Yes, you read that right, I am going on Vacation! For ten whole days, the longest I have taken for Myself in years. (And there is NO doubt I deserve it!)

Today, Thursday the 4th, is the last day I am available, on Friday the 5th I am traveling to the Northern Reaches of my state, near Canada, to celebrate a huge family event. I’m staying up there for the solar eclipse because it’s very close to an area of totality (I’ve never seen a solar eclipse in totality), so we will make sure we are in total darkness for that event! Then after that, it’s getting ready for a big wedding in My boyfriend’s family the following weekend. The days will be full, and it’s not a traditional vacation (that’s coming soon enough), but sometimes life just makes it easier to not work (although it often doesn’t feel like WORK to exploit you guys, but it does require time and effort)

So I won’t be there, so paypigs get a break, right?

WRONG

hahahaha, you think.
Well, a little bit perhaps, without Me there to demand tributes, but there will be things for you to do, and buy!

The key to it all will be My Niteflirt+ feed. Every day there will be at least two posts, one free and one for just subscribers. It’s all been scheduled automatically to post, so it doesn’t rely on Me being online to deliver them. If you are not subscribed yet, this is an amazing time to do so, you won’t be sorry, it’s chock full of value! (And will indoctrinate you so I can more easily fuck you over!)

There will also be sales announced and links to pay to view sales.

And of course, you pigs know I have a pay-to-view store? Right? Right?

So if you are missing Me, here are some things you can do.

1. Subscribe to My feed and lose yourself over My content there
2. My stuff from My listings, My goody bags and My store!
3. Goon to My photos, and send tributes, just imagine Me on vacation and you’re one of My loyal slaves needing to please Me.
4. Read this blog, there is a GOB of posts and photos here to indoctrinate you for you to enjoy.

Here are a couple of photos just because 🙂

Now it’s time for your favorite,

The Fuckover Report

Extreme Paypig Alert! Oh My very good sissy, damaged goods buffy, was very productive this month, sending tribute after tribute, and not succeeding in staying away. That’s just the way I like it! She spent $1751, making her this report’s #1 piggy!

Extreme Paypig Alert! My good little cum-now sissy boomer has continued his spending ways this time parting with $1235 in a number of fuckovers!

Extreme Paypig Alert! Just barely squeaking in for an extreme alert was helpless dennis. He tried to quit Me, but that didnt last, as you can see! *laughs*

Extreme Paypig Alert! Also pleasing Me a whole lot was special K, who I had sooo much fun fucking over one evening! He spent $1446. NICE!

Extreme Paypig Alert! I had a couple of fun chat/tribute sessions with steve q fucked. I flashed his mind into oblivion and he spent $1309!

Extreme Paypig Alert! a simp I call “w” went nuts clicking and paying My PTVS this month, and ended up spending 4 digits! It totalled $1383

My good boy nylon slave, spent $245 on worshipping his Queen!

Huge Paypig Alert! My very good boy, j the junkie, is so devoted to coming around again and again, that he actually took out a loan to consolidate credit cards, so he could continue serving Me! HOT!

My good boy, just another atm, spent $413. He is truly living up to his name!

Paypig Alert! My good boy PIG spent $425 this month on chat/tribute and calls and began to sink deeper under My power again!

My flipoff idiot did some “raise the rate” calls, spending $184. Idiot came too fast, I wanted a harder fuckover!

New Slave! A new slave, who I will call fresca, spent $197 finding out how dangerous I am! I think I scared him because he deleted his account! Will he return? Time will tell.

My good pawn clicked and paid $146 away. I am expecting him to part with more cash buying ptvs when I am on vacation!

Huge Paypig Alert! Pathetic pigbait keeps coming around even though he is now chronically limp. He spent $589

My sissy piglette, spent $190 making her Mistress happy!

Huge Paypig Alert! My good boy, helpless dave has gone nuts recently sending tributes, and he found out how sexy it is sending $100 tributes. Three digits makes the cock jump! Try it!

New Slave! Another new slave to My blog is “tj” who spent $122 finding out about the wonders of Lauren!

Back for more surrender was snowball, this time he spent $164 to earn a blog mention!

Huge Paypig Alert! My boyscout is back! He accidently blocked Me, misread the message and thought it said I blocked him. FINALLY he figured out he was his mistake, unblocked Me and spent lots of money! He spent $501

Back again for more use was golly, this time he spent $234. Very nice!

Huge Paypig Alert! My loser slave, candyballs is back! THis time around he spent $691. Nice!

My brainwashed good boy, addicted2legs spent $114 this time around.

New Slave! A guy I’m going to call “simp pig” learned how dangerous I am and spent $123 to get his first blog mention

My armpit loser got a mention by spending $110. I appreciate the consistency!

Paypig Alert! My good girl tigress spent $339. I enjoy our interactions so much, what a fun sissy!

Lauren’s footlicker got a mention by spending $128. Very nice!

My good marla also earned a mention by spending $109

Now, I want to see all of you piggies on My next Fuckover Report!

Recent Pay to views to check out!

There will be a spending report later, but I had to interrupt My normal process because My prized slave, Dr x, has accomplished a quite impressive feat.

Ultimate Paypig Alert!

My previous highest Alert was given to paypigs that spent more than $2K since the last blog post. I have had pigs far surpass this many many times, but this time several records were SHATTERED.

How much did dr x spend? Hold on to your cock, he spent $20,849 on Niteflirt and another $1,055 on Amazon (including a new cell phone!) for a grand total of $21,904.
This was more than one session, but several, however, there was one MONSTER session of $15,709 that included $905 from Amazon, for a One Session Record of $16,614.

So the New Spending Levels are as follows:

• Paypig Alert— more than $300 of spending
• Huge Paypig Alert— More than $500 of spending
• Extreme Paypig Alert– More than $1000 of spending
• Legendary Paypig Alert– More than $2000 of spending

and now

Ultimate Paypig Alert– More than $20K of spending!

I may add another level for the $10K too, I have had it hit a handful of times, by Dr x and noddy, and perhaps tPay. (Am I missing anyone? Speak up!)

Listen guys, I am happy to create bigger and bigger levels of paypig spending, feel free to compete to be the first one to hit the $30K level between blog entries!

As you can imagine I am one happy FinDomme this week!

Here is a screenshot of some of the spending. There were FIVE $999 pay-to-views, the largest possible on Niteflirt! And there were a lot more not included because I wanted to get the best ones on one screen.

Does it make you hard?

I hope all of you pigs step forward to challenge this record!

Help Me Hit My All-time High Goal of $30K in one week!

It occurred to Me that since Dr x started off My week sooo well (in the wee hours of Sunday Morning) that this would be a great week to strive for hitting a new total for Me overall!
As of this blog publishing on Monday, I am already at $19,358 of paypig spending, so another 10K plus should be possible right? I want to inspire you all to spend! I’ll be releasing another video later this week and some other stuff for purchase. The week goes from Saturday at 8 pm EST to the following Saturday.

You can also visit Pay to View Store or My Goody Bag Page, send a tribute or call and ask for a Raise the Rate session. Together we can do it!

A Guest on My blog, the Fabulous Behavior Analyst!

Now, for a change of pace, I want to present an interview with a FinDomme friend of Mine, also on Niteflirt.

Behavior Analyst! (This link opens on Her Niteflirt profile)

I know My fans and clients will want to know what types of things you offer on Niteflirt, could you fill us in?

I offer Femdom/Findom phone & chat conversations, allowing men to confess their deepest fetish desires and put them to best use for Me. I create an atmosphere of mental conditioning to enhance their submission through hypnosis or ‘therapy’ sessions.

What kind of background do you have that helps define what you do as a Dominant?
I see you also love doing mind-control types of things. Do you have any special training?

I discovered my Domme side very early in life and was able to really narrow down my specific wants while exploring at kink events & parties. I was the one that everyone wanted to ‘spill their secrets’ to, and I used that to manipulate the play I wanted from them. I don’t have any professional training for mind control; it has always come naturally to me. I do believe I am in a perpetual learning mode to be the most effective version of myself.  The psychological side of the fetish lifestyle is how a Domme can best get what she wants from her submissive, and I can’t get enough of that!

Share a bit about your absolutely favorite experience with a client. what made it memorable?

There are a few that really stand out because the connection became so strong over time. My long-time submissive, effie, just reached 365 days in chastity. If I had to choose a favorite event, that’s definitely it. In a more broad explanation, when you can feel a man surrender himself, really conquer his self-control, and you know it’s genuine, there’s nothing like it. Some of the most memorable singular moments were nearly always Findom based. I adore Raise The Rate (RTR) calls and coaxing a man to the max rate allowed on Niteflirt. There have been large surprise tributes that I’ll always remember for sure too.

If a guy calls you, what can he expect?

I most often describe myself as an “unethical therapist”. I am going to allow him time to give me his backstory, offer my analysis of that, and turn him into what I want from there. {such as mindless, confused, empty, controlled & obedient}

Is there a pay-to-view or goody bag you would like to mention that would give a potential client a taste of what you are about?

Strap-on friend with benefits https://www.niteflirt.com/goodies/click/24312007-4455281 

Warning! Mindfuck Content https://www.niteflirt.com/goodies/click/24312007-4000201

What have you been working on lately? what’s in the future for your clients?

I have been working on some Podcast style Mp3 conversations & fictional fantasy storylines to give a little more variety to my Goodybag pages. I also have some new Findom content coming to my NF+ page (very excited about that). My followers can always expect something that will take control of their next move.

Thank you Behavior Analyst for giving us a glimpse into your world. I think you and I have very similar styles and clients should be very excited and afraid to contact you!

Check Behavior Analyst out on Niteflirt!

Now it’s time for the Fuckover report!

Ultimate Paypig Alert! That is the first time I have ever used that terminology in a blog report, and I hope it won’t be the last time. As detailed above, this refers to My good boy, Dr x, as he Liquidates more and more to keep paying Me! I’m still smiling from it. My investment account is getting a boost!

Legendary Paypig Alert! On most fuckover reports, this would get top billing, so it is still very notable! My slave helpless dennis has managed to surrender $3614 since the last blog entry. I knew it was a big amount, but I was surprised it was THIS big. This pig is clearly addicted and I LOVE it!

Huge Paypig Alert! My good boy boomer TRIED and failed to stay away. *laughs* It’s always a useless endeavor. He spent $560 this time around.

My special good boy tom earned a mention with a nice raise the rate therapy session which netted Me $161. Keep coming to therapy tom!

Paypig Alert! My good boy victor is becoming more deeply in love with Me every day, and it is showing in our bank accounts! He spent $435 since the last blog entry.

My good boy and long time slave PIG spent $250 this time around, in a rare “non-red letter” mention.

Huge Paypig Alert! My excellent good boy, j the junkie couldn’t help himself and kept returning again and again, racking up a spending of $632 since the last post. YUM.

My good boy helpless dave managed an alert with $193 of spending. I was happy to lure him in again!

Paypig Alert! My good sissy, Oink Loser sissy FINALLY hit the 20K lifetime spending goal and now I have commanded her new goal be $25K. It’s gonna be so much fun to get there! This sissy spent $463 since the last post.

My good slave loserbeast stopped by to spend $280 on Me. I always love seeing his name on My blog.

Paypig Alert! My very good boy irish dope always tries his best to save up money to please Me, and he did it again! This time he spent $390 to get his paypig alert! Yay! Well done good boy.

My good boy oldie spent $126 on Me, he’s slowly racking up a decent lifetime amount.

Huge Paypig Alert! My good sissy caged yankee is addicted and can’t cum without paying! This sissy spent $770 this time around!!! Fabulous!

My long time slave wallet rape toy did a bit of click and pay recently, spending $228. I love taking this loser’s money

New Slave! New to Me but not financial domination is “Findomme junkie” a name I chose due to his proclivities. He spent $174 getting acquainted with Me.

Good boy, “just another ATM” has been doing some high stakes click and pay lately and managed to spend $182. I think he should spend even more, don’t you?

New Slave! New to Me is tiger, who spent $129 finding out more about My danger!

My good boy Lauren’s footlicker spent $131 on Niteflirt and $25 on Amazon for a total of $156. He is sweet and loyal 🙂

My spawn has been doing a little click and pay lately, and spent $112. I’m looking forward to seeing him spend more to get Me to My goals!

My good girl buffy spent $205, soon she will cave and I will be writing a big mention for her in the next blog. I have confidence!

New Slave! Also new to Me is tiny, a very anxious to please slave that spent $210 in just a couple of days. I hope to see more from him!

That concludes the spending report (and what a memorable one!)
I hope I will be sharing with you all soon about whether I reached My goal

Do your part!

I study every technique that dangerous people use to keep others under their power. I specialize in turning men and sissies into paypigs and addicting them to both Me and the desire to pay Me.

Mine is a double whammy because I know how to keep your cock hard, and then I train you to have a hard cock, to be aroused while you are being abused by Me.

Here is a definition of Trauma Bonding:

1. The relationship defies logic. Why would anyone want to end up turned on by and addicted to paying someone huge amounts of money?
2. It requires a power imbalance. I am the Mistress here, right? The one in charge, you approach Me in a submissive fashion and are ripe for enslaving.
3. Intermittent Good and Bad treatment. Calling you a good boy, spoiling you with erotic content, encouraging you to be hard and to orgasm being “nice” while abusing you with cash fucking, laughing at your tiny cock, making you say things that addict you more, exposing you to LR Ultra techniques to really capture you.
4. There is a biochemical element. You get an erection, have orgasms and I encourage you to fall deeply in love with Me. This releases all kinds of hormones like dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, adrenaline, and probably more. These hormones make you feel AMAZING. And you want to experience that feeling again and again, becoming deeply addicted. This creates a barrier to breaking the trauma bond I develop with you

I enjoyed reading about Trauma bonding, because I immediately recognized it as something I do that I knew would bond us together, and now I understand why.

And now I can apply it more consciously and with greater effect upon My victims. Like all My techniques, I suspect that you knowing what’s happening won’t help you break free from it. Right now, I am experimenting with which techniques are more likely to bond you to Me in such an unhealthy situation (for you, not Me)

Announcement:

I am taking some time to go play in July, I will be unavailable on July 19-21 The 19th is a Tuesday, and I’m not usually online, but I also won’t be on Wednesday or Thursday afternoon either. I will *probably* be online Thursday evening the 21st.

I am also taking a vacation from Thursday, July 28th through Tuesday, August 2nd. I will be online again on Wednesday, August 3rd.

Also, I may be taking additional afternoons off to work on content, like audios, videos, new series, and this blog. I have been sooo busy when I log on lately (Just wait until you get to the spending report!) that it’s next to impossible to work on these things in between clients. There hasn’t BEEN any “in between clients!” Talk about a FinDomme Problem! I want you guys to keep having the material that keeps you deeply addicted to Me!

Like this stuff!

These are some recent Pay to views you may have missed. Get them

Now it’s time for the

Fuckover Report

During the month of June, I was pleased that My pigs spent more than $30,000 on Me! This is the kind of spending I was born to receive! The ones that spent more than $100 are listed below.

I had many legendary and extreme alerts this time, 3 legendary and 6 extreme alerts! Very arousing!

#1 Legendary Paypig Alert

My good boy and favorite paypig, Dr x, continues his addiction, and even this standout week, he was a standout, not only going nuts on Niteflirt, but also Amazon! On Niteflirt he spent $6457 and on Amazon he spent $2465 to total $8922. He spends all along, but My blog post on hiding the addiction from the wife got into his head and he and I did a nice blowout session!.

He shows Me again and again why he is My #1 slave, and he has served Me for a very long time. I know eventually, I will take every last penny. His business and retirement will likely support Me for years. Very nice!

Very Legendary Paypig Alert!

Now, this is a story. Like so many others, tPay got very turned on thinking about hiding his spending from his wife. He already had a credit card she didn’t know about, and I maxed it out one evening. So then I had the idea that he should take out a loan to pay off the card! (Plus some extra) Good boy tPay applied for a loan online (I even gave him the link!) and he was approved! Before you know it, he had the money in his bank, the card paid off and in a couple of short hours, I HAD TAKEN THE ENTIRE LOAN! So a few days later, he took out a SECOND LOAN! He spent some of that on Me before deleting his account in terror. But we ALL KNOW tPay will be back to spend the rest of that second loan on Me. What was the total? $6525. Just. YES! This is correct thinking!!

Legendary Paypig Alert!

Completely turned on by My blog about hiding your Financial Domination Addiction was special k, who taught Me a few more!

This is one—-> Here is another for guys who get reimbursed for their travel expense. (Planes hotels meals rental car etc). Put it on Your personal CC (you get the reward points) Have your reimbursement given to you in a check (most probs are anyway) but the. Cash the check and give the money to Lauren immediately or put it in your secret bank account t to give You later. You end up paying off the Cc for. The money that you presumably pay bills with, save, etc. This works well for me

There were others too and special k got so excited he spent $2965. YUMMMMMY

Extreme Paypig Alert! My devoted slave boomer hasn’t been able to stop spending more and more! I love it, but I was even surprised when I did the math on his spending this time. $1593.

Extreme Paypig Alert! I am very pleased to put My good girl marla in for an extreme paypig alert! This sweet sissy is one of My lifetime biggest spenders (getting close to $120K lifetime) Her spending this time around was $1290. Nice!!

Extreme Paypig Alert! Another extreme alert with My oink loser sissy! This sissy is working toward hitting the $20k lifetime spending level, and this time around she got $1255 closer! Well done!

Extreme Paypig Alert! My good boy PIG was another who fell deeply after the last blog entry. This pig is trauma bonded to the max! He just squeaked into an extreme mention, spending $1012

Extreme Paypig Alert! Another extreme mention for steve q fucked. He will never stop coming around to throw cash at Me. This is correct thinking. He spent $1175. Very nice!

Extreme Paypig Alert! Yet another extreme mention this time around was spawn! He just clicked and paid as I took and took. Before you know it, his spending had reached $1029. Soooo erotic.

My raise the rate puppet did another series of calls with Me, spending $235! I call him every vile name I can conjure up, and the loser pervert gets harder and harder and pays more and more. Too funny!

Huge Paypig Alert! My very good boy helpless dennis succumbed again and again to stroking to My perfect breasts. He spent $895!

My nylon slave worshiped regularly again, spending $222

Huge Paypig Alert! Continuing his pattern of ever increasing addiction is j the junkie, who spent $650 to get his red letter mention!

My good boy glue spent another $144. He is approaching the $2k level of spending already, despite being pretty new to My dangers.

Paypig Alert! Unable to stay away, craving bankruptcy was fruity. Before running away yet again in terror he spent $450 Very nice, he’ll be back

Sometimes when guys delete their account, not only do I lose their previous information, I sometimes can’t remember their blog name. That’s what happened to matt, who spent $175 this time, and I hope messages me his blog name so I can fix this 🙂

Huge Paypig Alert! I am very proud of irish dope for getting another huge paypig alert! He works hard to save money for our adorable sessions, and he cannot help his addiction to Me. I’m very proud of him.

My huge tits mesmerize pigbait. This time he spent $230. Nice!

Huge Paypig Alert! Ok, this is a story. My sissy, caged yankee deleted her account. Ok, this is commonplace, the piggies generally return. Except when she did return, she didn’t tell Me it was her, and pretended to be a new client! I’m pretty sure she did this because I have photos and other incriminating information on her. Except when she did My blackmail audio (Again!), she made a mistake and sent Me the same information and I recognized it! Imagine her horror when I figured it out, and send a photo of her dressed up pretty in her sissy outfit, to prove I knew it was her! *laughs* She spent $592 since the last post. Oh, this is the PTV that got her in trouble, it’s very popular

My special pawn stopped by to tell Me how he was leveraging himself to help build My networth, spending $210 on phone call

Huge Paypig Alert!

My good girl bambi and I had a lot of fun floating in pink clouds inside the hypnocabin! She spent $505 with Me having a grand old time!

Paypig Alert! My boyscout stopped by to spoil Me and lose his mind over My feet. He spent $323

My good boi wayne spend $118 wishing he could kiss My ass

Paypig Alert! I was pleasantly surprised to see My hypnoboy “weak4legs” spending $382 since the last alert! Is this your first red letter alert weak? I guess I do have a firm grip on your brainstem!

My assbitch spent $107! Very good!

Paypig Alert! Earning a red letter alert for the first time in a while is My good boy cosmos! He spent $404 and he exceeded the $2k level in lifetime spending. Nice!

It was wonderful to have grunter back under My sights, he surrendered $176 to Me, the good boy that he is.

Huge Paypig Alert! This is a funny story. Candyballs revealed an embarrassing fetish to Me (I’m not even going to tell you what it is) and I completely took advantage of his fetish to leverage $790 out of him. The funny part was that he kept sending money when I was offline and deleting his account, so I couldn’t answer his emails. Then he would just make another the next day. Over the past couple of weeks, he has spent money on at least NINE different accounts. His feeble attempts to run didn’t matter at all! He spent a total of $790 on all these different accounts. SO funny!

My good boy Lauren’s footlicker spent $110 on Niteflirt and $119 on Amazon presents for a total of $229, very nice!

Huge Paypig Alert! My good girl buffy is really trying to NOT go bankrupt, and she did manage to cut back sending Me $$$ a week bit. Still sent Me $571. I’m willing to let her breathe a bit before I lead her into bankruptcy. I think I will let this process last for years! She’s not going anywhere.

My good boy mind-controlled john spent $255. He’s very close to a lifetime spending amount of 10K!

My “nf client” spent $235

My good boy, quiet gentleman spent another $249 on Me. The addiction is real.

Another having trouble staying away is humble john. He spent $159.

My good boy button did some more click and pay for $151, always nice to see.

I’ve written how I’m taking down a Masturbation Game I’ve had up for over a year now, so that I can write a new game.  One that will be unlike any game you’ve ever played.  I’m conceptualizing it now..Trying to decide what goodies to put in. It’s going to be part maze, part mind fuck, part scavenger hunt and part tease and denial, and part treasure hunt.

The object is of course, to hook you in, make you click and click and spend a small fortune on me.  Sometimes I’ve been surprised at what will make a guy click and what makes him walk away. We will see what I’ve learned 🙂

You have to buy this on Niteflirt.  So if you’re not on it, go join.

If you are not already on NF….you should join from this link….you will get three free minutes to call me as well,  click here

And after you join…you can play this Mindfuck Game that I designed for weak men.
That would be you. I’m not ordinary, I find many ways to exploit men. Sometimes I do it through automated means, which I think it hilarious.

I set the game out like a trap.  And submissive men just wander in and set it off…

Don’t believe me? Go see.

This blog is for anyone curious about the inner workings of a Financial Dominant.

I do not speak for all, but I do speak for myself.

I came across this fetish backwards. I have been a lifestyle Dominant in my local BDSM scene for years, its part of my relationship style. I came to know myself as having a deep sadistic side. It didn’t satisfiy me to just to hurt someone physically, I enjoyed orchastrating the mind fuck on my slaves and submissives. I enjoyed making them face dark things about human kind and themselves. I loved making them weep and kissing their tears away. I did not and still do not practice money exchange for live play.

Some years later, I came to explore my BDSM fetish as a telephone fem-dom on the predecesor to Niteflirt.com, a site called Keen (It still exists, but no longer offers adult services). I did this on a very part time basis, for extra money as I drudged off to work like most wage slaves every day.

By the summer of 2007 I was ready for life changes. I quit my job as a wage slave and relocated to a community I had made connections in and loved. My original plan was to take Niteflirt calls to earn money until I found a job.

Something amazing happened. Since suddenly I was available regularly, it only took a matter of weeks before I had built up a clientele so strong that it no longer made sense to return to a “regular” job. It didn’t take long for me to begin to deeply appreciate not only the income I was earning but the absolute flexiblity of controlling my hours and when I worked and had both the time and money to vacation as I wished.

Like most Niteflirt girls, I create a listing in financial domination, really having little clue as to what it was about, but figuring “it can’t hurt’ No one ever calls it.

Skip ahead a few weeks, and I get a lovely call on my regular Mistress listing from a lovely man that I immediately connect with. He begins calling me several times a day, and it comes to light that he has a fetish for financial domination. I pay close attention, and its not long before the sadist within awakens and responds to the money masochist. I take him to the edge financially many times over the course of the following weeks. A piece of me has pangs of regret, I have come to enjoy him and his calls. We get deeper and deeper, as he liquidates asset after asset to satisfy our mutual need.

Eventually, I break him, alas, the fetish turned out to be stronger than my affection for him. I cannot stop and he cannot stop Me. Him maxing out his credit cards with no means of paying them off easily stops the train.

Around this time, I start attracting more money slaves , and I realize that each contact leads me deeply aroused. Most of my fantasies now revolve around using men for money, to the point of causing them financial distress.

Am I a piranha? Well, piranhas are predators that swarm in a group. I work alone, so I would have to say. No.

Am I a vulture? Vultures pick apart dead carrion to the bones. I prefer lively prey with meat on the bones. So once again, I have to say, No.

I am a woman with a fetish for a power exchange. A woman who now lives a good life living that fetish.