What is Financial Domination?

Note:  I’m taking a break from writing a blog entry the week of 6/5, the blog will return next week 6/12, with an extra long spending report!  Lauren

What is Financial Domination anyway?

Although I know many of you reading this are very well versed in what Financial Domination is, I think that there may be those that are completely unfamiliar with what Financial Domination is, so this is a basic primer explaining.

Financial Domination is a sexual fetish, that is usually (but not always) a part of a Dominant/submissive BDSM relationship.

In a BDSM Dominant/submissive relationship, the submissive partner surrenders his/her/its power to the Dominant partner. This might manifest as a bondage and/or S/m relationship (like tying someone up and spanking them), or it might be more service oriented where the submissive partner (or slave), serves and pleases the Dominant in a variety of ways, by deferring to them, agreeing to certain modes of dress, (think of slutty clothing, or men in female clothing for example). It might involve body worship. (Such as kissing feet). Sexual humiliations are not uncommon.   There are hundreds of variations, all referred to as power exchanges, where one partner surrenders varying amounts of control or power to their Dominant partner.

One variation is Financial Domination, in which the Dominant partner demands money of their submissive partner. Money is, of course, a very concrete form of power. The fantasies about how a Dominant wrests that power are quite varied, but often involve themes around the natural superiority of the Dominant partner and/or various mind control scenarios.  This is the type I specialize in.

Some aficionados of the fetish are more submissive than others. Some love the surrender to The Woman, and how to best please Her. Many of these types serve one Mistress at a time, sometimes only One in their life.   Others just get off on the humiliation of having a woman take their cash.  That type tends to be a little less loyal in their Mistress choice, often serving a different one every session. (Their money spends well though)

It’s worth mentioning that a variation of this is the Sugar Daddy, where a man throws cash at a beautiful woman, because he can and it pleases him. I think of it as a sub-type of what is called in phone sex circles,  GFE, or the “girl friend experience” (I actually have a couple of clients that are better described as this, and their money spends just as well)

There is a vocabulary around Financial Domination.

FinDomme:  A Woman who specializes in this fetish. (FinDom for men and some women who prefer the term)

Paypig:   The man (or sissy or occasional woman) who spends

Rinsing:  The act of taking the cash, (Not usually used with long term slaves, but occasionally). It’s usually a pretty intense session, and requires the active participation of the Dominant

Click and pay:  That, as far as I can tell, was a term that became prevalent on Niteflirt, due to the ability to serially sell pay to views that go on and on in a series of emails that escalate in price as one goes on.  They don’t even require the presence of the Dominant, they can be enjoyed by the fetishist on their own schedule, knowing their chosen FinDomme gets the cash.

Wallet Rape/Cash Fuckover:   Pretty self-explanatory, those are sessions that run on the….expensive side.

Tribute:  The act of sending money, with nothing expected in return. They are often random and FinDommes deserve them.

Raise the Rate call:  This is a game played on the phone line. The paypig calls the Domme at Her usual rate, and begs Her to Raise it! (Or the Domme just decides to), the Domme raises the price the pig pays, hangs up and he must call again at a higher rate. It’s really fun and easy to get a major rinsing this way!

Financial Domination Etiquette:

One does not contact a FinDomme empty-handed. It is always better to pay Her something before contacting Her. The only acceptable question to ask before payment has to do with what types of payments She can take. If you are contacting Her on  a site that takes payments, like Niteflirt, you don’t get to ask this question.   A FinDomme can and will block you for wasting much of Her time.  It’s worth noting, that paying in the past doesn’t guarentee you Her attention in the future.

Also, if you are doing an online session and have to go. TELL Her, so she is not wasting Her time waiting for you to pay again.

Every week I finish My post with a little spending report, which paypigs have spent more than $100 on Me this week!

Let’s begin this week with Foot Fool, who spent nearly $300 in a couple little raise the rate sessions. So fast the cash goes that way!

Huge Paypig Alert!  My Philly Ass slave went nuts this week and spent $810 on delicious ass photos and a phone call. Oh, and he hit the $10,000 level of spending, becoming My newest 5 digit spender!

My paycub was generous with giftcards, for My upcoming vacation, spending $150 on them and another $75 for an Amazon gift card. (And $20 on NF too!)

Paypig Alert! Princess gigi kept her secure position as My #1 spender, by pleasing Me this week for $535 🙂 Good little virgin!

Also caught up in a little raise the rate game this week was tit fool, who spent $220 this week. Mmmmm Good fool!

Paypig Alert!  Also very busy this week for Lauren was Dr X, spending $439. I want My soldier to report again this week!

My elegant foot lover spend $135 this week. Yum He does love My toes!

Paypig Alert! My addicted slave paycunt was about this week, spending $605 on Me! I love it when he is on business trips and oh soooo vulnerable in those lonely hotel rooms!

Helpless dave gets a mention, with $109 in spending this week. I know he’s gonna cave on a big sesssion SOON.

Who is gonna get a mention next week?
You?