of irony I cannot tell you, but he will understand) This is what I love from slaves. $$$$ that is.

    My quiet gentleman spent $243. Boy he loves those selfies.

    Paypig Alert! New to My blog is chad, who squeezed into a paypig alert spending exactly $300. Well done!

    My boyscout spent $185, just making Me happy!

    Paypig Alert and New to My blog! A client I will call “bloom” went absolutely crazy on click and pay, over many days, spending a total of $425 and making Me very very happy. Well done!

    Ducking in and spending and then cancelling his account was usbsimp, but not before he spent $135. I bet he’ll be back

    Paypig Alert! This guy humble john knows how to please. It always seens like he sends a nice tribute just when I need a smile. (yes tributes make Me smile) He paid $371 this time around, very nice!

    My good girl sissy j spent $145. She just had a big cross country move and I can’t wait to get into a nice rythym of us having fun again!

    Paypig Alert! My good boy button was at the click and pay again, this time for $355. I love seeing that he’s been busy!

    My very good boy, Lauren’s footlicker spent $174 on Niteflirt and $72 on Amazon to total $246 and really making Me happy. This guy knows how to treat a superior Woman!

    Paypig Alert and New to My blog! Another new client who did a lot of click and pay was “lex” I hope he gets hard knowing how dangerous I am!

    Good boy knickers spent another $156 on dangerous games with Me!

    Now, which ones of you will be on the next blog post?
    Who will get a red letter mention (at least $300)
    Better get busy!

    December 16, 2021   No Comments

    The Fate of Paypigs

    I get asked this a lot…seems paypigs want to know their fate!
    “What’s going to happen to me, Mistress?”

    A. This is what WILL happen (assuming you interact, buy some stuff, read the blog)

    1. I will expose you to My brilliant mind and body
    2. I will use both covert and overt manipulation tactics on you
    3. you will be given instructions, such as “stroke your cock when you pay”

    B This is what will PROBABLY happen

    1. you will spend more $$$ then you intended
    2. you will find paying Me to be very arousing and compelling
    3. you will be unable to help yourself and will return to My words and photos again and again

    C. This is what MIGHT happen  (about 30% of those in the first group end up here)

    1. you overspend by A LOT, causing you some financial hardship. Some of you (about 1/3 of this group) will liquidate stocks or retirement accounts. Some of you do credit consolidation loans, and then hit your credit limit again on your cards.
    2. you become truly addicted to Me. Many of you won’t be able to even get an erection or have an orgasm without paying Me. Some of you will LOVE this. Other’s will not love it so much. I take enjoyment out of either situation
    3. You will become a devoted junkie. Sometimes that devotion is simply to feel a normal erection, but some pigs know that they are greatly privileged to serve Me.
    4. Some of you will try to leave. 95% of you won’t succeed, and will return within a year. Usually within a month. VERY often within a week.

    D. What occasionally happens: (My plan for the fate of paypigs, ultimately!)

    1. you spend every penny you can lay your hand on for Me,
    2. you may go bankrupt
    3. you might lose your home, your spouse/girlfriend because of spending on Me
    4. you might have twice as many bills as income
    5. you really are insolvent, but your addiction remains. You will do anything to keep paying Me. Suck cock, steal from your family, go without eating,

     

    When do pigs usually “get out”?

    Some pigs never start…….but of those that do…..

    Sometimes after spending EVERYTHING, going bankrupt, and being unable to pay Me for any attention whatsoever…they can leave.  But more often they stroke to My blog (like some are this entry), they cum on their bills. The word “bankruptcy” makes them hard….

    Sometimes they piece their financial life back together….

    and begin spending on Me again!

    Want to tell Me where you fall? Look at the categories above and decide where you fit in best!

    Which category are you in?

    How much of a paypig are you?--read the entry

    A

    B

    C

    D

    None of the above

    and remember, I want ALWAYS to progress you to the next level.

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    Now, let’s check the spending report…..after this photo 🙂

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    Pay pig alert! Let’s start out with My #1 piggie of all time, princess gigi.  This week saw her sending Me another $520, mostly in tributes!

    PIG couldn’t help himself AGAIN this week. (Addiction), and he spent $201

    Another addicted junkie is “more please”  His spending this week was $175.  He has been making Me his Friday Night addiction

    My sissy j was back! This time for $135 here on Niteflirt, plus a little spoiling 🙂

    Pay pig alert!  My star junkie just couldn’t get away. I lured him in with “discounts” And he spent $490 on those discounts.  Hahaha sucker!  So cock hardening though…

    and candyballs was back for another $145 in spending. Stop trying to hide candyballs. He’s way surpased 1K of spending and he’s only been around for less than a month.

    Pay pig alert!  Another big spender this week, and back after a break was special k!  We did a HOT long phone call when he clicked and paid emails for Me…so erotic! He spendt $520 Mmmm

    My exposure sissy spent $140 while I had fun at his expense!

    My nylon slave spent $135 on My hosed feet, but I have a feeling more exploitation is coming SOON.

    titfool squeaked in a mention with $101 in spending on My perfect boobs.

    Also new to My blog is sissy daphne, who spent $200 on Amazon gift cards for Me. Mmmmmm Good way to start daphne!

    April 3, 2017   2 Comments

    Many of you know that I work with SeducedByJane on Niteflirt quite a bit. We run a joint account, TwoMeanGirls, and we’ve done games and activities together for our slaves/pets.

    Well, it seems as if a new money slave Jane has (and blogged about here) found himself over in Lauren Land this evening. Jane had shown me the transcript of their yahoo conversation, and I recognized the sniveling tone right away in his email to Me, and he also referenced Mistress Jane in his first email to Me.

    Dear Miss Lauren,

    I’ve been reading more about you on your Niteflirt page, and on your blog and on your pages with Mistress Jane on TwoMeanGirls.

    You are beautiful, and I am getting this image of you and Mistress Jane standing over Me taking all my $$$.

    I took this opportunity to send Jane a quick text message asking her if I minded her exploiting her prey.

    Her answer. “Go for it!”

    So I raised the rate on my FinDomme listing to $8 a minute, and told Prey to call.

    And while he was on the line with Me, I conditioned him to obey, sending him pay email after pay email. $25, $50, $100, culminating in a nice $150 email.

    And of course, a $160 charge for the 20 minute phone call….that I ended by saying…

    Oh, Prey…be sure you send Mistress Jane a gift tribute for $100 as well.

    He better have, I’ll be checking.

    July 22, 2010   No Comments

    Why Financial Sadism is My favorite Sadism

    There can be no doubt, that I am a sadist.  Even just writing that one sentence begins the arousal. The thought of causing someone pain for My pleasure simply makes me wet. And it can make Me cum too.

    I enjoy all sorts of sadism.  Its very satisfying to cause physical pain, the swat swat swat sound of leather against flesh, harmonizes with the plaintive cries of My victim. Screaming as a result of what I do is tasty as well.

    Yes, very arousing and enjoyable.

    But the next day?  I’m not feeling the sub/slave’s pain at all, although he/she might tell or write Me that they are still tender and can’t sit, and that I admit, is erotic.

    But financial sadism has a much yummier aftereffect for Me to enjoy.

    After an evening of wallet rape, the slave ends up much poorer, and My bank account is enriched.

    But the fun doesn’t end.  I am able to continue enjoying My plunder of the slave’s money.   I can buy stuff. I can use the money to support My standard of living.  I can waste the money on frivolous things.

    And the next day, after you submit to Me, and sacrifice $$ to Me, you can feel it the next day.   The latte you have to pass up. The car you can’t buy.  The trip you can’t take.   The wife you can’t buy flowers for.   The family member you can’t send a gift to, the bill you can’t pay.

    And the more extreme it affects you, the tastier!   Do you have to sell your wife’s wedding ring to pay the mortgage?  yay!  Do you have to cash in your life insurance policy to get your car fixed?  yay!  Do you have to take a second job so you can buy some groceries and pay down your credit card enough to call Me again?   Yes! Yes!

    Financial sadism.  The sadism that just keeps on taking

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    October 19, 2009   1 Comment

    Fun with words!

    Mean fun with words

    August 14, 2008   No Comments

    Musings of a Financial Dominant

    This blog is for anyone curious about the inner workings of a Financial Dominant.

    I do not speak for all, but I do speak for myself.

    I came across this fetish backwards. I have been a lifestyle Dominant in my local BDSM scene for years, its part of my relationship style. I came to know myself as having a deep sadistic side. It didn’t satisfiy me to just to hurt someone physically, I enjoyed orchastrating the mind fuck on my slaves and submissives. I enjoyed making them face dark things about human kind and themselves. I loved making them weep and kissing their tears away. I did not and still do not practice money exchange for live play.

    Some years later, I came to explore my BDSM fetish as a telephone fem-dom on the predecesor to Niteflirt.com, a site called Keen (It still exists, but no longer offers adult services). I did this on a very part time basis, for extra money as I drudged off to work like most wage slaves every day.

    By the summer of 2007 I was ready for life changes. I quit my job as a wage slave and relocated to a community I had made connections in and loved. My original plan was to take Niteflirt calls to earn money until I found a job.

    Something amazing happened. Since suddenly I was available regularly, it only took a matter of weeks before I had built up a clientele so strong that it no longer made sense to return to a “regular” job. It didn’t take long for me to begin to deeply appreciate not only the income I was earning but the absolute flexiblity of controlling my hours and when I worked and had both the time and money to vacation as I wished.

    Like most Niteflirt girls, I create a listing in financial domination, really having little clue as to what it was about, but figuring “it can’t hurt’ No one ever calls it.

    Skip ahead a few weeks, and I get a lovely call on my regular Mistress listing from a lovely man that I immediately connect with. He begins calling me several times a day, and it comes to light that he has a fetish for financial domination. I pay close attention, and its not long before the sadist within awakens and responds to the money masochist. I take him to the edge financially many times over the course of the following weeks. A piece of me has pangs of regret, I have come to enjoy him and his calls. We get deeper and deeper, as he liquidates asset after asset to satisfy our mutual need.

    Eventually, I break him, alas, the fetish turned out to be stronger than my affection for him. I cannot stop and he cannot stop Me. Him maxing out his credit cards with no means of paying them off easily stops the train.

    Around this time, I start attracting more money slaves , and I realize that each contact leads me deeply aroused. Most of my fantasies now revolve around using men for money, to the point of causing them financial distress.

    Am I a piranha? Well, piranhas are predators that swarm in a group. I work alone, so I would have to say. No.

    Am I a vulture? Vultures pick apart dead carrion to the bones. I prefer lively prey with meat on the bones. So once again, I have to say, No.

    I am a woman with a fetish for a power exchange. A woman who now lives a good life living that fetish.

    August 5, 2008   1 Comment