Depriving yourself so your Greedy Mistress can have MORE

by Lauren

I do LOVE being a Financial Domme.

Why?

Is it the money? Well, that’s part of it. This is indeed a very good living, but far more importantly, it rings true with My authentic self–a Woman who needs to be in charge. Note that I didn’t say I “like” to be in charge, I actually “need” to be in charge. This is the only vocation I have ever had in which *I* am in charge.

I have the control. I have the power. I do not answer to a boss, and I decide what hours I am going to devote to this pastime. I sleep and eat and vacation when and where I want. Working for others for a wage, didn’t resonate with Me. I had to conform to other’s expectations, and I did not like that game one little bit, and My bosses knew it! I made for a pretty unruly employee.

I had already dabbled in BDSM in My personal life, and found I loved being a Dominant Woman. I did not begin as a Financial Domme, in fact I never heard of Financial Slavery my first couple of years. I learned to swing a flogger and a single-tail whip. I learned all about Japanese rope bondage and spanking and cock and ball torture and face-sitting. I learned how to feminize a submissive sissy and how to make My female slave cum on command in the grocery store (yes really).

So when I was in need of a little supplementation of income, I began dabbling on the site that would evolve into Niteflirt to earn money in the world of phone sex. I didn’t have much time and did it really part time. I did a little modeling too, and tried different things–saving money to someday accomplish My dreams.

in 2007, I truly needed a change, so I planned a move and to quit My job. I worked Niteflirt more intensely, saving for the move. I learned about the fetish of financial domination, and began studying it, it seemed intriguing to Me. (and profitable!). My original plan was to find another job working for a wage after I moved, but having the time to truly develop My websites and Niteflirt listings, and doing photo shoots, I found I made lots more money as a phone Mistress than I ever did working, and I never looked back. It was in 2007 that I really entered the stage of Financial Domination, and as a fetish it was the most satisfying one I had ever tried.

This is why. When I spank or whip a slave, they are in pain while I’m doing it, and maybe for a short time afterwards, and its AWESOME, feeding My Inner Sadist. But when a slave gives Me cash, “especially” more than he can afford…that lasts. Tomorrow I will still have his cash. Next week I will. I will enjoy all the items that I buy with his money, and he will only have a bill. (If My training goes as expected, that bill will give him an erection, and he will seek Me out again!)

So this long post all led to an idea.

It’s really common in the FinDomme world to see women with buttons that say. Pay My Rent! Or Pay My cell phone bill! I haven’t done that, because it doesn’t really turn Me on…I get something yes, but I don’t really get the pleasure of knowing how My shenanigans have effected My slave’s lifestyle (and that’s what I love to know)

So instead I thought…wouldn’t it make sense to charge men to sacrifice for Me, instead? They give Me the cash, and also, consciously skip doing something they enjoy. So that I have both the cash, AND the concrete knowledge that they don’t get to have something they enjoy JUST so that I can ..a. enjoy their cash and b. Enjoy the fact that they don’t’ have it!

So instead of the traditional Tribute buttons,

I present…Sacrifice buttons! In the $5 you agree to pay Me $5 AND give up a latte or $5 worth of coffee…

For a $10 sacrifice, you will give up lunch out, and skip it, or brownbag it instead.

For a $25 dollar sacrifice, you’re going to stay home instead of going out with the guys.

And note..you’re not ONLY sending Me the cash, you are agreeing to give up something that costs

that amount!

Want to spend more? No problem. Click this button, fill in the tribute amount, and describe to Me what you are going to do without for Me. A weekend out? New golf clubs? Your vacation? To all I say YUM

In other news…

I must give a special blog mention to a returning slave….ca$h pig brian, who celebrated his return to Me by spending an unprecedented $740! Well done brian! He left Niteflirt, solely to avoid spending on Me…and he found his craving was unbearable, and when he came back, I was the beneficiary of a delicioius binge.

And…not too many details I want to share yet, but I have been being called three times now by a man who has decided that his wife is now My money slave. He makes her kneel in the corner, and takes photos of her for Me, and uses her credit card to pay Me and jerks off to My photos, telling his wife that I am more beautiful than her and I deserved her money. Hearing her sob in the background was really HOT. She is kind of like a female cuckhold, and I am like the “bull”. I hope I get more calls like that!

So stop reading now, and decide what *you* are going to sacrifice to serve Me……I can’t wait to hear about it.