Category — losers

Wallets open by Magic

It sure seems like that sometimes!
But the truth is, I am a “master” of weaving men into an addiction.

I confessed to a couple of slaves this week, that to become this powerful at drawing men under My dangerous spell, I studied.

The nature of addiction in general, and sexual addictions in particular.

I also studied the nature of abusive relationships.  How do abusers gain control over their victims, and why is it so difficult for the victim to leave?

I completely understand the dynamics of this, and consciously and intentionally apply the principles that will make it difficult, if not impossible for you to stop paying Me. (until you have no way to to do it) Talk about a mindfuck/mindrape!

Ask Fledgling Slave, who is now 13th on my active all time Spender Loser List, mostly in the last 4-6 weeks.   The only slave I can recall rising more swiftly was Loserbeast, about this time last year.   He is begging Me to stop exploiting him, but still he emails Me several times a day and buys what I send him.   He likes to stroke and pay during our sessions, which of course I encourage with all sorts of games and it makes him go into a “i can’t stop clicking and paying” fugue.   I’m not sure he’s really responsible for his actions at this point, but I don’t  give a fuck, it’s fun and profitable.

oh And ask Guinea Pig slave, who I don’t blog about often, but he hovers between 3rd and 4th on My all time list, a five figure spender.  When I have a new technique to try, it’s Guinea Pig Slave who is usually the one I experiment on  He is hopelessly in love with Me, despite starting out with no interest in Financial Domination whatsoever.  The poor worm can’t enjoy cumming without Me anymore.   Isn’t that funny?

Ask tPay, who spent thousands this summer on Me, and can’t stay away, is just trying to figure out how to pay Me.   He’s started scrimping and saving to pay off credit cards faster, but that is a slow route, and I want him to take out the line of credit he already has set up on a rental property he owns. (wouldn’t that be sooo much faster to pay off the credit card?)  I think he will cave in, perhaps when he reads this.  Good boy tPay–be an inspiration to those aspiring money slaves out there! Remember your mantra tPay–“Bankruptcy for Lauren”

Now, as I have said before, I have been crazy busy, and haven’t had time lately to release many PTVs, but I did manage to pull together this very hypnotic photo set.

Go buy it now

First of all, I disappeared for a few days with an unexpected emergency for my little dog that required a long drive in the middle of the night to the specialist she needed to see. I was actually in the middle of this post, when she was injured, and just today got to return to it.  She is doing much better, and I can now return to the business at hand.

Wallet rape Mmmm

I know a few of you kept looking for this post, so here it is, better late than never.

Everytime I log on, the men start lining up for wallet rapes.

tPay’s big rape a couple of weeks ago inspired other men to allow Me to empty their wallet.

Of note, was Fledgling Loser (Perhaps that boy needs a new name, he’s turning into a veteran wallet worm!) He sacrificed to Me to the tune of close to 2K, with over $1600 in one mindless rape, that started with him talking about people getting addicted to Facebook Games, and spending a few hundred.  He supposed that much of what happens with Me, is much like people playing candy crush.

So I happily played a game of  CandyWallet Rape, with Candy Wallet Crush levels, and changed the photo set every time he was ready for a new “level”  $1600 later, he realized how addictive sessions with Me could be. 🙂
Yum

Another slave of note is new to My blog, and I shall call him Redwing the Cash Bird.  Redwing just keeps clicking and paying on My series, and then sends a tribute after each one! (Those add up!).  His spending in the last month has been in excess of $1000.  Well done Redwing!

Money Slave Trap

That is what My new web page is going to be.   Drawing men in with their fetishes, and taking advantage of their inclinations to condition them into a new fetish….the Financial Domination fetish of course!

Men already attracted to FinDommes will love My page, but so will the feet and legs men, and the humiliation pigs, and the sissies and the naturally submissive men, and I will expose them to My covert conditioning and before you know it, they are handing everything over to ME 🙂 Yum.

As to the website, I have been busy at work but it has been much slower than I hoped. I hate to say I’m pushing back the date, but I’m pushing it back to at least July 15th. I want it to be amazing.

In other news…

I’ve been busy as usual with wallet rapes  I have a couple of regular pantyhose slaves who have been dropping hundreds and hundreds of dollars on a regular basis.  So nice.

And the training on one neophyte money slave I will call “Fledgling Loser” has been coming along really well.  I’ve turned him on to the humiliation of being a pay pig and he is addicted.

Last night I found this email from him that he wrote back in April

I really love your blog. When I first discovered it just a few weeks ago it really opened my eyes as to just how deep some guys go!

I’m dreadfully curious how someone ends up spending $900 dollars on you when they don’t mean to. Of course, I’m also a little afraid to ask in case you *show* me first hand. That would be a bit much for me I’m afraid.

Well, he is a little “less curious” and more experienced now, as last night and this morning,  this “dreadfully curious” slave dropped $700 on Me.   (Not quite the $900 as he recounts in his email, but pretty healthy (unhealthy?)  nevertheless.

Welcome to your new life, Fledgling Loser!

I also want to turn you all on to a newer PTV series I have that is filled with captioned humiliating photos!  I have ideas for new ones coming out soon as well, but meanwhile check these out!

The two seem to go hand and hand…
It is a rare Financial Domination addict that doesn’t crave the humiliation a FinDomme can dish out when feeling particularly vicious.
And that is part of the joy for Me, I mean, I don’t have the time or inclination to humiliate and degrade losers for nothing (That line would be very fucking long), but a good wallet rape has a little extra jolt to it when I get to really shred Loser psyche.

In general a good humiliation session includes the following.

1. It’s personalized. There is really no “one size fits all” way to do it. The best sessions come when I know what causes a slave to FEEL the erotic shame, and that experience is going to vary. (Thankfully, it would become dismally fucking boring for Me otherwise). Sometimes its something the slave tells Me, that I run with…or something I say that I intuitively know has created an erotic rush that I can go with.

So go ahead..tell Me something embarrassing that I can use against you. Be rest assured that I will explore it with angles and perspectives you never dreamed of.

2. It has unique elements to it. Even if the theme is the same, I love to spin it a little differently each time. I like to branch out and create NEW humiliations for you too Often the brand new humiliating thing is the most effective.

3. It is most powerful combined with kindness and/or humor. Counter-intuitive? Not really, it is the contrast that makes it so effective! Imagine this:

Me: Hello! I can’t stop thinking about you and wondering about your cock, I’m so happy you called today!

you: Really? You’ve been thinking about my cock?

Me: Yes! and I have ALL kinds of really kinky ideas about it…I couldn’t wait to tell you about them!  I’ve been fantasizing what it looks like

you: ohhhh tell me

(see first the build up…and then WHAM)

Me: Well, I’m thinking that it probably is  fairly small and soft looking, and would look really adorable in a pink ribbon, and for you to wear that as you pay Me today…so you’ll be loser with a pink ribbon!

4. It’s combined with wallet rape.  I mean I *am* a FinDomme   This gives Me a chance to make fun of you for paying Me lots of cash to humiliate you too, adding ANOTHER layer to the wallet rape and the humiliation.   And..best of all, it will help cement your addiction.

Pay Loser Pay

I’ve really been meaning to blog more often, but the truth is that lately, almost the moment I sign on I am bombarded with emails and calls from My junkies, all needing to spend on Me for their fix.

It’s been sooo profitable and wonderful, all of those marvelous wallet fucks have left Me in such a state of almost constant arousal!  Some rapes deserve a little extra mention.

Of note is a Loser I am thinking of as wallet bimbo..he really started of a bit pesky with email after email, which naturally I began charging for.  This is a loser who just can’t stay away.  Each time he reappears with a new handle, but his “voice” is distinctive in his emails, and before you know it, he’s paying cash for empty emails that I tell him are  a tax on a surcharge surcharge email, for sending me a two word email. This all sounds silly, but in the last week or so, I’ve milked him for about $950 bucks 🙂

And we have worm,  a pathetic loser who is getting addicted to the way big fat pay mails make him feel.  To that I say Yay!   A rough calculation shows he has spent about $350 on me this week

The iFool made an appearance briefly. I fucked him for $200 really really fast and he fled in terror.  He will be back. Weak willed submissive fools always return.

Oh, and I know how much some of you love reading slave letters, so I thought I would share this one from addicted n

Mistress Lauren,

I have been listening to your slideshow as directed.

I keep thinking of your words. I left feedback. As mentioned, I have no interest in any other flirts on NF. They really have no significance to me, so some conditioning is definitely working. I only look on NF hoping for emails from you Mistress.

I try not to worry Mistress as you say and want to be a good boy, so keep repeating what you tell me to say in the slideshow. I had to get money out of my savings for the last cc bill, so it was scary and hurt but it made my cock hard.

The secret parts of my mind are the property of Mistress Lauren. That means you can know anything and everything you want, because it is yours? It makes my cock hard to think of this.

All that I am is yours. But wont I be broken? It is scary. Yet I hear you say not to worry in my mind, and it makes me feel weak and hard.

I loved your previous POV pictures ‘addiction’. Do you have more mistress? Like your previous POV set ‘enrapture’ that I found so weakening. I just want to worhip looking at the crease in your panties…..

(name changed for privacy)

Yes addicted n, you may be broken, and it may be scary, but it will be the biggest rush of your life..

Now addicted n referred to a recording..This is something I have not done previously, a VERY long recording. It’s some 31 minutes, filled with multiple tracks and hypnotic audio. Your life will never be the same.

you too can have your mind warped by it..buy it now

And I am sooo excited because I splurged with your cash and got a custom fitted red latex dress, and of course I did a photo shoot in it. See the photos here, you’ll probably lose control and beg for more

and all of you foot junkies have been begging for more PTVs, so have no fear (or perhaps you should), here is a series of some of My best foot shots ever!

Begin here

So click and pay junkies!  Maybe you’ll get your name in My blog next

Wow, its been too long since I’ve blogged!  I was gone for part of March, on a hiking trip in Utah.   I had planned to update My blog and answer emails, but the resort I was staying at was blocking both sites, I guess the resort was owned by some Mormons who didn’t think porn should be viewed on their Wi-Fi.  Oops.  If only they knew how I got the money to pay them!   No matter, I got a good break from the computer, enjoyed the delicious outdoor air and got plenty of exercise.  And days went by without Me even glancing at the computer, it was a well needed respite.

Since I have come back, I’ve been busy with all you boys and sissies who were missing Me.   Of note was a nice Friday night rape of the iFool.  (His first name begins with “i” and I know he keeps refreshing My blog to look for this)  The funny thing is that he is sooo angry at spending over $900 on Me Friday, that he thinks I’m the most evil Woman that ever lived.   I might be, but just between you and Me, I actually enjoy his rants at how I’ve destroyed him.  It appeals to My inner sadist.   I’m tempted to put the iFool’s real name and his girlfriends name and email up here, just to thumb My nose at him, but the loser would probably cream his panties over it.  So iFool,, I’m waiting to hear from you again.  I think you need another 1K lesson and both you and I know that the hard on it gives you is unlike anything else!

So in other news, I’ve released a few new PTVs…be sure you see them!

This is a killer photo set from a recent shoot, I LOVE these pantyhose…(more available in My private collection–as always–just ask)

Before I went on vacation I released this killer series….it begins with a slideshow, with one of My audios FILLED with subliminal suggestions to take control of you.  The first slideshow is only $8, that’s a bargain for you. (or is it?)

And for the foot lovers among you, a nice little photo set.   And be aware, I have an extremely large collection of foot photos….stilettos, mules, barefeet, stocking feet, pantyhose, …be afraid but be  brave and ask!

I do LOVE being a Financial Domme.

Why?

Is it the money? Well, that’s part of it.  This is indeed a very good living, but far more importantly, it rings true with My authentic self–a Woman who needs to be in charge.  Note that I didn’t say I “like” to be in charge, I actually “need” to be in charge.  This is the only vocation I have ever had in which *I* am in charge.

I have the control.  I have the power.  I do not answer to a boss, and I decide what hours I am going to devote to this pastime.  I sleep and eat and vacation when and where I want.  Working for others for a wage, didn’t resonate with Me.  I had to conform to other’s expectations, and I did not like that game one little bit, and My bosses knew it!  I made for a pretty unruly employee.

I had already dabbled in BDSM in My personal life, and found I loved being a Dominant Woman.  I did not begin as a Financial Domme, in fact I never heard of Financial Slavery my first couple of years.  I learned to swing a flogger and a single-tail whip. I learned all about Japanese rope bondage and spanking and cock and ball torture and face-sitting.  I learned how to feminize a submissive sissy and how to make My female slave cum on command in the grocery store (yes really).

So when I was in need of a little supplementation of income, I began dabbling on the site that would evolve into Niteflirt to earn money in the world of phone sex.  I didn’t have much time and did it really part time. I did a little modeling too, and tried different things–saving money to someday accomplish My dreams.

in 2007,  I truly needed a change, so I planned a move and to quit My job.  I worked Niteflirt more intensely, saving for the move. I learned about the fetish of financial domination, and began studying it, it seemed intriguing to Me. (and profitable!). My original plan was to find another job working for a wage after I moved, but having the time to truly develop My websites and Niteflirt listings, and doing photo shoots, I found I made lots more money as a phone Mistress than I ever did working, and I never looked back.  It was in 2007 that I really entered the stage of Financial Domination, and as a fetish it was the most satisfying one I had ever tried.

This is why.  When I spank or whip a slave, they are in pain while I’m doing it, and maybe for a short time afterwards, and its AWESOME, feeding My Inner Sadist. But when a slave gives Me cash, “especially” more than he can afford…that lasts.  Tomorrow I will still have his cash.  Next week I will.  I will enjoy all the items that I buy with his money, and he will only have a bill. (If My training goes as expected, that bill will give him an erection, and he will seek Me out again!)

So this long post all led to an idea.

It’s really common in the FinDomme world to see women with buttons that say.  Pay My Rent! Or Pay My cell phone bill!  I haven’t done that, because it doesn’t really turn Me on…I get something yes, but I don’t really get the pleasure of knowing how My shenanigans have effected My slave’s lifestyle (and that’s what I love to know)

So instead I thought…wouldn’t it make sense to charge men to sacrifice for Me, instead?  They give Me the cash, and also, consciously skip doing something they enjoy.  So that I have both the cash, AND the concrete knowledge that they don’t get to have something they enjoy JUST so that I can ..a. enjoy their cash  and b.  Enjoy the fact that they don’t’ have it!

So instead of the traditional Tribute buttons,

I present…Sacrifice buttons! In the $5 you agree to pay Me $5 AND give up a latte or $5 worth of coffee…

For a $10 sacrifice, you will give up lunch out, and skip it, or brownbag it instead.

For a $25 dollar sacrifice, you’re going to stay home instead of going out with the guys.

And note..you’re not ONLY sending Me the cash, you are agreeing to give up something that costs

that amount!

Want to spend more?  No problem.  Click this button, fill in the tribute amount, and describe to Me what you are going to do without for Me.  A weekend out?  New golf clubs?   Your vacation?  To all I say YUM

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In other news…

I must give a special blog mention to a returning slave….ca$h pig brian, who celebrated his return to Me by spending an unprecedented $740!  Well done brian!  He left Niteflirt, solely to avoid spending on Me…and he found his craving was unbearable, and when he came back, I was the beneficiary of a delicioius binge.

And…not too many details I want to share yet, but I have been being called three times now by a man who has decided that his wife is now My money slave.  He makes her kneel in the corner, and takes photos of her for Me, and uses her credit card to pay Me and jerks off to My photos, telling his wife that I am more beautiful than her and I deserved her money.  Hearing her sob in the background was really HOT. She is kind of like a female cuckhold, and I am like the “bull”. I hope I get more calls like that!

So stop reading now, and decide what *you* are going to sacrifice to serve Me……I can’t wait to hear about it.

I have had so many of you begging Me to blog more often. Even though I know some of you just want the jerk material of reading about My conquests, I know that it makes so many of you vulnerable to My predations.

I really would like to blog more often, but so often, it seems like I come online, and so many of you are just waiting for Me, with wallets in hand.   Sometimes I choose between blogging and wallet rape.  It’s not rocket science to know which I pick (and should pic!)

But I do know that blogging is a tool that I have in My repertoire to help train susceptible men into their transformation as My  money slave.  Even now, there is a very good chance that you are sitting there, almost without doubt sporting a stone stiff  cock, and very likely fondling it.   Excellent!  This behavior helps condition you to take sexual pleasure in the thought of financial ruin at My hands.  Pavlov would be so proud!

So who did My blog bring down since the last post?  Well scotch scotty lost control when he read about himself here and called Me right away in marathon session that cost him nearly $700. And he pretty much has admitted to Me that I do things to him he has never even heard of in our intense phone sessions. He was so far gone that he couldn’t even cum *laughs*   Pretty pathetic huh?  He’s turning into a pretty fun money slave for Me!

Another one that returned after I blogged about him was “g-man” now known as g-wimp  This is priceless.  I sent g-wimp email after email….raising the price each time until we reached up to a $700 emails.  Twice he had to stop to get his credit card company to lift a block on adding more $$$ to his Niteflirt account, but he did it anyway.   Quite amusingly, he begged Me to stop sending him emails at one point, he couldn’t afford them.  Well…any of you that know Me, know I never stop sending the emails…..as long as you pay them *laughs*   and well he kept paying them. He got on the phone with Me for the last several, paying the final $700 one on the phone with Me.

Well, he spent an ADDITIONAL $3400 dollars (Total of over $4000).  I don’t remember any slave getting off to this fast a start since Loserbeast last summer.

Here is the BEST part.  The next day, g-wimp has the nerve to write Me this. Loser

I’m sorry to ask for this Mistress, but is there any way I can get some of the money back? I have spent way too much and I don’t know what I’m going to do.

Now that was about the funniest thing I read all week, and even *if* I could return $$ he spent on Me on Niteflirt (and there isn’t a way to do that), I wouldn’t, because he didn’t deserve it. You know, if any man is weak enough to surrender 4 grand he doesn’t have, why should I enable him to do it all over again with a different Domme?  *laughs*

And with the cash, I booked Myself a nice little spa resort vacation in March, in a warm place I can hike in and relax and get away from the New England weather.  Thanks g-wimp!

And coming later this week, a deadly series I call “Milked”   there will be a really addictive click and pay series that I’m going to make a killing on because these images will make you lose control.

This is Me thinking about how I’m going to be doing sooo many fuckovers with these photos

This is a metaphor for what I’m going to do to your wallet

Once I get My claws into a man, they just can’t seem to escape Me.  Most try, and some manage to stay away for a time, even a year…before being drawn back in again.

I got this letter this week from a slave

Dear Mistress Lauren,

over the years I have joined and quit NF several times, and you are pretty much the only findom who’s been able to keep it interesting. (I tend to buy a few things, feel guilty, quit, and then come back.) Your pics are just fing too good, very suggestive and erotic, but still somehow demure, and very teasing, taunting and appetizing, making a guy want more and more.

When I distance myself a bit I realize you simply have a great business going, raking it in, coming out with new products, occasional sales, good promotion. But your business is pushing men’s buttons, holding their little balls till them can’t help responding and gently squeezing till they get incrementally excited, wanting and oblivious to the cost, just needing more. You’re good at what you do, but of course you know it and love it.

And being kind of sadistic, not just wanting money but wanting to squeeze those balls till they suffer, have nothing left and are emptied and regret their total fucking stupidity and lack of control…somehow that just makes you more enticing, and you obviously know that telling them how you are going to totally fuck them over, is your way of being a coquette and adding excitement.

I thought that letter was pretty on target for My goals for all My weak little puppets. I tenderize you, and then I chew you up and spit you out to do again another day.

Some notable slaves this week.   “Sunburst slave”  (Name changed to protect their privacy) showed up for another out of control round of click and pay.  I always love being surprised by finding out that a slave has been paying and paying while I slumber.  Sunburst went through My new series and spending $270 while I was dreaming of luxurious and indulgent things.

Also, my no nonsense “young gun” also surprised Me with middle of the night spending this week, to the tune of a few hundred over several sessions.

And then, My biggest spender of the week, was Smelly.  (once again, name changed for blogging reasons) Smelly has a really strong foot fetish, and a love of what My voice does for him. He spent hundreds, maybe even as much as a grand this past week, on custom made audios that just made him week.  I gave him little mantras to repeat as he stared at My photos and admired My strong legs, and reprogrammed him to only get hard for Lauren. He bought pay mails as big as $200, just to please Me….(all of you take a lesson here)

A couple of times this week, it become apparent to Me, that many of you are purchasing My paymails on your cell/mobile phones, and need a way to see if your device is compatible with My slideshows and videos.

So I made two very short clips in the two formats My clips are in…(wmv and mp4) so you can download them on your phone to test…it’s free (You don’t need to pay the ten cent payment request, that’s just  the only way I have to deliver a NF email into your box at a click)

So now you can see if you can view My stuff right on your phone. And if  you can’t, google and you may find a way for your phone to handle it

First of all….
I have designs on your wallet, as usual. I want you to feel the weakness…..

Good, now buy the slideshow….a price designed to addict you

I can’t wait until you become helpless…like other have this week.

We have a special little cuck, who seems to have fallen back into the money slave ways that he thought he left behind
He tells Me he spent thousands years ago on a different Mistress.

This fall will be further, and of course, *I* am the Mistress who will make him fall.

And then there is Stiletto lover. Who made the mistake of requesting an hypnotic audio.  He had NO idea what was going to befall him, and now he can only get hard for Me…

And My little stroke puppet, who spent this week begging Me to make him addictive slideshows.  And he ended up paying A LOT more than he ever dreamed he would.  This loser has been MINE for years now, but this week it went to a deeper level.  Mmmm

Who will be next in My blog?
You?