Brainwashing Feels so Good!

On the surface, it doesn’t seem like brainwashing involves pleasure, it seems like a technique to bend people to the will of the person in control.

My brainwashing often results in such financial pain for My subjects, that it’s not unreasonable to ask oneself “why?” Why would submissives end up spending such large amounts of money on Me, that they can’t seem to stop?

There is a secret to effective brainwashing, and that is in the element of pleasure. (More on that in a moment)

If I am able to brainwash you, it’s because you get something out of it. (This can possibly be subconscious, but a thoughtful person will be able to admit the truth to himself)

I make no secret about using such techniques that result in Me having some control over you. Sometimes it’s just a small amount of control, and sometimes it’s an impressive amount of control.

Here is a truth bomb. Brainwashing fulfills some deep need on the part of the subject.

What deep need? It can be many things, it’s not uncommon for My subjects to become deeply addicted to the mind-blowing powerful orgasms that are triggered by My methods.

It might speak more to some slaves that they have a personal character trait of being a pleaser, of a deep-seated need to please a Dominant Woman. This gives Me an “in” to brainwash them.

Alternatively, it might have more to do with your own secret needs, it’s common for Me to find out a long-time slave has a desire to be a sissy, or to suck cock for example. (This is not universal, if you don’t have that need, brainwashing won’t always create it). Sometimes it’s a desire to get out of their existing marriage/relationship, but they lack the gumption to do it, so they try to sabotage their relationship by forming a bond with Me or by devastating their finances so much that their partner exits.

Quite often, it is a combination effect, an intersection of your needs colliding in such a way that it makes you easy prey for My predation!

I do warn every client that I am dangerous and lack mercy, so if you find yourself caught in a payloop, it’s your own fault!

Other Matters

New Niteflirt Feature! Recurring Tributes.

I am THRILLED with this.

This exciting new feature allows you to arrange a monthly tribute to be sent automatically to Me! So exciting, so you can just commit to regularly supporting your Mistress’s extravagant lifestyle. When you tribute normally, you can see a tab to select to make it a monthly tribute. If you want to do a weekly tribute, just do a recurring one 4 weeks in a row, and that’s close enough 🙂

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Recent Pay-to-views to buy

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The Fuckover Report

I have been soooo busy in the three weeks since the last blog entry. Do you see your name here? If you have forgotten your “blog name” drop Me a Niteflirt mail to ask!

There are a lot of really big spenders, what an exciting fuckover report this has been! I have three Legendary spenders and four Extreme spenders on this report. In the three weeks since I have last blogged, you pigs have spent more than $16,000! Well done!

Legendary Paypig Alert!

The most impressive of alerts this week goes to “just another atm” who channeled his ATM nature to provide Me with tons of cash, much of it during My little mini vacation! It included a $999 tribute while I was still away. The total was quite impressive and cock hardening coming to $3756!

So well done ATM, welcome to the Legendary club!

Legendary Paypig Alert!

My weak paypig, steve q fucked lost his head sending tributes to Me as I made him weaker and weaker. POP goes the cash! He spent $2525 on his cash binge!

Legendary Paypig Alert!

My sissy, little tigress really made Me happy with her PTV and tribute spending and I am so proud of her! She always does her best with cheer and makes Me feel loved! She spent $2259! I couldn’t be happier!

Extreme Paypig Alert! Just missing a Legendary alert was My good little honeybee, buffy/aka gigi. She could not help sending Me tribute after tribute and one evening got very carried away, sending hundreds of dollars on her path to likely eventual bankruptcy! She spent $1954

Extreme Paypig Alert! My devoted slave, helpless dennis demonstrated his devotion with cold hard cash, spending $1187 on pleasing Me

New Slave and Extreme Paypig Alert! I have a new slave who did his very best to please Me this past week! I’m calling this loser ‘zippo’ and that’s his value other than his service as a wallet to his New Queen. This loser was so easy to manipulate! And I got him to want an extreme mention, even though his wife is likely to be pissed off (Like I care about that!) He spent exactly $1000 to get his extreme mention! Maybe next time he’ll get a Legendary mention!

Extreme Paypig Alert! Another slave earning an extreme mention was tiny, who just meekly bought whatever pay-to-view I sent him, totalling $1069 since the last blog entry! Nice!

My sniffer called a few times to spend his mind into oblivion. He spent $236

Huge Paypig Alert! My very good sissy miss boomer called several times and spent on custom captioned photos as well, spending $875 to earn a huge paypig alert 🙂

My nylon slave couldn’t stay away, spending $174 on his Goddess addiction.

Huge Paypig Alert! Another very good boy was j the junkie, who continues his explemary service to his Mistress, with his devoted attentiveness. He spent $662 this time around on Niteflirt and $35 on Amazon for a total of $697

My leg paypig turned up after a hiatus, spending $155.

Huge Paypig Alert! My good girl marla called Me one day for a beautiful fuckover, spending $623. It was overdue!

My flipoff idiot earned a mention, spending $105

Paypig Alert! My PIG pleased Me a lot this time, spending $439, earning a paypig alert!

My sole lover earned a mention with $108 of mostly tributes. He LOVES My soles

Paypig Alert! My armpit slave squeaked in for a paypig alert spending exactly $300

My caged yankee sissy spent $151 on dangerous PTVs 🙂

New to the blog! This slave has been with Me awhile, finally earned a blog mention, and a blog name. He is henceforth known as pourquoi on the blog. He got caught up with My videos (so addictive!) and spent $171 Nice!

My good boy blödmann earned a mention, spending $129

My boyscout stopped by one night to spoil Me to the tune of $151

My simp, W, spent $200 in continuing his addiction

candyballs stopped by several times for Lauren worship, spending $207 in the process

Lauren’s footlicker spent $101 on Niteflirt and $26 on Amazon for a total of $127. Nice!

My oink loser sissy spent $450 on her march to get to her next spending goal. I know she won’t disappoint!